I'll find outI'm 56 and I'm retiring in 20 months. I have a 13 YO and 16 YO boy so it'll be several years before they're both out of the house. So, it's not like I can just pick up and jet off somewhere.
I've been talking to my financial planner and reading the book "The New Retirementality" for insight. I know many people that retired before they were forced to for physical, medical, or mental issues, and nearly all of them returned to some sort of job.
And, per the book I just noted, the author points out that many people quickly find you can't golf, fish, or vacation every day. Retirees have a high incidence of alcoholism, among many other issues.
Lots to think about.
Not true. You can travel insanely cheap and go to stunning beautiful places if you do it right. The 3 biggest keys are booking last minute, going to off-the-beaten-path places (Costa Rica, Roatan, Belize, DR, Mexico, etc) and going during the off-season.What do you plan on doing each day in retirement?
I think the typical answer is either travel (well, you can't travel every day unless you are very well off) or to do nothing. If nothing is your answer, what does that mean (lots of tv, computer, gym, etc???)
you could also go the rv routeNot true. You can travel insanely cheap and go to stunning beautiful places if you do it right. The 3 biggest keys are booking last minute, going to off-the-beaten-path places (Costa Rica, Roatan, Belize, DR, Mexico, etc) and going during the off-season.What do you plan on doing each day in retirement?
I think the typical answer is either travel (well, you can't travel every day unless you are very well off) or to do nothing. If nothing is your answer, what does that mean (lots of tv, computer, gym, etc???)
I plan to travel and fish a lot.
Yes, very good. I'll have a bloody mary, a steak sandwich, and.. a steak sandwich.2:30 - goto the tennis club?
Before I retired I was obsessed. Every day I tracked and updated to see how close I was to retiring.8:30-9:00 - check my investments and see how the market is doing.
I play a lot of golf
This is one of the things I'm really looking forward too.. you always hear about those people that got a great deal last minute.. or get a great deal flying on weird days... or like in Vegas how it's practically free to stay Sunday to Thursday because all the traffic is Friday and Saturday.Not true. You can travel insanely cheap and go to stunning beautiful places if you do it right. The 3 biggest keys are booking last minute, going to off-the-beaten-path places (Costa Rica, Roatan, Belize, DR, Mexico, etc) and going during the off-season.What do you plan on doing each day in retirement?
I think the typical answer is either travel (well, you can't travel every day unless you are very well off) or to do nothing. If nothing is your answer, what does that mean (lots of tv, computer, gym, etc???)
I plan to travel and fish a lot.
pretty much my plan.I'm 56 and I'm retiring in 20 months. I have a 13 YO and 16 YO boy so it'll be several years before they're both out of the house. So, it's not like I can just pick up and jet off somewhere.
I've been talking to my financial planner and reading the book "The New Retirementality" for insight. I know many people that retired before they were forced to for physical, medical, or mental issues, and nearly all of them returned to some sort of job.
And, per the book I just noted, the author points out that many people quickly find you can't golf, fish, or vacation every day. Retirees have a high incidence of alcoholism, among many other issues.
Lots to think about.
I used to be obsessed as well. The day I hired an outstanding Financial Planner it all changed. Now, I meet with him once a quarter to go over results and strategies, and I never even fret about it beyond that. Best move we ever made.Before I retired I was obsessed. Every day I tracked and updated to see how close I was to retiring.8:30-9:00 - check my investments and see how the market is doing.
The day I retired a switch went off and I no longer cared anywhere near as much. I check at best once a month now.
Realistically, how much will this cost you each week?I play a lot of golf![]()
I play an obscene amount of golf. Clubs in hand at least five days a week.
Neighbors bought one of those luxury ($400k) tour bus like things and were gone all winter. Came back and they hardly have even gone in the house, still living out of the RV. Damn thing is nice. Pretty sure their house will be on the market soon and that thing will be their "house" for the foreseeable future.you could also go the rv routeNot true. You can travel insanely cheap and go to stunning beautiful places if you do it right. The 3 biggest keys are booking last minute, going to off-the-beaten-path places (Costa Rica, Roatan, Belize, DR, Mexico, etc) and going during the off-season.What do you plan on doing each day in retirement?
I think the typical answer is either travel (well, you can't travel every day unless you are very well off) or to do nothing. If nothing is your answer, what does that mean (lots of tv, computer, gym, etc???)
I plan to travel and fish a lot.
Same with me. As I moved into retirement, I did not understand the bond world well enough so we hired a planner to take care of generating the retirement income. It has worked out well so far.I used to be obsessed as well. The day I hired an outstanding Financial Planner it all changed. Now, I meet with him once a quarter to go over results and strategies, and I never even fret about it beyond that. Best move we ever made.Before I retired I was obsessed. Every day I tracked and updated to see how close I was to retiring.The day I retired a switch went off and I no longer cared anywhere near as much. I check at best once a month now.8:30-9:00 - check my investments and see how the market is doing.
