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Wooing my neighbor: I came. I hugged. I wooed. Now moving on. (3 Viewers)

msommer said:
We know for sure it's not a Shick! alias. The grammar is lacking
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You guys are way to old... keyboard grammer/wording different than phone text but u know that an still chirp like children. Keep harping on stupid #### with whatever u consider witty jabs.   

Like i said fbg groupies where the unpopular are relevant on the internet.  I get it but its played out. Probably why the guy is where he's at in this dumpster fire of a situation getting dumb advice.  

Shes not divorced.. end it.

 
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money.never.sleeps said:
You guys are way to old... keyboard gramme/wordingr different than text... get a clue. Keep harping on stupid #### with whatever u cinsider witty jabs.  

Like i said fbg groupies where the unpopular are relevant on the internet.  I get it but its played out. Probably why the guy is where he's at in this dumpster fire of a situation getting dumb advice.  

Shes not divorced.. end it.
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Take a hike, buddy, a long one, like the three four year hiatus you said you had. By then maybe there's speech recognotion that will help with your posting.

But then again, maybe not

 
msommer said:
Take a hike, buddy, a long one, like the three four year hiatus you said you had. By then maybe there's speech recognotion that will help with your posting.

But then again, maybe not
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Cool. Keep being a ##### bag or not... whatever makes you happy .

OP last comment I'll make.  Seems like a lose lose type situation but do what makes you happy or what is in your heart. Never go wrong with that kinda advice

 
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The #### is going on in here? 

Jessep, disregard the noise (except weather, that's important)...

How close are your two houses? Hypothetically you guys date for a few months and then it doesn't work, will she have a front row seat to you bringing new strange home? 

Also, do you own/rent? Same with her?

 
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EYLive,

Emotionally you can sense the pea under a dozen mattresses.  Very impressive.  You are to be congratulated.  BTW, how many participation medals did you acquire thus far in life and are they all on display in one place?

 
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money.never.sleeps said:
You guys are way to old... keyboard grammer/wording different than phone text but u know that an still chirp like children. Keep harping on stupid #### with whatever u consider witty jabs.   

Like i said fbg groupies where the unpopular are relevant on the internet.  I get it but its played out. Probably why the guy is where he's at in this dumpster fire of a situation getting dumb advice.  

Shes not divorced.. end it.
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Honestly, I know you want to be this internet stud but your advice is terrible. Makes me think you're a young man. Get back to us in 20-25 yrs, stud boy

 
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tommyboy said:
Honestly, I know you want to be this internet stud but your advice is terrible. Makes me think you're a young man. Get back to us in 20-25 yrs, stud boy
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Im reading his stuff in a slow and terrible Russian accent.  I won't lie...I like it.

 
BREAKING

I'll give a little backstory

In texting earlier today, after the coffee meetup, I mentioned that she looked like she could use a hug after we had that rather heavy talk, but due to the nature of the conversation, I wasn't sure if that would be appreciated or not. Sounds lame I'm sure, but we've texted a good bit back and forth since I got her number, so between that and the face to face time, I have gotten a good feeling of her personality, and besides that, what I told her was absolutely the truth. And I was again seeing how she might respond to this offering. She kind of laughed it off but did agree that yeah it was some serious conversation and yeah I was probably correct about her needing a hug.  So we go back to bantering about random stuff for the rest of the day.

We both got home late this evening, but were still texting a bit here and there throughout the evening. She texts me, completely off topic of what we had been discussing: "if at some point, out of terrible judgment, I wanted a hug, would that be completely inappropriate?" 

