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Looking at various relationships of people my son's age and they have various measures of whether the girl or the guy is more "in love (not really love)."

So let's have some fun and assume that courting is a process. That there is a best practice that works and other practices that don't. And let's assume as men, we control the courting process.

I will relay some of these thoughts to my own son. So what advice would you give to a 22 year old young man beginning a relationship to control the courting process to make sure she's into you. What tricks do you have?

Thought it might be fun.

TIA

 
Treat her well, but don't put the kitty on a pedestal. Don't let her walk all over you, and don't treat her like a tramp.

Sorry, I guess that's not all that fun... :shrug:

 
Not trying to marry him off - just have fun. Last chick he dated, she was way into him in the beginning and then it flipped.

 
Imagine in your head you already ------ her. After having sex with a girl once, it's always pretty easy to do it again and the relationship changes context. So I just always imagine that it has already happened. More confidence and less awkwardness.

 
- Don't care (or at least act like that)

- Be a leader and make decisions (confidence)

- Make her laugh

- Text communication ratio of 3:1 (roughly for every 3 times she reaches out, reply once...this kind of relates to the "don't care" bullet above)

Confidence + sense of humor + mystery = the holy grail of getting poon.

 
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The Dude said:
Looking at various relationships of people my son's age and they have various measures of whether the girl or the guy is more "in love (not really love)."

So let's have some fun and assume that courting is a process. That there is a best practice that works and other practices that don't. And let's assume as men, we control the courting process.

I will relay some of these thoughts to my own son. So what advice would you give to a 22 year old young man beginning a relationship to control the courting process to make sure she's into you. What tricks do you have?

Thought it might be fun.

TIA
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why do I get a weird feeling you are trying to live vicariously through your son?

 
Take her out for a nice dinner and let her order anything on the menu. Order a good bottle of wine, or champagne if the mood strikes. Take your time to savor the meal and good conversation. When the bill comes, let her know that she's paying, and make sure she tips the correct amount (girls suck at math). This portrays confidence and lets her know you're worth it.

 
McGarnicle said:
Take her out for a nice dinner and let her order anything on the menu. Order a good bottle of wine, or champagne if the mood strikes. Take your time to savor the meal and good conversation. When the bill comes, let her know that she's paying, and make sure she tips the correct amount (girls suck at math). This portrays confidence and lets her know you're worth it.
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:lmao:

 
The Dude said:
Looking at various relationships of people my son's age and they have various measures of whether the girl or the guy is more "in love (not really love)."

So let's have some fun and assume that courting is a process. That there is a best practice that works and other practices that don't. And let's assume as men, we control the courting process.

I will relay some of these thoughts to my own son. So what advice would you give to a 22 year old young man beginning a relationship to control the courting process to make sure she's into you. What tricks do you have?

Thought it might be fun.

TIA
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Dude, girls are crazy nowadays. Your son is much more likely to find a lifelong companion by getting a chick knocked up than he is "courting her". TV pretty much tells kids to act black nowadays so all most attractive girls want is some thug who has a bunch of weed that will treat her like dirt.

The only way to get a real relationship out of a girl nowadays is to saddle her down with a kid or find one at a Christian University where they still have morals.

 
Eminence said:
The Dude said:
Looking at various relationships of people my son's age and they have various measures of whether the girl or the guy is more "in love (not really love)."

So let's have some fun and assume that courting is a process. That there is a best practice that works and other practices that don't. And let's assume as men, we control the courting process.

I will relay some of these thoughts to my own son. So what advice would you give to a 22 year old young man beginning a relationship to control the courting process to make sure she's into you. What tricks do you have?

Thought it might be fun.

TIA
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Dude, girls are crazy nowadays. Your son is much more likely to find a lifelong companion by getting a chick knocked up than he is "courting her". TV pretty much tells kids to act black nowadays so all most attractive girls want is some thug who has a bunch of weed that will treat her like dirt.

The only way to get a real relationship out of a girl nowadays is to saddle her down with a kid or find one at a Christian University where they still have morals.
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..and knock her up.

 
Eminence said:
The Dude said:
Looking at various relationships of people my son's age and they have various measures of whether the girl or the guy is more "in love (not really love)."

So let's have some fun and assume that courting is a process. That there is a best practice that works and other practices that don't. And let's assume as men, we control the courting process.

I will relay some of these thoughts to my own son. So what advice would you give to a 22 year old young man beginning a relationship to control the courting process to make sure she's into you. What tricks do you have?

Thought it might be fun.

TIA
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Dude, girls are crazy nowadays. Your son is much more likely to find a lifelong companion by getting a chick knocked up than he is "courting her". TV pretty much tells kids to act black nowadays so all most attractive girls want is some thug who has a bunch of weed that will treat her like dirt.

The only way to get a real relationship out of a girl nowadays is to saddle her down with a kid or find one at a Christian University where they still have morals.
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yeah, don't listen to this or pass this along. Except for the "girls are crazy nowadays" part.

 
Eminence said:
The Dude said:
Looking at various relationships of people my son's age and they have various measures of whether the girl or the guy is more "in love (not really love)."

So let's have some fun and assume that courting is a process. That there is a best practice that works and other practices that don't. And let's assume as men, we control the courting process.

I will relay some of these thoughts to my own son. So what advice would you give to a 22 year old young man beginning a relationship to control the courting process to make sure she's into you. What tricks do you have?

Thought it might be fun.

TIA
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Dude, girls are crazy nowadays. Your son is much more likely to find a lifelong companion by getting a chick knocked up than he is "courting her". TV pretty much tells kids to act black nowadays so all most attractive girls want is some thug who has a bunch of weed that will treat her like dirt.

