I don't know the "anti-gay" side really well, but is this what it's reduced to? What they do in the bedroom? This question comes up in these threads all the time and I don't get it. Everything I read about is how it's a disadvantage not to have both a male and female parent, the societal pressures etc. I've always laughed at the "social pressures" circular argument. Gets me every time. I rarely, if ever, hear objections based on the sex part. I hear people talking about making out in public, and I get that as I don't really like anyone making out in public...doesn't matter if it's two dudes, two chicks, a dude and a unicorn, a dude and a chick, whatever.The part I don't get is, even IF you think being gay is a choice, why do you care so much what consenting adults do in the privacy of their bedroom?oof.Pandora's box is about to be opened, and I'm ok with that, but here goes...
Race is not a choice, so, no, I don't believe a business owner should be allowed to discriminate based on race.
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Because the truth is... "against people who are different then me." All the other spew is simple subterfuge.I don't know the "anti-gay" side really well, but is this what it's reduced to? What they do in the bedroom? This question comes up in these threads all the time and I don't get it. Everything I read about is how it's a disadvantage not to have both a male and female parent, the societal pressures etc. I've always laughed at the "social pressures" circular argument. Gets me every time. I rarely, if ever, hear objections based on the sex part. I hear people talking about making out in public, and I get that as I don't really like anyone making out in public...doesn't matter if it's two dudes, two chicks, a dude and a unicorn, a dude and a chick, whatever.The part I don't get is, even IF you think being gay is a choice, why do you care so much what consenting adults do in the privacy of their bedroom?oof.Pandora's box is about to be opened, and I'm ok with that, but here goes...
Race is not a choice, so, no, I don't believe a business owner should be allowed to discriminate based on race.
Ready.....go!
Do you not see the difference between the two bolded items? There's no obligation for anyone to support gay marriage. The only places where there have been issues with people like florists being fined is in states that have made gay people a protected class. Clearly that's not happening in Indiana anytime soon. However, this law very well might make it possible for a restaurant owner to refuse to serve lunch to a gay couple. That has nothing to do with gay marriage. That's okay with you?I personally don't believe that an individual who chooses not to support homosexual marriage is bigotry. It's an increasingly unpopular opinion and legislatively changing every year but I fail to see how a person unwilling to contribute their products or services to gay people rises to the level of bigotry.To me it's similiar to free speech - I hate that WBC pickets military and gay funerals. I vehemently disagree with both their message and their tactics. But unless their speech rises to the level of threatening others I simply must defend the right for them to speak freely. IMO the mode of opposition is critically important.Sounds like most of us agree on the end game, just differ on the approach. We all want to "force" bigots to not discriminate against minorities. Some want to use legislation, while others prefer social pressure or the free market. But, in the end, we want the bigots "forced" out of business or "forced" to change their ways. Right?
What I'm still unsure about is when its not a clear cut case of bigotry, but rather just different beliefs.
It goes against many religions. Whether you agree or disagree, the rationale behind a religious freedom law should be rather obvious.The part I don't get is, even IF you think being gay is a choice, why do you care so much what consenting adults do in the privacy of their bedroom?oof.Pandora's box is about to be opened, and I'm ok with that, but here goes...
Race is not a choice, so, no, I don't believe a business owner should be allowed to discriminate based on race.
Ready.....go!
And it makes them feel better about their bigotry when they can say people choose to be gay.It goes against many religions. Whether you agree or disagree, the rationale behind a religious freedom law should be rather obvious.The part I don't get is, even IF you think being gay is a choice, why do you care so much what consenting adults do in the privacy of their bedroom?oof.Pandora's box is about to be opened, and I'm ok with that, but here goes...
Race is not a choice, so, no, I don't believe a business owner should be allowed to discriminate based on race.
Ready.....go!
My God, please change your avatar.Outside of 3 Floyd's Brewing, they don't particularly offer anything that interests me. But I do live rather close and I have full intentions of avoiding patronizing anything in the state because of this.
With a trip to Kentuky planned, I'll use it for its roads, but that's it. With no toll roads, that''s an easy decision
I think in most cases it's a nature/nurture combination, but I also know people who are permanently experimenting. I believe there's a cultural influence sometimes (ironically, they do to) that extends beyond childhood. It's hard to be definitive with regard to something as complex as sexual identity.And it makes them feel better about their bigotry when they can say people choose to be gay.It goes against many religions. Whether you agree or disagree, the rationale behind a religious freedom law should be rather obvious.The part I don't get is, even IF you think being gay is a choice, why do you care so much what consenting adults do in the privacy of their bedroom?oof.Pandora's box is about to be opened, and I'm ok with that, but here goes...