I'll leave it right here, for the experts to weigh in... will tell you what actually happened later (probably in the morning)

 
Nathan R. Jessep said:
BREAKING

I'll give a little backstory

In texting earlier today, after the coffee meetup, I mentioned that she looked like she could use a hug after we had that rather heavy talk, but due to the nature of the conversation, I wasn't sure if that would be appreciated or not. Sounds lame I'm sure, but we've texted a good bit back and forth since I got her number, so between that and the face to face time, I have gotten a good feeling of her personality, and besides that, what I told her was absolutely the truth. And I was again seeing how she might respond to this offering. She kind of laughed it off but did agree that yeah it was some serious conversation and yeah I was probably correct about her needing a hug.  So we go back to bantering about random stuff for the rest of the day.

We both got home late this evening, but were still texting a bit here and there throughout the evening. She texts me, completely off topic of what we had been discussing: "if at some point, out of terrible judgment, I wanted a hug, would that be completely inappropriate?" 

I'll leave it right here, for the experts to weigh in... will tell you what actually happened later (probably in the morning)
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:pickle:

 
Nathan R. Jessep said:
BREAKING

I'll give a little backstory

In texting earlier today, after the coffee meetup, I mentioned that she looked like she could use a hug after we had that rather heavy talk, but due to the nature of the conversation, I wasn't sure if that would be appreciated or not. Sounds lame I'm sure, but we've texted a good bit back and forth since I got her number, so between that and the face to face time, I have gotten a good feeling of her personality, and besides that, what I told her was absolutely the truth. And I was again seeing how she might respond to this offering. She kind of laughed it off but did agree that yeah it was some serious conversation and yeah I was probably correct about her needing a hug.  So we go back to bantering about random stuff for the rest of the day.

We both got home late this evening, but were still texting a bit here and there throughout the evening. She texts me, completely off topic of what we had been discussing: "if at some point, out of terrible judgment, I wanted a hug, would that be completely inappropriate?" 

I'll leave it right here, for the experts to weigh in... will tell you what actually happened later (probably in the morning)
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I read it twice and I'm still not really sure what's going on.

 
I would have walked across the street, knocked on the door, and without saying a word, open my arms wide - allowing her to step forward and embrace me.

 
this is the perplexing part:

"if at some point, out of terrible judgment, I wanted a hug, would that be completely inappropriate?" 

huh?

 
This thread was like a handful of pages a few days back, I get lost with relatives in a time warp for a week and this thing is 60 pages...did a pimp named Moe show up or something?

 
Ministry of Pain said:
This thread was like a handful of pages a few days back, I get lost with relatives in a time warp for a week and this thing is 60 pages...did a pimp named Moe show up or something?
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No, but they went to the trampoline park and had incidental contact while talking to each other. 

 
Willie Neslon said:
this is the perplexing part:

"if at some point, out of terrible judgment, I wanted a hug, would that be completely inappropriate?" 

huh?
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Sounds like something you say to a friend, but I'd go over and give her a hug right then to find out how she meant it.

 
cstu said:
Sounds like something you say to a friend, but I'd go over and give her a hug right then to find out how she meant it.
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what is she trying to say when she says "out of terrible judgement"? And didn't you already mention she needed a hug? What the hell is going on here?
 

 
tommyboy said:
Honestly, I know you want to be this internet stud but your advice is terrible. Makes me think you're a young man. Get back to us in 20-25 yrs, stud boy
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No, "you're" just set on critiquing the verbiage instead of the message. Zero funks about recognition or portayal... Obviously.  Give an opinion which i beleive.. all it is. . Its the internet.  Everyone is irrelevant.  

 And I dont have to get back to anyone. All these comments are rabble and not one help OP.  Also guilty of that but least I try mix in something with  the pointless responses unlike some. Oh well.  GL NRJ.. follow no ones advice. We all have "down syndrome "

... why this thread has 60 pages of.non sense.  

