I think people are arguing different things.
I have no issue with how the NFL has handled the Vick situation. None. I realize the NFL has a new guy in charge so it is silly to compare how the league has treated different players for different crimes.
What I AM arguing is how the public has reacted. In no way, shape or form do I condone dog fighting. However I have heard numerous individuals demanding Vick be cut from the team or that he should be immediately banned from the league. THAT is where I take issue. The NFL can and will handle this matter as they see fit but for the public (you, me and every other average Joe) to be absolutely outraged over this while turning a relative blind eye to spousal abuse is disgusting.
Neither action is a virtue. Beating your wife or killing a dog, they are both actions that should be condemned. But if we're a society that believes it is actually BETTER to beat up on the woman you are with than it is to kill a dog, then we have our priorities completely out of whack and we should be entirely ashamed of ourselves.

This is the point I am making. I just can't understand the short memories of people. The sports world is flooded with habitual trouble makers, wife beaters, DUIer's who have killed (see Leonard Little), drug addicts and the like. Most of athletes who are associated with these indiscretions are still playing and drawing checks from their teams, sponsors and the fans are LOVING them (see Favre). We have a athlete accused of fighting and killing DOGS and his commissioner, his owner, most fans and the sponsors are basically washing their hands of the guy. Then in 6-8 months after being found not guilty, because I personally do not see 12 people in Richmond, VA convicting him, 3 of the 4 will come back like nothing ever happened. He will not play for ATL again, Blank is done with him. But I guarantee he will get a shot with another team (see talent).