Interesting.I used to be obsessed as well. The day I hired an outstanding Financial Planner it all changed. Now, I meet with him once a quarter to go over results and strategies, and I never even fret about it beyond that. Best move we ever made.Before I retired I was obsessed. Every day I tracked and updated to see how close I was to retiring.8:30-9:00 - check my investments and see how the market is doing.
The day I retired a switch went off and I no longer cared anywhere near as much. I check at best once a month now.
Most of the bonds I wanted to get into had buyins way above what I could afford. Once I found out that by using a planner, I could get into specific bonds, the choice to move became easier.Interesting.I used to be obsessed as well. The day I hired an outstanding Financial Planner it all changed. Now, I meet with him once a quarter to go over results and strategies, and I never even fret about it beyond that. Best move we ever made.Before I retired I was obsessed. Every day I tracked and updated to see how close I was to retiring.The day I retired a switch went off and I no longer cared anywhere near as much. I check at best once a month now.8:30-9:00 - check my investments and see how the market is doing.
I couldn't do it (or at least i don't think i could)
I feel like I know more than most of those guys do and just don't feel like they could accomplish anything for me, and I'd be offended paying someone that knew less than I did on the subject.
I'm going to start here.Retirees have a high incidence of alcoholism
Voiceovers? That's pretty cool. You should do a separate thread at some point about this.We've travelled a lot in the past 20+ years so we'll probably cut back when we retire. Our ultimate goal would be to retire in Italy but that's probably a longshot. Realistically, we'd like to get a house in upstate NY or maybe someplace like Wyoming. A little piece of property where we might have a few goats, ducks, dogs or whatever. I do voiceovers and my wife is in accounting so neither of us ever plan on stopping working. Hopefully ignore the news and live life quietly.
Also interesting. And although I realize this is extremely sexist, if I did chose someone it could never been a woman. I guess I've always been comfortable with the baby bonds available via exchange traded debt, preferred stock, etc and i'm very familiar with that market and how to navigate it.Most of the bonds I wanted to get into had buyins way above what I could afford. Once I found out that by using a planner, I could get into specific bonds, the choice to move became easier.Interesting.I used to be obsessed as well. The day I hired an outstanding Financial Planner it all changed. Now, I meet with him once a quarter to go over results and strategies, and I never even fret about it beyond that. Best move we ever made.Before I retired I was obsessed. Every day I tracked and updated to see how close I was to retiring.The day I retired a switch went off and I no longer cared anywhere near as much. I check at best once a month now.8:30-9:00 - check my investments and see how the market is doing.
I couldn't do it (or at least i don't think i could)
I feel like I know more than most of those guys do and just don't feel like they could accomplish anything for me, and I'd be offended paying someone that knew less than I did on the subject.
I was like you in that I never expected to need a planner since I managed my money more than well enough to retire early, but I can now say I was wrong about that. My planner easily covers her fee in what she has provided.
I"m really counting on the driverless car thing being a part of my retirement era.It would be really nice if soft drugs were totally legal by time I retire and the whole autonomous car thing was in full effect.
Probably not as much as you think. Memberships for people that play nearly every day are a great deal. Here's the information on the course I play most. For $1100 I can play every weekday and super cheap on weekends. If I were to play 100 rounds in a year that equates to just over $10 per round. At 200 rounds it drops all the way to just over $5 per round. Wife won't play as much as I do, but we can add her in at a huge discount.Realistically, how much will this cost you each week?I play a lot of golf![]()
I play an obscene amount of golf. Clubs in hand at least five days a week.
Cool,Probably not as much as you think. Memberships for people that play nearly every day are a great deal. Here's the information on the course I play most. For $1100 I can play every weekday and super cheap on weekends. If I were to play 100 rounds in a year that equates to just over $10 per round. At 200 rounds it drops all the way to just over $5 per round. Wife won't play as much as I do, but we can add her in at a huge discount.Realistically, how much will this cost you each week?I play a lot of golf![]()
I play an obscene amount of golf. Clubs in hand at least five days a week.
Of course I'll want to play other courses too. Not a problem to own multiple memberships at different courses. If you play enough its still a super good deal.
Also, living in the northwest I get to play 12 months out of the year. This past winter the longest I went was two weeks.
It's mostly corporate work so it's not that exciting. Although I almost got the vo for the WIX.com commercial that played during the Super Bowl. I would have started a thread if I got that one!Voiceovers? That's pretty cool. You should do a separate thread at some point about this.We've travelled a lot in the past 20+ years so we'll probably cut back when we retire. Our ultimate goal would be to retire in Italy but that's probably a longshot. Realistically, we'd like to get a house in upstate NY or maybe someplace like Wyoming. A little piece of property where we might have a few goats, ducks, dogs or whatever. I do voiceovers and my wife is in accounting so neither of us ever plan on stopping working. Hopefully ignore the news and live life quietly.
Including premature death.I'm 56 and I'm retiring in 20 months. I have a 13 YO and 16 YO boy so it'll be several years before they're both out of the house. So, it's not like I can just pick up and jet off somewhere.
I've been talking to my financial planner and reading the book "The New Retirementality" for insight. I know many people that retired before they were forced to for physical, medical, or mental issues, and nearly all of them returned to some sort of job.
