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7k in 30 mins. Best part of my day, daydreaming about what could have been had I just listened to Chet more. Smh.
Have you ever considered a service or a private chef that could make the meals according to what you like and can make them fairly healthy so you don't have to think about it? Maybe just a few meals a week, and then you can sub in some healthier snacks that are easy to just grab and bite down on like fruitBeen slacking off. Diets been ok, not great. Exercise has been limited the past week or so. Weight floating around 289-291. Need to refocus. I’ll have extra time in July for exercise as I’m looking at 10 days of furlough.
This is good stuff GB. Great points all.It usually takes at least 5 days to meet your goals.
You seem to need rules to succeed.
I like the daily exercise thing rule for you but when you had a couple days in a row earlier where you couldn't row, you just gave up. Maybe daily exercise but include some non rowing exercise if you can't row? Like taking the family for a walk or bike ride? Or something where you reward yourself for working out, like you can't have certain foods unless you rowed?
I like the no drinking rule for you because I think you go off the rails when you drink, but if you don't think that's possible, then one cheat day per week which can include alcohol? And maybe you need 5 days of exercise to earn that cheat day?
You seem to struggle when you think "I've got this". Like the moment you get in the groove, you're like, ok, I've accomplished this, I don't need to try hard anymore. The hard part isn't the first week. It's the seventh consecutive week. I feel like you need a goal and stakes of some kind. Maybe a deal with your wife that if you each meet your goals you get to do something you both like, and if one of you "wins" they get to pick something? Might be next vacation, or a home remodel you both want, or something you wouldn't normally purchase.
You seem to struggle at night. Maybe start doing the fbg poker tourneys again or some other non alcohol, non food activity? Bonus points if you choose something with the family more often.
For me:Otis said:This is good stuff GB. Great points all.
Yes night time is when I struggle. Always been what kills me. 8-10pm. If I went to sleep at 8 each night I’d be all good! Idle hands...:
You’re right that alcohol kills me too. When I moderate it’s not a problem — Bud Select 55s, White wine spritzers, stuff that is light and not tons of calories. The guzzling bottles of red wine seems to be my biggest problem on the alcohol side. I just can’t drink enough scotch these days for that to be a problem, same with beer, and I’m particularly safe with very light beer. I enjoy drinking, and it’s probably unrealistic to give it up entirely. Just need to moderate with the above in mind and not drink every day.
Day 4 yesterday. Morning row, ate really well, first alcoholic drink of the week. We both had a hard day and retreated to it. But it was “good drinking”—white wine spritzers (I make mine with ice and more seltzer than wine). Didn’t go off the rails. Had a few and went to bed. Didn’t raid the cabinets for chocolate or cold pizza.
Day 5 today. Rowed again, 5 in a row. Will eat well, will drink light this evening.
I think we’re past the recent trouble spot now. The new puppy was killing us, but now we have a morning routine where we both get up early, and after we handle the dog and kids there’s enough time for me to row and the wife to go for a long walk. It’s helping both our moods and overall approach immensely. I think so long as I can keep rowing, I’ll be Ok. Going to start increasing the length of my rows a bit too, such that I’ll be doing 10ks daily like I was before.
Stakes, games, rules all sound good. I think for me, there are three key rules. Let’s keep it simple:
1. Row every day. There will be occasional days where I can’t believe we’re heading out of town early or something, but in general, row every day.
2. Drink moderately. Don’t drink every day. In fact, drink less than half the week. And steer clear of stocking the cabinets with red wine. If it’s not there, we can’t drink it. And it seems to be my trouble spot.
3. Greatly moderate the junk food. A mini bag of Wise chips in the evening after a day of really healthy eating and a row is fine. But don’t overdo it.
Two hardest things are taking it off and keeping it off. You've taken some off and you've survived a slacking off period without giving it back. This is the human part of the process where it's just difficult not to take any breaks when you're on a long road like you are.cheeseypoof said:Been slacking off. Diets been ok, not great. Exercise has been limited the past week or so. Weight floating around 289-291. Need to refocus. I’ll have extra time in July for exercise as I’m looking at 10 days of furlough.
I think another place you struggle is that when you break a rule, you break all of the rules, like, #### it, I'm already cheating, let's go to town.Otis said:Stakes, games, rules all sound good. I think for me, there are three key rules. Let’s keep it simple:
1. Row every day. There will be occasional days where I can’t believe we’re heading out of town early or something, but in general, row every day.
2. Drink moderately. Don’t drink every day. In fact, drink less than half the week. And steer clear of stocking the cabinets with red wine. If it’s not there, we can’t drink it. And it seems to be my trouble spot.
3. Greatly moderate the junk food. A mini bag of Wise chips in the evening after a day of really healthy eating and a row is fine. But don’t overdo it.
