johnnycakes
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The Ly sisters.
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No. 16
Footballguy
There are too many hot chicks out there to waste energy on chicks I don't find attractive. I don't mind crashing and burning with a hot chick because there are plenty more out there.
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The Z Machine
Footballguy
You're doing it wrong.
Gr00vus
Footballguy
You messed this situation up. Take the party back to her place (or yours) with her roommates. Close the deal.All in all a decent story regardless. You're getting there No.16. Best part of it all is you didn't mention she who should not be named once.
Wrong. She simply did not find enough incentive/attraction to leave them for you.You let way too many non-obstacles become obstacles. Stand the #### up for yourself. You'll come off as way more masculine simply by doing this than by picking fights.
No. 16
Footballguy
You're right for the most part but just needed to corrrect one thing: I did not pick a fight. I said "excuse me" in the nicest way possible with no malice. Dude was the one that escalated the situation. Starting fights in clubs is one of the dumbest things to do. Nothing good ever comes from it.
No. 16
Footballguy
Because of this post I initiated another Facebook chat with her last night. She had sent me an event invite the other day on Facebook to a fundraiser thing for her nursing class tonight so I used that as an in to start a convo. We chatted for a bit but nothing special. I just wanted to show I wasn't going into hiding after my failed attempt of asking her out on a date. I didn't go to the fundraiser thing tonight, because although she sent me a Facebook invite she didn't ask me in the chat to go or anything like that. That's the last time I plan on contacting her unless she invites me out somewhere or I'm in her area.
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No. 16
Footballguy
I did and she said more or less said no. It wouldn't it seem desperate to try again so soon? Next time we meet up, I plan on asking her in person or the following day.
cstu
Footballguy
In that case, don't waste any more of your time on her and move on. If a girl is interested she'll let you know and there are too many girls out there to bother with one that isn't.
No. 16
Footballguy
Agreed. That's why I won't go out of my way to party in her area or hunt her down. However, it doesn't hurt to keep her in contact and hang out with her. If there's nothing there between us, her friends are pretty cute as well.
"excuse me" in the club? Are you serious?Anything less than walking away or moving on in a crowded club means you are ready to throwdown.
Rick James
Footballguy
You did not ask her on a date. You brought up a particular bar, she mentioned that it was a date place, and you backed down.
boots11234
Footballguy
This. I am surprised you ever had a gf in the first place. Put an end to this. Call her up and say hey, you want to go with me to xxxxxx. If she says no, move on. You over think everything if she's into you she'll let you know if you ask her out
offdee
Footballguy
This is the best way to play this at this point. Send her a message and ask her specifically about one of her hot friends by name. If she has any interest, this will stoke the flames. Make it seem like you've been keeping in touch with her only to try and gain traction with one of her friends. Be specific about one friend...don't make it a blanket statement about her whole group.You're welcome.'No. 16 said:
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Rick James
Footballguy
FIFY
No. 16
Footballguy
Sounds like a plan.
Beerguzzler
Footballguy
You didn't ask her out, don't kid yourself. Still too much game, no action. Waiting on a woman to make a move is beyond ######ed, especially a hot girl. Girls are attracted to confidence, stop ##### footing around and just see where you stand. Ask her out in a direct manner that cannot be taken any other way. Either way you will have your answer. Like you said, great if she agrees, if not many more fish in the sea. Asking her for a specific friend is just stupid if done via a post it or chat. If your gonna go that route, it needs to be done in person to gauge her reaction and judge how to proceed from it.'No. 16 said:
FFS..... it's NOT a plan. Why are you listening to offdee? I believe it has been confirmed that user 'offdee' is a homosexual. Quit taking his heterosexual dating advice.You've lost leverage and it's going to be too much work to get attraction back.Move on.
offdee
Footballguy
No. 16
Footballguy
I'll ask her out for sure. Don't think right now is the best timing because of finals. I believe her last final is the 22nd so I'll aim for sometime after then.
Rick James
Footballguy
definitely wait two more weeks...
No. 16
Footballguy
Sarcasm?
DA RAIDERS
Footballguy
This is childish. Are we in third grade? The only reason you do anything like this, and you still probably shouldn't,, is if you have feelings for nursing student girl. You don't. So don't play games. If she crosses your path again, be more direct (which is your biggest problem IMHO) you have to remember, you're looking for a good time, not a long time. Wtf cares if you burn a bridge or two? Remember your boy in HI? it worked. Blunt force trauma and all.
No. 16
Footballguy
Not an update about me but just thought I'd share the latest twist in my GB's relationship with his GF (the ex's roommate).
