snellman
Footballguy
One of the Prices I am paying for having kids that are so far apart in age is coming to fruition. My oldest son has 3 children (the 2 grandsons are from his wife's previous marriage but I still consider them grandkids). The oldest one is 11 and is playing youth football, the younger one has a birthday coming up (will be turning 6). The daughter in law texted the wife tonight that the 11yr old has his last football game Saturday and after the game, they are going to have a bowling birthday party for the younger one.
Our youngest son is 15 and a freshman in high school. He is not involved in any sports, but is involved in Robotics and band. The band at his school is a very big deal (35% of the 500 students at the high school are in band) and the compete in competitions every weekend in the fall. They have a competition this Saturday approx 90 miles away. These band competitions are an all day event, you know the first time the band will perform, but after that, it is a matter of waiting to find out what time the 2nd performance is.
On one hand, the routine is the same every time they perform so it is not like we are seeing anything new. The grandkids only turn 6 once and they grow up way to fast like our kids do. On the other hand, we didn't miss any of our older kids activities when they were in high school and I don't want to short the youngest one the support that he deserves as much as his siblings got. He says it is fine (I think he genuinely feels that way but I feel guilty for missing one of his events)
In a perfect world the band won't have their performance until the afternoon and we can hit both, but I am sure that will not be the case.
Our youngest son is 15 and a freshman in high school. He is not involved in any sports, but is involved in Robotics and band. The band at his school is a very big deal (35% of the 500 students at the high school are in band) and the compete in competitions every weekend in the fall. They have a competition this Saturday approx 90 miles away. These band competitions are an all day event, you know the first time the band will perform, but after that, it is a matter of waiting to find out what time the 2nd performance is.
On one hand, the routine is the same every time they perform so it is not like we are seeing anything new. The grandkids only turn 6 once and they grow up way to fast like our kids do. On the other hand, we didn't miss any of our older kids activities when they were in high school and I don't want to short the youngest one the support that he deserves as much as his siblings got. He says it is fine (I think he genuinely feels that way but I feel guilty for missing one of his events)
In a perfect world the band won't have their performance until the afternoon and we can hit both, but I am sure that will not be the case.