Awesome thread. No idea how I missed this before. After reading Worm's thread, I clicked over to hear, hopped online to look at the NARA's website and gave my dad a call.
Turns out, my grandma does have some of my grandpa's medals and his discharge papers, but not much else. My dad is going to submit a records request and see what else is they may have.
My grandfather spoke to me about his service in the Navy during WWII only a couple of times I can remember and only with small details that had little to do with the actual war. I know he started serving on subs but grew almost a foot in his first year and was too tall to serve on a sub anymore. I know he was borderline in age when he signed up as well.
The only other detail I really know is from my parents and it's that he was some sort of landing boat driver in the South Pacific at some point. If that really was the case, I can totally understand why he never talked about it. Driving other young men to their deaths had to be horrible.
I was able to find, through my research, that my uncle (deceased) with in the Coast Guard on LST 20 in the pacific during WW2. Unfortunately most of these old relics found their way onto the scrap heap, so there is no ship to explore. But from knowing the actual ship he was on and from his military records I got from my aunt, I was able to piece together a very good military history for him. He saw some bad ####, even aboard ship, from just figuring out his "known" areas of conflict. I'm sure there were places that were also classified he was associated with as well.
I've done this type of research for all three of my uncles from WW2 and my cousin that was 82nd Airborne, 504th PIR (parachute infantry regiment), who participated in the Waal River Crossing (watch "A Bridge Too Far" for the story) and went MIA near the German border in Holland. Even though several of his fellow troopers have been recover, he never has been. In my research I have connected with several Dutch researchers that know everything about my cousin's military career, even the
exact location where he supposedly went MIA or was KIA. I have never had the means to travel there, but I have provided all this information to my cousin's immediate nephew and he has taken several trips to Holland, to visit that spot and to visit the Grave of the Missing, where his uncle's name is forever etched with many the others who perished in Holland. I have also connected with my cousin's commanding officer at the time (He's 95 years old, still kicking, but not jumping anymore). It was very cool to be able to get his first hand account of what happened. He has also written a book, which lists my cousin in it.
All this has provided my cousin's nephew and his family a welcome sense of closure, as he never knew what really happened to him. I also put together all my information on a website I dedicated to my cousin.
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It has also been very interesting and rewarding to me in being able to put these puzzles togethr and provide closure to the rest of my family members who had family member participate in conflicts,some who didn't come back.
Good Luck!!