That is awesome. So proud of you. Watched you keep at it this whole time and you have just been chugging along and killing it. Keep up the good work.Weighed in at 224.3 today - Broke my goal of 225 which was set on 1/1 when I weighed 257.7. Very happy, but not satisfied yet.
New goal 210 by Thanksgiving. I just have to keep eating right and walking 15k steps.
Thanks to everybody that has helped me and held me accountable along the way.
The I've Got This part is a major hurdle. Every time he writes that I immediately think of that scene in Moneyball when they're trying to talk Hatteberg into playing First Base. Success will not be attainable until @Otis takes the Ron Washington line of thinking. There's more to it than just that, but setbacks are a when not if until recognition that this will be hard not only settles in, but as you said - is still the mind set 7 weeks later too.bostonfred said:It usually takes at least 5 days to meet your goals.
You seem to need rules to succeed.
I like the daily exercise thing rule for you but when you had a couple days in a row earlier where you couldn't row, you just gave up. Maybe daily exercise but include some non rowing exercise if you can't row? Like taking the family for a walk or bike ride? Or something where you reward yourself for working out, like you can't have certain foods unless you rowed?
I like the no drinking rule for you because I think you go off the rails when you drink, but if you don't think that's possible, then one cheat day per week which can include alcohol? And maybe you need 5 days of exercise to earn that cheat day?
You seem to struggle when you think "I've got this". Like the moment you get in the groove, you're like, ok, I've accomplished this, I don't need to try hard anymore. The hard part isn't the first week. It's the seventh consecutive week. I feel like you need a goal and stakes of some kind. Maybe a deal with your wife that if you each meet your goals you get to do something you both like, and if one of you "wins" they get to pick something? Might be next vacation, or a home remodel you both want, or something you wouldn't normally purchase.
You seem to struggle at night. Maybe start doing the fbg poker tourneys again or some other non alcohol, non food activity? Bonus points if you choose something with the family more often.
No it wasn't. A change in your schedule, a poor mental approach, and alcohol addiction is what's killing you. The change to your schedule this time just happened to be a puppy. 3 months ago it was covid. There will be a different change to your schedule in August or September. Then the bloated holidays approach. And as Christmas is approaching you realize you're still fat. Go through 2-3 months of winter progress. Then inevitably run into another one of those hurdles in March. Give up. Then repeat all that again.Otis said:The new puppy was killing us
Weighed in at 224.3 today - Broke my goal of 225 which was set on 1/1 when I weighed 257.7. Very happy, but not satisfied yet.
New goal 210 by Thanksgiving. I just have to keep eating right and walking 15k steps.
Thanks to everybody that has helped me and held me accountable along the way.
Let's talk squatsNo it wasn't. A change in your schedule, a poor mental approach, and alcohol addiction is what's killing you. The change to your schedule this time just happened to be a puppy. 3 months ago it was covid. There will be a different change to your schedule in August or September. Then the bloated holidays approach. And as Christmas is approaching you realize you're still fat. Go through 2-3 months of winter progress. Then inevitably run into another one of those hurdles in March. Give up. Then repeat all that again.
If you want to be successful then you must figure out your way over those real life hurdles when they happen. Rather than just blankly staring at it when they pop up, wave the white flag, and go to your alcohol filled comfort zone until you're ready to come out again. You have to prepare for those hurdles now. Not the specific hurdle, but what you are going to do when they pop up. If your preparation is THIS IS EASY!!! then you will continue to fail. You must prepare as if this is the day another hurdle pops up. You must have your priorities aligned in advance. Then if today comes and goes and you didn't need to adjust, great, but prepare as if tomorrow will be the day.
Talk to us about how you stay mentally tough and stay in the zone if you don't mind.mind set
I have a 12 pound medicine ball and about a 40 yard backyard. One thing I've been doing is starting at the deck and doing medicine ball squats-and-throws all the way to the back fence then back. Once doing this long enough I added a little jump to each rep too.Let's talk squats
No gym access right now, what's a good idea for a person who has thinner legs let's say and trying to get the base of the house worked out first?
Now as far as Otis goes...I know someone who I think is somewhat similar in her approach to exercise. That's why I was suggesting he get his kids involved. Otis is a family man and I think doing activities with his children...usually folks in legal/attorneys from my experience get swamped in paper and are not always able to spend as much time as they like with family (there's a cost to making cheddar) so I thought if he got his kids out on bikes with him, an hour would fly by.
@OtisNo it wasn't. A change in your schedule, a poor mental approach, and alcohol addiction is what's killing you. The change to your schedule this time just happened to be a puppy. 3 months ago it was covid. There will be a different change to your schedule in August or September. Then the bloated holidays approach. And as Christmas is approaching you realize you're still fat. Go through 2-3 months of winter progress. Then inevitably run into another one of those hurdles in March. Give up. Then repeat all that again.
