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Wife asks - "Do you think she is pretty?" (1 Viewer)

fantasycurse42

fantasycurse42

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Assume two circumstances, one easier than the other.

A) She is pretty

B) She is not pretty

How do you answer this question from a spouse or S/O?

 
fantasycurse42 said:
Assume two circumstances, one easier than the other.

A) She is pretty

B) She is not pretty

How do you answer this question from a spouse or S/O?
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Context matters most. If she's talking about someone on TV or is showing you a picture of someone she knows, I'll answer yes. Past experience with other girls has me avoid adding any degree to it...you can start getting yourself in trouble by calling her "hot" for example.

Random girl on the street that you 100% noticed and she's trying to see if you paid a little too much attention to her...I'd tread more carefully.

I'd answer honestly on the negative too except for friends of hers...I'll just say not my type.

 
RUSF18 said:
fantasycurse42 said:
Assume two circumstances, one easier than the other.

A) She is pretty

B) She is not pretty

How do you answer this question from a spouse or S/O?
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Context matters most. If she's talking about someone on TV or is showing you a picture of someone she knows, I'll answer yes. Past experience with other girls has me avoid adding any degree to it...you can start getting yourself in trouble by calling her "hot" for example.

Random girl on the street that you 100% noticed and she's trying to see if you paid a little too much attention to her...I'd tread more carefully.

I'd answer honestly on the negative too except for friends of hers...I'll just say not my type.
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I should've added more context...

For the sake of my question, we can assume friends of the wife, not someone on the street or TV.

In situation A, sometimes you wouldn't want your wife to think you're rubbing one out to her friend and in situation B you wouldn't want to insult a friend of hers.

 
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TheAristocrat said:
If I have to tiptoe around crazy, it's over. Honest answers only or GTFO.
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Went to my wife's 20yr reunion and mentioned one of her acquaintances was pretty. This reunion was in another city, and it was a person I will never see again for the rest of my life.

For about 2 weeks I never heard the end of it. Now it's over.

The marriage I mean, not the crazy.

 
fantasycurse42 said:
RUSF18 said:
fantasycurse42 said:
Assume two circumstances, one easier than the other.

A) She is pretty

B) She is not pretty

How do you answer this question from a spouse or S/O?
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Context matters most. If she's talking about someone on TV or is showing you a picture of someone she knows, I'll answer yes. Past experience with other girls has me avoid adding any degree to it...you can start getting yourself in trouble by calling her "hot" for example.

Random girl on the street that you 100% noticed and she's trying to see if you paid a little too much attention to her...I'd tread more carefully.

I'd answer honestly on the negative too except for friends of hers...I'll just say not my type.
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I should've added more context...

For the sake of my question, we can assume friends of the wife, not someone on the street or TV.

In situation A, sometimes you wouldn't want your wife to think you're rubbing one out to her friend and in situation B you wouldn't want to insult a friend of hers.
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Yeah I'll stick with my original answers...say "yes", not "yeah she's ####### hot" and to the second, be honest but not rude. Not that hard.

 
17seconds said:
TheAristocrat said:
If I have to tiptoe around crazy, it's over. Honest answers only or GTFO.
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Went to my wife's 20yr reunion and mentioned one of her acquaintances was pretty. This reunion was in another city, and it was a person I will never see again for the rest of my life.

For about 2 weeks I never heard the end of it. Now it's over.

The marriage I mean, not the crazy.
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Why the hell would you ever mention some chick was pretty off the cuff like that? If wife asks, fine. Unsolicited? You are the crazy one.

 
I'd say my opinion then ask hers. We usually agree on these things, but every now and then she surprises me.

 
fantasycurse42 said:
Assume two circumstances, one easier than the other.

A) She is pretty

B) She is not pretty

How do you answer this question from a spouse or S/O?
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Read that wrong initially. The answer is always B. Let your wife figure out if you are lying or not, if she can't tell then your opinion really doesn't matter much anyhow.

 
beer 30 said:
fantasycurse42 said:
Assume two circumstances, one easier than the other.

A) She is pretty

B) She is not pretty

How do you answer this question from a spouse or S/O?
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Read that wrong initially. The answer is always B. Let your wife figure out if you are lying or not, if she can't tell then your opinion really doesn't matter much anyhow.
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Not only is it okay for husbands to remain sexually attracted to other women, it's preferable, so long as he doesn't act on that attraction. A woman you're with wants to feel like you're man enough to have options, but still choose her every time. :shrug:

(ETA: it's preferable not to act on that attraction for most wives. If she's kinky, different ballgame, I guess.)