 
Nathan R. Jessep said:
BREAKING

I'll give a little backstory

In texting earlier today, after the coffee meetup, I mentioned that she looked like she could use a hug after we had that rather heavy talk, but due to the nature of the conversation, I wasn't sure if that would be appreciated or not. Sounds lame I'm sure, but we've texted a good bit back and forth since I got her number, so between that and the face to face time, I have gotten a good feeling of her personality, and besides that, what I told her was absolutely the truth. And I was again seeing how she might respond to this offering. She kind of laughed it off but did agree that yeah it was some serious conversation and yeah I was probably correct about her needing a hug.  So we go back to bantering about random stuff for the rest of the day.

We both got home late this evening, but were still texting a bit here and there throughout the evening. She texts me, completely off topic of what we had been discussing: "if at some point, out of terrible judgment, I wanted a hug, would that be completely inappropriate?" 

I'll leave it right here, for the experts to weigh in... will tell you what actually happened later (probably in the morning)
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"Not as inappropriate as me kissing you after the hug, beautiful"

tips Saints cap after hitting send

 
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Tom Servo said:
Yeah. I'm backing up gianmarco here. Most of you wannabe studs in here don't realize this isn't a Tinder/nightclub hookup. Both parties are divorced, have kids, and 10,000 things on their mind. For ladies, their emotions filter through EVERYTHING they think about. Guys can compartmentalize - we put stuff in mental boxes and shuffle them about as we need to.

Marisa (I'm guessing) has been separated for sometime and finally has her own place/life set up. I would imagine she thought that she would move on in her post-divorce life as a single mom. She knows she's staring down some long odds at having a serious relationship as most men don't want that. Sure, I'm sure she could find a hookup if she wanted, but I'll bet you a dollar to a donut that's not what she wants. If a good, responsible man with a steady job and stable life shows up, she's going to be attracted to that. Now, lo and behold, not only does such a man exists, but right across the freaking street from her new home! She probably can't believe her circumstances.

However, she is going to be coy and want to be won. But, she also knows she needs to know if NRJ is truly interested or just sniffing around for fun. Today's coffee talk was both of them laying their cards on the table. Since NRJ didn't run down the street screaming, she feels like she can trust him with more. To have good relationships, you share, check that your future friend is capable of handling your baggage (not gossiping, making fun of, etc.), and then share more as you feel comfortable. Today's conversation shows that Marissa feels comfortable sharing more of her life story with NRJ, and his story doesn't scare her. Their respective divorces are a source of common ground for them and (maybe) help them deal with the debris of their own situation.

I would say that another time of sharing/talking is necessary before a fun date, but that's on NRJ. To me, he's played it pretty well. If I had to grade today, I say he went 3-4 with a walk and a stolen base.
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I have no idea what is happening butt it sounds like Col Jessup is trying to take it slow, he's secure in his rugged masculinity and doesn't need a gal around his arm like a kid needs his blanket. He's genuinely trying to gauge how much time he wants to invest in it. 

I might add that being married to your best friend is one of the best things you can ever do depending on your view of marriage. 

And finally I clipped this post because it makes a lot of sense and if others are coming in 45 pages late you can get a good idea of what is or isn't happening from this post. 

I also want to find Krista's posts, she'll have the female angle/perspective down on this. 

"Friends"...I gotta think about that. Are there actually new friends after 30? Or just people you want to bed but will settle for friendship hoping that dial moves a little more towards the noogie in the sack when they are weak, yes/no? Not that I would know of course, happily married man. 

 
tommyboy said:
Honestly, I know you want to be this internet stud but your advice is terrible. Makes me think you're a young man. Get back to us in 20-25 yrs, stud boy
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I read how you met your wife... stop already.  And 20- 25 years maybe a stretch for the "us" crowd ..  :unsure:

"Youre my boy blue"

An being old doesn't make you smart...  leave it at that. Alot old people are broke and or divorced for a reason... age doesnt cure somethings even if you want to believe otherwise.  Broad statement.  Check back in 6 months. Or 4 years

 
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Can't wait for the next text. would you be a menable, to possibly if the time agrees, to sit quietly on reflect, or if luck smiles, then smile back?

 
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