So last Monday my GB and I were working out at my parents place. Getting our bodies right for Vegas next month. Mid work out his GF texts him and asks if the ex can see her dog. I say fine since I really don't care, I just don't want to interact with the ex.
So my GB's GF handled all the logistics with the ex seeing her dog while we continued to work out. The ex and I didn't see or speak so no big deal. The dog was returned. While we were working out I asked my GB how he and GF were and he said that things were crazy and that she had given him a deadline. He was about to explain the deadline but his GF popped up so I never got to here the details until last night.
While we were playing poker my GB tells the guys that his GF gave him until Feb 2013 to get her pregnant or else she'll leave him! We all just laughed at first but I told him that's a BS ultimatum. They've been together for 8 years so you would expect she start asking for a ring, but asking for a baby is just a way to make sure she has an ultimatum he can't possibly uphold so she doesn't feel bad when she bones some other guy.
Feel sorry for the guy. I told him he might as well dump her now before she dumps him. We'll see how that goes.
So last Monday my GB and I were working out at my parents place. Getting our bodies right for Vegas next month. Mid work out his GF texts him and asks if the ex can see her dog. I say fine since I really don't care, I just don't want to interact with the ex.
So my GB's GF handled all the logistics with the ex seeing her dog while we continued to work out. The ex and I didn't see or speak so no big deal. The dog was returned. While we were working out I asked my GB how he and GF were and he said that things were crazy and that she had given him a deadline. He was about to explain the deadline but his GF popped up so I never got to here the details until last night.
While we were playing poker my GB tells the guys that his GF gave him until Feb 2013 to get her pregnant or else she'll leave him! We all just laughed at first but I told him that's a BS ultimatum. They've been together for 8 years so you would expect she start asking for a ring, but asking for a baby is just a way to make sure she has an ultimatum he can't possibly uphold so she doesn't feel bad when she bones some other guy.
Feel sorry for the guy. I told him he might as well dump her now before she dumps him. We'll see how that goes.
IvanKaramazov
Footballguy
Again with the dog. This has got to be the most dysfunctional relationship of all time.
Make that the second-most dysfunctional.
JFT Ben
Footballguy
Ufda! Opening this thread is like rubbernecking a car accident. Just can't look away, but at least the face palm count is high.
bonesman
Footballguy
your GB is sterile?
glumpy
breeze
and an aside--haven't seen or heard that exclamation since my grandparents, years ago. 
No. 16
Footballguy
Nope. It is such an evil plan. He's basically terrified now of having sex with her. Women.
DA RAIDERS
Footballguy
Give her the little faggity dog already or ask her to marry you. Those are pretty much the only options left to you.
I can't believe you're still interacting with this whore.
I can't believe you're still interacting with this whore.
No. 16
Footballguy
I didn't interact with her at all. She asked GB's GF, who texted my GB, and then who asked me. Just gave the ok and my GB's GF did the rest. Didn't see her or talk to her at all.
DA RAIDERS
Footballguy
Call it what you want, the chick went over to your house, talked with your parents, saw the dog etc. Either give her the stupid dog, or never let her see it again.
No. 16
Footballguy
Yes because that's the only way to do it. My GB's GF took the dog from my house to a park about two blocks away. Never saw her, never heard from her, never contacted her. When we were done working out my GB's GF brought the dog back. Not a big deal.
identikit
Footballguy
Johnny Rock
Footballguy
Serious question. Do you see her periodically seeing the dog in this manner throughout the life of the dog? Five years from now? Ten?
James Daulton
Footballguy
What would really bug me about this situation is that this chick can waltz easily in and out of your life, yet you can't even bring yourself to be in her presence. She has all the power and she is reminded every time she needs to see "the dog." Either man up and be able to look her in the eye or ditch the dog for ****'s sake.
identikit
Footballguy
FigJam
Footballguy
Put the dog out, and have Da Guru come over and mow your lawn...
comfortably numb
Footballguy
This is like George Costanza leaving behind keys at a chicks apartment for a reason to go see her again?
Ned
Footballguy
Rick James
Footballguy
just wanted to remind you that damn near 3 months have gone by since your first encounter with the cute nurse.
Mr. Pickles
Footballguy
This entire post is a horrific train wreck.
Zow
Footballguy
The dog issue really isn't that big IMO, but the big point here is that it means you'll have this contact indefinitely. If you can't even bear seeing her (I don't blame you for that at all) you gotta make a decision with the dog. If you love the dog and can't seeing getting rid of it, cut her off. If not give her the dog and make sure she knows you're doing it to cut the last tie w her.