 
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You make fun of the other woman. Especially if she is hot. You say something like, "How can she be out here in the cold wearing a thin top like that?" or "No she is not hot, those heels make her look like a slut." And then you and the girl you are with can stare at her all you want. It's a good ruse for getting to stare at another chick when you are with your woman. However be careful otherwise, because it is pretty rude and it will tear down your woman's self esteem pretty quick if you do any kind of double-takes on chicks walking by. And trust me they notice, so don't be rude like that bro. Especially if you love your woman and value her self-esteem. Besides, a woman's self-esteem pays you back in the long run anyway.

 
ChainsawU said:
You make fun of the other woman. Especially if she is hot. You say something like, "How can she be out here in the cold wearing a thin top like that?" or "No she is not hot, those heels make her look like a slut." And then you and the girl you are with can stare at her all you want. It's a good ruse for getting to stare at another chick when you are with your woman. However be careful otherwise, because it is pretty rude and it will tear down your woman's self esteem pretty quick if you do any kind of double-takes on chicks walking by. And trust me they notice, so don't be rude like that bro. Especially if you love your woman and value her self-esteem. Besides, a woman's self-esteem pays you back in the long run anyway.
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In the words of the old comedian Sinbad:

"No way, baby ... her ### is WAY too small for me!"

..."Yeah baby I like the way your booty draaaags in the sand as we walk along. Hey baby, write our names in the sand with your booty like you used too."

 
For a dude it is in bad taste to ask a woman if she's ovulating. But it's a good thing for a dude to know because that's when women are most prone to having short-term sexual relationships. It has been proven that ovulation alters a woman's behavior on a subconscious level, which prompts them to focus more on social standing in comparison to other females. So when your woman asks you if you "think another woman is pretty" it may be a sign that she is ovulating, and therefore down for some extra-dirty stuff in the bedroom - or it at least will indicate to you that it is the one out of the four weeks she'll actually be tolerable to hang out with.

 
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I once made the drunken mistake of saying in a room full of our friends that our neighbor woman had the best body in the neighborhood. oops

 
Use a word like cute...puts you in the neighborhood of honesty and non-threatening which is where you want to be...situations like this are very dicey because women are crazy and you don't know what planet the gal is currently in and why she is asking the question...less words are always better in these situations...it's the military equivalent of name, rank and serial #...

 
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Oh... Wife asks with reference to a third person. If it's someone We both don't don't know I answer honestly. If she is asking about anyone either of us knows... Fair-to-middlin' at best.

 
TenTimes said:
I'd say my opinion then ask hers. We usually agree on these things, but every now and then she surprises me.
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ThisFairly certain this is a "does he have a spine" test they teach in finishing school.

 
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BowieMercs said:
johnnycakes said:
Oh... Wife asks with reference to a third person. If it's someone We both don't don't know I answer honestly. If she is asking about anyone either of us knows... Fair-to-middlin' at best.
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Absolutely! The babysitter is homely at best :D
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Especially that last one I had before I married her!

ETA: Of course, the truth-tellers would have me say, "very pretty, yeah, but lousy in bed."

 
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fantasycurse42 said:
RUSF18 said:
fantasycurse42 said:
Assume two circumstances, one easier than the other.

A) She is pretty

B) She is not pretty

How do you answer this question from a spouse or S/O?
Click to expand...
Context matters most. If she's talking about someone on TV or is showing you a picture of someone she knows, I'll answer yes. Past experience with other girls has me avoid adding any degree to it...you can start getting yourself in trouble by calling her "hot" for example.

Random girl on the street that you 100% noticed and she's trying to see if you paid a little too much attention to her...I'd tread more carefully.

I'd answer honestly on the negative too except for friends of hers...I'll just say not my type.
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I should've added more context...

For the sake of my question, we can assume friends of the wife, not someone on the street or TV.

In situation A, sometimes you wouldn't want your wife to think you're rubbing one out to her friend and in situation B you wouldn't want to insult a friend of hers.
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I'd be honest in both situations still. I couldn't care less about my wife knowing I didn't think one of her friends was attractive. This might be one where you can go into more detail to try to find a positive feature, but there is absolutely nothing to gain by saying someone is attractive when its not true.

 
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