Um wow. I literally just finished binge watching the full show and for me it was so great and a bit emotional.
Ted Lasso and I have a couple things in common and many things not similar at all.
Similar:
Went through a difficult divorce.
Developed an issue with anxiety and had very similar episodes with extreme anxiety.
Had some childhood trauma that was/is still unresolved.
I also tried from the moment my ex and I separated that I would do everything in my power to make my 2 son’s my priority and sacrifice anything for them like Ted does.
Different:
I’m no professional coach or enjoy a hugely high profile or successful career.
I’m not as nice nor as optimistic as Ted. Who really could be-lol?
My divorce wasn’t as civil. My ex, cheated twice 1 time - then again after a 14 month separation.
What I loved about the show:
1. Little things (acts of kindness) are so great and can mean so much to someone else. The baking, remembering a birthday, listening, the little army men, being positive and the inclusion of all.
2. Panic attacks. I hate this name for it. To me, it’s a false descriptor, it’s so negative and perhaps why I denied their existence in my own life for so long. They were neither “panicky” in nature or an “attack”.
I am just glad to see the topic covered in positive way by the show. It brought back very painful memories and forced me to look at my own journey with them. There were things I did so poorly, and some things (like Ted) I handled exceptionally. I hope anyone who needs help, knows they aren’t alone and that help is there.
It’s funny - I read back the old i.dating thread from years ago that some of you might remember. The truth is, while there were some funny stories and memories. That guy was a mess and so much more was happening in my life that I couldn’t/wouldn’t share.
3. That our kids, should always be our main focus and inspiration in life. I think some people may have thought the ending was weak, but not me. I loved the humble and understated way Ted gave up a great life, friends, money and career and to be there for his son.
4. The power of forgiveness. The understanding that true forgiveness doesn’t let the offender off the hook, but is more about clearing space in heart/mind for the good stuff. It’s a freeing thing.
Anywho - I loved it. Thank you Ted!