Race is not a choice, so, no, I don't believe a business owner should be allowed to discriminate based on race.
Ready.....go!
I'm waiting for Milli Vanilli to weigh in.Keith Olbermann @KeithOlbermann ·
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The Chick-Fil-A example is rather irrelevant in the context it was brought up, which is whether or not it would be OK for some local business in podunk Texas to serve only white people. There are plenty of little rural towns where a "white's only" sign would attract more business than it repelled, to which Commish retorted that national and/or social media pressure would take care of it, just like it did for Chick-Fil-A.Apparently not GBSorry, but if anyone thinks that CFA did not capitulate due to the outcry, they are either blind, ignorant or unwilling to see the reality of the situation.
Regardless of the Huckabee hate filet day or the subsequent couple of months, the clear change in tact by the company is a 100% admission that they were running against the market and the mores of the nation as a whole - and recognizing their growth into areas outside of the South and their more conservative strongholds, the company changed how they approached things.
If you think that was not a direct result of the public pressure then you are either a fool, or fooling yourself.
Probably why I don't think we should have these "religious freedom" laws at all. Typically, they claim to be about religious freedom, but in effect, they are all about imposing a particular religion on others.It goes against many religions. Whether you agree or disagree, the rationale behind a religious freedom law should be rather obvious.The part I don't get is, even IF you think being gay is a choice, why do you care so much what consenting adults do in the privacy of their bedroom?oof.Pandora's box is about to be opened, and I'm ok with that, but here goes...
Race is not a choice, so, no, I don't believe a business owner should be allowed to discriminate based on race.
Ready.....go!
Two things here.I personally don't believe that an individual who chooses not to support homosexual marriage is bigotry. It's an increasingly unpopular opinion and legislatively changing every year but I fail to see how a person unwilling to contribute their products or services to gay people rises to the level of bigotry.
To me it's similiar to free speech - I hate that WBC pickets military and gay funerals. I vehemently disagree with both their message and their tactics. But unless their speech rises to the level of threatening others I simply must defend the right for them to speak freely. IMO the mode of opposition is critically important.
Again, I don't think it's that definitive. There's always going to be a grey area with regard to religion, what's impeding on religion vs. what's religion impeding on someone else.Probably why I don't think we should have these "religious freedom" laws at all. Typically, they claim to be about religious freedom, but in effect, they are all about imposing a particular religion on others.It goes against many religions. Whether you agree or disagree, the rationale behind a religious freedom law should be rather obvious.The part I don't get is, even IF you think being gay is a choice, why do you care so much what consenting adults do in the privacy of their bedroom?oof.Pandora's box is about to be opened, and I'm ok with that, but here goes...
Race is not a choice, so, no, I don't believe a business owner should be allowed to discriminate based on race.
Ready.....go!
They broke up, so you probably won't be hearing from them. However to fill that void if your life, here is something you can watch instead:I'm waiting for Milli Vanilli to weigh in.Keith Olbermann @KeithOlbermann ·
SPECIAL COMMENT: NCAA must move Final 4 out of Indianapolis, to begin a rollback of homophobic laws nationwide
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-QeLY7Jwwo0&feature=youtu.be
Will be interesting to see whether they also cancel their Pitchfork fest show in Chicago this summer.WILCOVerified account@Wilco
We're canceling our 5/7 show in Indianapolis. “Indiana Religious Freedom Restoration Act” feels like thinly disguised legal discrimination.
Because those are relevant.Should a business be allowed to deny entry for not adhering to a strict dress code?
Should a business be allowed to eject patrons for behaviors which are deemed inappropriate by the business owner?
Maybe not to you. They are relevant to me, that's why I asked the questions.Because those are relevant.Should a business be allowed to deny entry for not adhering to a strict dress code?
Should a business be allowed to eject patrons for behaviors which are deemed inappropriate by the business owner?
Because it isn't easy to find some other boogyman to hide behind instead??it'd be easier on everyone if we just banned religion.
I really don't get this argument at all especially as it applies to Chick-Fil-A. It was suggested that it didn't hurt them financially. They didn't have to change from a pure business perspective. They still changed, which was the point. And no, the bold is not why it was brought up. There is a disagreement as to whether caving to public pressure is a legit way to change policy. Some, like myself say it is. Others like pantagrapher think the way it's going to change is through legislation. I brought up CFA as an example of why I think peer pressure works. The "yeah, but would it work in a town of racists in the middle of nowhere?" shtick came later. If we can stop attacking the strawman and move on, I'll acknowledge there are always exceptions to the rule....even in this case.The Chick-Fil-A example is rather irrelevant in the context it was brought up, which is whether or not it would be OK for some local business in podunk Texas to serve only white people. There are plenty of little rural towns where a "white's only" sign would attract more business than it repelled, to which Commish retorted that national and/or social media pressure would take care of it, just like it did for Chick-Fil-A.Apparently not GBSorry, but if anyone thinks that CFA did not capitulate due to the outcry, they are either blind, ignorant or unwilling to see the reality of the situation.
