Walton Goggins
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Wife uses sex as a weapon (1 Viewer)
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Walton Goggins
Footballguy
shadyridr
Footballguy
so you only trust bisexuals?
Mad Cow
Welshers and Dawdlers Beware!
Or maybe animals, as well?
Sconch
Footballguy
culdeus
Footballguy
Lol at them calling out sconch.
Idiot Boxer
Footballguy
Them? I'd wager that was some of 'us'
Sconch
Footballguy
Idiot Boxer
Footballguy
Yes. Well. Probably better take the phone off the hook just to be safe.I'VE HAD BIGGER AND BETTER MEN HATE ME OVER THE INTERNET
Shtaym Syek
Footballguy
3:09 PM 
Idiot Boxer
Footballguy
New username: Keys MyAthol?3:09 PM
Sconch
Footballguy
I wish my wife rewarded me with sex. Usually she just gives me the code to unlock the parental control on our tv. If I'm really good I get 20 minutes of "Cat House" or "Taxi Cab Confessions" every 2 weeks.3:09 PM
The_Man
Footballguy
Thtupid AtholNew username: Keys MyAthol?3:09 PM
Buck Bradcanon
Footballguy
Thsi thread has a lot of subplots, all of which are interesting.
Sconch
Footballguy
I like the one where the dude from New Zealand got all offended.
snapperhead
Footballguy
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Sabertooth
Footballguy
Is this supposed to read "women?"
Idiot Boxer
Footballguy
I believe it is supposed to read ONE WOMAN. Athol is dispensing sex advice, yet he's only slept with his wife. Nothing contradictory in that as I suppose he is only giving tips to married men who wish to have sex with their own wife.
Sabertooth
Footballguy
Pretty much. I think the narrowness of his experience and focus are exactly what I like about his blog.
Walton Goggins
Footballguy
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Instinctive
Footballguy
This is my favorite:
These are decent too:
Idiot Boxer
Footballguy
Yup. Very alpha.
Sconch
Footballguy
Typical troll move. Talk smack and then not allow any kind of a retort.
Buck Bradcanon
Footballguy
Doosh.
Walton Goggins
Footballguy
I asked him if it was true that he's only been with one woman in his life (his wife now)
Sconch
Footballguy
He obviously doesn't understand why people cheat.
Walton Goggins
Footballguy
Funny enough when I was married sex was never an issue. Part of it was that we both had a high libido, part of it may have been that she was Latin / Catholic and another was that during the years we dated I made it clear that if I was ever married and the sex stopped I would find it somewhere else. I even remember my ex saying something like "why do Caucasian women when they get married stop having sex?" Now I am sure there are non Caucasian women who stop having sex but it generally seems like that's the case. Interesting.
Walton Goggins
Footballguy
Heard this guy on a podcast, cheated on his wife of 17 years with about 90 to 100 different chicks.
Says the number 1 reason married men get caught cheating is they get sloppy.
If you are going to cheat do it right.
He didn't even put his real name as the author since he doesn't want his wife to find out.
This might be helpful for some of you married folk...
http://www.amazon.com/Married-Mans-Guide-Cheating-Regulations/dp/1450278167
Red Flags (so don't do it if you don't want to get caught)
Change in mannerisms (new clothes, now working out, starts traveling)
Says the number 1 reason married men get caught cheating is they get sloppy.
If you are going to cheat do it right.
He didn't even put his real name as the author since he doesn't want his wife to find out.
This might be helpful for some of you married folk...
http://www.amazon.com/Married-Mans-Guide-Cheating-Regulations/dp/1450278167
Red Flags (so don't do it if you don't want to get caught)
Change in mannerisms (new clothes, now working out, starts traveling)
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Dr. Awesome
Footballguy
I like the part where we learned Goggins only trusts gays and bisexuals.
Sabertooth
Footballguy
I actually feel sorry for you.
Shtaym Syek
Footballguy
Meh. The new entertaining Goggins is much, much better than the angry bitter #### Goggins.'Sabertooth said:
Bogart
Footballguy
Yeah, actually I leave the office in a few hours. If it was just sex, that would be smart, but like I said earlier, the lack of sex is just hiding a whole slew of other problems.I have been writing notes for today for the last four days and going in to really lay everything out. Enough of the getting to know you stuff. Time to make some changes or move on. I am not going to be the guy that just #####es and moans for the next decade.
Jutz
Footballguy
I was thinking the same thing
Sabertooth
Footballguy
Maybe.
Sabertooth
Footballguy
Life's too short.
culdeus
Footballguy
Walton Goggins
Footballguy
I didn't write it'Sabertooth said:
Walton Goggins
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Mr. Pickles
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Bogart
Footballguy
Second session in the books.Pretty sports drunk after the Mavs game, but here it goes...Word of warning: Sex or the lack thereof did NOT come up in today's session. Too many other things happened and we just ran out of time. So if you want to stop reading now you can.
