There are benefits to being in your mid-50s.
Seriously, that's why cancel culture is so toxic. By it's very nature, it leaves no room for forgiveness or a real sense of contrition. Someone can be genuinely sorry, but everyone else hand waves it away as a PR stunt to try and call off the dogs.
If Sammy, Joey, and the rest come out and say, "I was wrong, it was stupid and wrong, and I apologize to everyone I've hurt" and then go out and live changed lives and have a new attitude, people would forgive them. That's how we are. But, no body wants to do that anymore. Now, we want to cancel people, hound them out of the public square, and then wipe them from collective existence. The accused hide behind lawyers for fear of being sued. As such, we place a lot of people between the guilty and the victim, making resolution and restitution much more difficult.
If all of the accused would say that sentence from their heart - and prove it with their lives - I can forgive them. (And, as an aside, my advice to you as a young and single man is to remember the phrase "I was wrong; will you please forgive me?" will come in handy when you're a married man.)