Regardless of the Huckabee hate filet day or the subsequent couple of months, the clear change in tact by the company is a 100% admission that they were running against the market and the mores of the nation as a whole - and recognizing their growth into areas outside of the South and their more conservative strongholds, the company changed how they approached things.
If you think that was not a direct result of the public pressure then you are either a fool, or fooling yourself.
Of course Chick-Fil-A caved to national pressure, they're a national chain. The notion that some diner in podunk Texas is going to care what a bunch of Californians on Facebook are saying about them when business is booming at home is naive at best.
And every one of their other shows in the US where states have similar laws.Will be interesting to see whether they also cancel their Pitchfork fest show in Chicago this summer.WILCOVerified account@Wilco
We're canceling our 5/7 show in Indianapolis. “Indiana Religious Freedom Restoration Act” feels like thinly disguised legal discrimination.
Not true, this is broader than any of those laws.http://thinkprogress.org/lgbt/2015/03/30/3640374/big-lie-media-tells-indianas-new-religious-freedom-law/And every one of their other shows in the US where states have similar laws.Will be interesting to see whether they also cancel their Pitchfork fest show in Chicago this summer.WILCOVerified account@Wilco
We're canceling our 5/7 show in Indianapolis. Indiana Religious Freedom Restoration Act feels like thinly disguised legal discrimination.
Without religion, would we be having this argument? i.e. what is the non-religious justification to fight so hard against people being gay?Because it isn't easy to find some other boogyman to hide behind instead??it'd be easier on everyone if we just banned religion.
Sucks for their fans who were looking forward to the show, 99% of whom probably find the law abhorrent too. They should've played the show and donated the proceeds to local gay rights groups.Will be interesting to see whether they also cancel their Pitchfork fest show in Chicago this summer.WILCOVerified account@Wilco
We're canceling our 5/7 show in Indianapolis. “Indiana Religious Freedom Restoration Act” feels like thinly disguised legal discrimination.
Its real. That's tomorrow's front page. Here's the editorial on the front page of indystar.com.not sure if this is bs or not
https://mobile.twitter.com/markalesia/status/582729433607376896/photo/1
No, from post #180:So Indiana's law ISN'T actually like the other 19 states?
I'm afraid I can't get onboard with the extreme leap that you think national criticism of a national brand that very much cares about its national reputation would extrapolate to little local shops that could give two ****s about their national reputation.There is a disagreement as to whether caving to public pressure is a legit way to change policy. Some, like myself say it is. Others like pantagrapher think the way it's going to change is through legislation. I brought up CFA as an example of why I think peer pressure works.
This isn't some one-off thing. Rural right wing white America makes up a very large percentage of this country's population and there would be plenty of support for "white only" stores in many places throughout the country. We'd have little racist cities and little black-only cities and little no-gays-allowed cities and little gay-only cities all over the place. That is not a recipe for any kind of good and if you think otherwise I challenge you to look up the history of places like Colorado City and people like Rulon Jeffs that tried the same with fundamentalist beliefs and take a look at how well that worked out.I'll acknowledge there are always exceptions to the rule....even in this case.
I'm kinda surprised at Jeb commenting in favor of it. Not so much about Ted Cruz' comments:Heard Jeb Bush on the radio tonight. He firmly supports the Indiana law and Governor Pence.
ETA- this is the "centrist" candidate for the Republicans.
So Jeb is a bigot like your boy Mitt, huh?Heard Jeb Bush on the radio tonight. He firmly supports the Indiana law and Governor Pence.
ETA- this is the "centrist" candidate for the Republicans.
I preferred The Atlantic's version, but whatever gets one there.No, from post #180:So Indiana's law ISN'T actually like the other 19 states?
http://thinkprogress.org/lgbt/2015/03/30/3640374/big-lie-media-tells-indianas-new-religious-freedom-law/
Yet tonight on a Fox News they repeated the lie that there is "no significant difference" between this law and the other 19 or the federal one. And people believe it.I preferred The Atlantic's version, but whatever gets one there.No, from post #180:http://thinkprogress.org/lgbt/2015/03/30/3640374/big-lie-media-tells-indianas-new-religious-freedom-law/So Indiana's law ISN'T actually like the other 19 states?