Therapist asks how our week has been. I said we hadn't spoken at all about the first session and we went right back to our routine. He asked if I was happy with the routine. I said "No, I'm not happy with it at all." He asks the same question to my wife, she says "I really didn't think it was all that bad." Therapist writes down some notes. You can feel the tension begin to build that never lets down.Therapist next brings up last week and says, "Well, you too are good friends." I quickly say, "We are friendly roommates, we have history, we don't fight, but I would not say the friendship is there." Silent stare from my wife.Therapist moves to our homework assignment, to list our expectations for marriage. Asks if we did it, we both say yes. He nods at me and tell me I can go first. I pull my printed list out of my notebook and read down my list, fairly basic stuff (equal partner, unconditional love, best friend). He asks if I am having these expectations met and I tell him "No, not at all." He nods to my wife, asks for her list. She says "Well I didn't write my down, but pretty much everything he said." I give the stare this time. We end up spending quite a bit of time on the list and why I feel like it's not being met.Wife talks about how I don't show affection or emotion, how she feels I settled and she is always second to something. Then she says I never did show these things, even when we were dating, but she thought "over time I thought he would change." Huge moment as the therapist bluntly asks "What made you think he would change?" I talk about how things were when we were dating, up to our wedding, and then how we are growing apart slowly ever since. Therapist agreed with my thinking completely.I begin to list all the things I do for her to show affection. Long list that the therapist seems to agree with. My wife is like "Yeah, those are nice. I appreciate them, but I don't feel affection from them."Therapist now gets to talk about "The Five Love Languages", how I am speaking one language, but she doesn't understand it. Gave us the assignment to read the book. (We own it, never read it.) Then he gets weird at the end and tells us the other thing we are to do is find a hobby to do together, to try and start building the friendship back up. He pretty much lost me there. He had me the whole session right up until then.Overall a really good session in hindsight, because it really showed my wife where we stand, and made her think about some ways she is thinking. This just got really real for her.We don't get to go back for another two weeks 
but I plan on using this time to really flesh out what came out today.And I guess find a ####### hobby.
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Instinctive
Footballguy
Finding a hobby or something like that is something I can agree with as being important. I think (I'm no professional) it's more about having something you do with each other than it is about whatever the thin is you're doing.
Bogart
Footballguy
I fully understand the reasoning behind the hobby, and agree that it is something that could help in some situations, having quality time and the like, but right now we need so much more than that. It's a solution, but it's the wrong kind of solution right now.I gave my wife a lot to think about. How she reacts to it over the next few days will be very telling in which way this goes.
iamsmilin
I want one, but I'm not creative
I'm glad that you were able to get your point across.
I think the hobby is a good idea because it allows you two time away from the kids an house together, hopefully it will give you sometime to share something fun and will get you guys to talk. I don't think there is gonna be one answer to the problem, you'll have to hit it from different points of view and hope they all work a little. As far as the hobby, I would suggest something active. Have you tried Mountain biking? I didn't think I would like it but it's a lot of fun. It's something you both basically know how to do and you can learn together. Just stick to easy course at the beginning.
Good luck!
I think the hobby is a good idea because it allows you two time away from the kids an house together, hopefully it will give you sometime to share something fun and will get you guys to talk. I don't think there is gonna be one answer to the problem, you'll have to hit it from different points of view and hope they all work a little. As far as the hobby, I would suggest something active. Have you tried Mountain biking? I didn't think I would like it but it's a lot of fun. It's something you both basically know how to do and you can learn together. Just stick to easy course at the beginning.
Good luck!
tommyboy
Footballguy
where to start...first, your wife not having a list is a joke. If she didn't get shocked into reality by this session, nothing will get through to her. 2nd, play gin rummy or something where you compete. chess, checkers, bowling i don't care, but have it be a hobby where you compete, then try to interject some mild fun trash talk into it. If anything it will loosen your wife up a bit and maybe she'll remember your actually a cool dude to hang out with, beside bringin a paycheck and helping around the house. don't take a passive hobby like watchign movies or something, have it be an active thing. I see where the therapist is taking you and part of what he's trying to do is rebuild the basic friendship./attraction you had many moons ago. Its still there somewhere, just covered up with layers of dirt and grime called life. Finally, put your wife on no uncertain notice that her little showing up to the meeting with no homework is crock of bull#### and if she's not willing to put a little work into this marriage you'll be happy to serve her with divorce papers in the immediate future. Tolerate zero bs from her, and i mean zero. This is a mutual endeavor, if you're going to do the work, so is she, end of story.ps- congrats on Mavs win. In game 5 vs the Blazers in round 1, i thought that team hit a gear that no one could beat and it looks like they've found the formula. That team got tough, fast.Second session in the books.Pretty sports drunk after the Mavs game, but here it goes...Word of warning: Sex or the lack thereof did NOT come up in today's session. Too many other things happened and we just ran out of time. So if you want to stop reading now you can.
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