The only way to get a real relationship out of a girl nowadays is to saddle her down with a kid or find one at a Christian University where they still have morals.
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Hey Em, you mentioned you smoke weed right? And you found a chick on Tinder? How's that working out for you, Holmes?
 
McGarnicle said:
Eminence said:
The Dude said:
Looking at various relationships of people my son's age and they have various measures of whether the girl or the guy is more "in love (not really love)."

So let's have some fun and assume that courting is a process. That there is a best practice that works and other practices that don't. And let's assume as men, we control the courting process.

I will relay some of these thoughts to my own son. So what advice would you give to a 22 year old young man beginning a relationship to control the courting process to make sure she's into you. What tricks do you have?

Thought it might be fun.

TIA
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Dude, girls are crazy nowadays. Your son is much more likely to find a lifelong companion by getting a chick knocked up than he is "courting her". TV pretty much tells kids to act black nowadays so all most attractive girls want is some thug who has a bunch of weed that will treat her like dirt.

The only way to get a real relationship out of a girl nowadays is to saddle her down with a kid or find one at a Christian University where they still have morals.
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Hey Em, you mentioned you smoke weed right? And you found a chick on Tinder? How's that working out for you, Holmes?
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She won't message me back. :(

 
1. Never let on how much you like a girl.

2. Always call the shots.

3. Act like wherever you are - that’s the place to be.

4. When ordering food, find out what she wants then order for both of you. It’s a classy move.

5. When it comes to making out, whenever possible, put on side one of Led Zeppelin IV.

 
Eminence said:
McGarnicle said:
Eminence said:
The Dude said:
Looking at various relationships of people my son's age and they have various measures of whether the girl or the guy is more "in love (not really love)."

So let's have some fun and assume that courting is a process. That there is a best practice that works and other practices that don't. And let's assume as men, we control the courting process.

I will relay some of these thoughts to my own son. So what advice would you give to a 22 year old young man beginning a relationship to control the courting process to make sure she's into you. What tricks do you have?

Thought it might be fun.

TIA
Click to expand...
Dude, girls are crazy nowadays. Your son is much more likely to find a lifelong companion by getting a chick knocked up than he is "courting her". TV pretty much tells kids to act black nowadays so all most attractive girls want is some thug who has a bunch of weed that will treat her like dirt.

The only way to get a real relationship out of a girl nowadays is to saddle her down with a kid or find one at a Christian University where they still have morals.
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Hey Em, you mentioned you smoke weed right? And you found a chick on Tinder? How's that working out for you, Holmes?
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She won't message me back. :(
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What brand of track suit are you wearing when you message her?
 
Officer Pete Malloy said:
1. Never let on how much you like a girl.

2. Always call the shots.

3. Act like wherever you are - thats the place to be.

4. When ordering food, find out what she wants then order for both of you. Its a classy move.

5. When it comes to making out, whenever possible, put on side one of Led Zeppelin IV.
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Thanks Damone.

 
Officer Pete Malloy said:
1. Never let on how much you like a girl.

2. Always call the shots.

3. Act like wherever you are - that’s the place to be.

4. When ordering food, find out what she wants then order for both of you. It’s a classy move.

5. When it comes to making out, whenever possible, put on side one of Led Zeppelin IV.
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:lmao: :goodposting:

"I mean don't just walk in. You move across the room. And you don't talk to her. You use your face. You use your body. You use everything. That's what I do. I mean I just send out this vibe and I have personally found that women do respond. I mean, something happens."

 
The attitude dictates that you don't care whether she comes, stays, lays, or prays. I mean whatever happens, your toes are still tappin'. Now when you got that, then you have the attitude.

 
The best advice you could give a 22 year old is to not bother with courting at his age. He is at the prime age where he can nail women from 18-30+. Offdee's advice is spot on for building and keeping attraction, but he needs to be doing this with every attractive female he meets. No reason to put all his sperm in one ######. Ingrain in his mind that the next 10 years should be spent on maximizing his potential professionally, physically, socially, and with a variety of women. If he does this he will be in a position at 30 to attract any 22-25 year old he wants when he is ready to "settle down". Meanwhile half of his friends who got into a LTR at 22 and ended up marrying the girl because it was " the next step" or thought she was "the one" or they didn't think they could do better will be divorced and paying alimony and/or child support or they will be unhappily married to an overweight, nagging woman who uses infrequent sex as a tool.

 
Teach him the Dennis system

D:demonstrate value

E:engage physically

N: nurturing dependence

N: neglect emotionally

I: inspire hope

S: separate entirely

 
Seems we are limited to just a few Romeo's. My son will almost always be the nice guy. But he has some mojo going cause almost all (maybe all) the girls he has broken up with all come back for more.

 
The Dude said:
Seems we are limited to just a few Romeo's. My son will almost always be the nice guy. But he has some mojo going cause almost all (maybe all) the girls he has broken up with all come back for more.
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Come back for more meat OR come back for more nice guy friend advice about the guy they want meat from?

 
Officer Pete Malloy said:
1. Never let on how much you like a girl.

2. Always call the shots.

3. Act like wherever you are - that’s the place to be.

4. When ordering food, find out what she wants then order for both of you. It’s a classy move.

5. When it comes to making out, whenever possible, put on side one of Led Zeppelin IV.
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Reegus said:
Teach him the Dennis system

D:demonstrate value

E:engage physically

N: nurturing dependence

N: neglect emotionally

I: inspire hope

S: separate entirely
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