And, per the book I just noted, the author points out that many people quickly find you can't golf, fish, or vacation every day. Retirees have a high incidence of alcoholism, among many other issues.
Lots to think about.
I used to think along those same lines. My wife was a stock broker and we made all our own decisions. We did very well and could have retired when we were 40. In fact, we had made preliminary plans to sell our place in Silicon Valley and travel around Europe for a few years. Then she unexpectedly became pregnant and all those plans went out the window. Didn't want to raise a kid outside of the US.Also interesting. And although I realize this is extremely sexist, if I did chose someone it could never been a woman. I guess I've always been comfortable with the baby bonds available via exchange traded debt, preferred stock, etc and i'm very familiar with that market and how to navigate it.Most of the bonds I wanted to get into had buyins way above what I could afford. Once I found out that by using a planner, I could get into specific bonds, the choice to move became easier.Interesting.I used to be obsessed as well. The day I hired an outstanding Financial Planner it all changed. Now, I meet with him once a quarter to go over results and strategies, and I never even fret about it beyond that. Best move we ever made.Before I retired I was obsessed. Every day I tracked and updated to see how close I was to retiring.The day I retired a switch went off and I no longer cared anywhere near as much. I check at best once a month now.8:30-9:00 - check my investments and see how the market is doing.
I couldn't do it (or at least i don't think i could)
I feel like I know more than most of those guys do and just don't feel like they could accomplish anything for me, and I'd be offended paying someone that knew less than I did on the subject.
I was like you in that I never expected to need a planner since I managed my money more than well enough to retire early, but I can now say I was wrong about that. My planner easily covers her fee in what she has provided.
Maybe i'll change my mind... but I've read dozens of books about money, I read about it almost every day, I'm very on top of things. I felt like I missed my calling to be a financial planner of some sort. It would be incredibly difficult for me to trust anyone.
I guess I've got too much of my grandfather in me.
He's so extreme with his views of money that he won't even trust an exchange traded fund or an index fund.
He only will deal in individual equities or bonds or preferred stocks... other than transaction fees, he's offended by the idea that anyone will make any money off his money even if it's only 0.09% expense ratio like spy
join a moderate public course for a few grandRealistically, how much will this cost you each week?I play a lot of golf![]()
I play an obscene amount of golf. Clubs in hand at least five days a week.
Have you considered starting a business?I used to think along those same lines. My wife was a stock broker and we made all our own decisions. We did very well and could have retired when we were 40. In fact, we had made preliminary plans to sell our place in Silicon Valley and travel around Europe for a few years. Then she unexpectedly became pregnant and all those plans went out the window. Didn't want to raise a kid outside of the US.Also interesting. And although I realize this is extremely sexist, if I did chose someone it could never been a woman. I guess I've always been comfortable with the baby bonds available via exchange traded debt, preferred stock, etc and i'm very familiar with that market and how to navigate it.Most of the bonds I wanted to get into had buyins way above what I could afford. Once I found out that by using a planner, I could get into specific bonds, the choice to move became easier.Interesting.I used to be obsessed as well. The day I hired an outstanding Financial Planner it all changed. Now, I meet with him once a quarter to go over results and strategies, and I never even fret about it beyond that. Best move we ever made.Before I retired I was obsessed. Every day I tracked and updated to see how close I was to retiring.The day I retired a switch went off and I no longer cared anywhere near as much. I check at best once a month now.8:30-9:00 - check my investments and see how the market is doing.
I couldn't do it (or at least i don't think i could)
I feel like I know more than most of those guys do and just don't feel like they could accomplish anything for me, and I'd be offended paying someone that knew less than I did on the subject.
I was like you in that I never expected to need a planner since I managed my money more than well enough to retire early, but I can now say I was wrong about that. My planner easily covers her fee in what she has provided.
Maybe i'll change my mind... but I've read dozens of books about money, I read about it almost every day, I'm very on top of things. I felt like I missed my calling to be a financial planner of some sort. It would be incredibly difficult for me to trust anyone.
I guess I've got too much of my grandfather in me.
He's so extreme with his views of money that he won't even trust an exchange traded fund or an index fund.
He only will deal in individual equities or bonds or preferred stocks... other than transaction fees, he's offended by the idea that anyone will make any money off his money even if it's only 0.09% expense ratio like spy
We engaged an Estate attorney to map out a Living Trust, we fully funded our kids (now have 2 of 'em) college funds, and found a Financial Planner. His team developed a plan that reduced our investment risk yet generates similar returns to what we were experiencing. And, his plan covers all our taxable accounts, deferred income accounts, retirement accounts, etc. It also maximizes future Social Security.
Based on our expected income needs we have a nearly 100% chance of hitting our plan since we have far over-funded it (due to unexpected bonuses and higher recent returns). So, at this point I no longer care about squeezing out every single penny and I don't mind paying the Financial Planner. My main concern is peace of mind, and knowing we are set for the duration of our retirement.
So, back to the OP's question, I still have no idea what I'm going to do in 20 months when I'm done working.