If you want to be successful then you must figure out your way over those real life hurdles when they happen. Rather than just blankly staring at it when they pop up, wave the white flag, and go to your alcohol filled comfort zone until you're ready to come out again. You have to prepare for those hurdles now. Not the specific hurdle, but what you are going to do when they pop up. If your preparation is THIS IS EASY!!! then you will continue to fail. You must prepare as if this is the day another hurdle pops up. You must have your priorities aligned in advance. Then if today comes and goes and you didn't need to adjust, great, but prepare as if tomorrow will be the day.
Cliff notes version - I don't. At least overtly. The path to get here required it, but eventually it just becomes habit. Now it's just priorities and preparation. Emphasis on the word 'now.' It took a long time to get here.Talk to us about how you stay mentally tough and stay in the zone if you don't mind.
I have a 12 pound medicine ball and about a 40 yard backyard. One thing I've been doing is starting at the deck and doing medicine ball squats-and-throws all the way to the back fence then back. Once doing this long enough I added a little jump to each rep too.
The bottom step to our deck isn't a full step, which is perfect for russian speed lunges.
I also do walking lunges in the backyard. We have a slight incline and from front-to-back I can do about 50 reps. We've got bags of things like grass seed and weed & feed in the garage I'll carry as weights. If the gas can is full that works too.
I'll also use those as weights to do single leg romanian dead lifts. Great leg strength/balance combo exercise. Very humbling if your balance is out of whack. In fact, you may not even need a weight at first.
If you have something that can be used as a box there are lots of good suggestions here. We replaced our AC unit, but I asked them not to dispose of the old one. I'm just using it until it inevitably breaks.
Tl;dr - be creative, but stick to the basics.
Of course, you mean ignite that blubber with an intense workout. Right?TGIF!
Anyone wanna come over and get lit out in my yard?
Uh. Yes. Yeah. That.Of course, you mean ignite that blubber with an intense workout. Right?
I was with you a week ago. Just takes a few days. Come on back in GBI completely have given up
Going to need an earlier heads up next time.TGIF!
Anyone wanna come over and get lit out in my yard?
Sweat out that regret. 30 mins 7241m 160 avg HR. Maf++For me:
1. 5/7 days per week rowing. Get back to 10ks versus the weak 30 mins here soon.
2. Intermittent fast on weekdays 16/8
3. No eating after 7 on weekends
Yesterday was outside almost all day with the boy so just didn’t have it in me to row (he also woke up 30 mins after being put down and stayed up till 10) life, man. Been active again today but am going to get the row in tonight.eaganwildcats said:Sweat out that regret. 30 mins 7241m 160 avg HR. Maf++
Boom ~7K in 30:00.Yesterday was outside almost all day with the boy so just didn’t have it in me to row (he also woke up 30 mins after being put down and stayed up till 10) life, man. Been active again today but am going to get the row in tonight.
They all feed into each other - diet exercise, sleep, (and stress). Slip up in any one of those areas and the others are also likely to suffer.Maurile Tremblay said:One thing that getting a Fitbit made me realize is how intertwined diet, exercise, alcohol, and sleep really are.
Sleeping poorly makes it really hard to get motivated to exercise, and also makes junk food a lot more tempting. Exercise greatly improves sleep quality. It's all in the numbers on my Fitbit app, plain as day. Alcohol really detracts from the quality of my sleep. Maybe everyone is different, but even just two glasses of wine means that only about 10% of my sleep will be below resting heart rate instead of over 90%. It also detracts from my percentage of deep sleep and REM. Alcohol doesn't reduce the quantity of my sleep, but it greatly reduces how restorative it is.
So there's a spiral that makes everything easier -- or harder -- all at once. Avoiding or minimizing alcohol helps with sleep. Sleep helps with diet and exercise. Exercise helps with sleep and with motivation for diet. They all work together. Doing one well makes the rest of them easier. Doing one poorly makes everything harder.
If I were going to try to fix one thing at a time, I'd probably start with sleep. Winding down and going to bed earlier has been really helpful whenever I've done it.
I think Matthew Walker would agree with you, I've tried to change my behavior after listening to this podcast.Maurile Tremblay said:If I were going to try to fix one thing at a time, I'd probably start with sleep. Winding down and going to bed earlier has been really helpful whenever I've done it.
If you don't mind an interloper, and @MAC_32 is mentally way more tough than I am, but I have a little to add to his post. Stuff that works for me. Probably all stuff you've heard before.Talk to us about how you stay mentally tough and stay in the zone if you don't mind.
Nice, I hit 600 km of biking as well in June this morning. Are you part of the FFA strava group? It is mostly folks from the 10k thread but a few bikers are in there as well. Would recommend it to all.i hit 600 km of biking for june so that rules and i am declaring this a kick butt week where i will do at least 150 minutes of workout a day and hit my calory goal every day and come out of this week feeling good and not like i sold the farm over a holiday week take that to the bank bromigos
i am on strava and love it its basically my partner in weight losing crime along with my fitness pal but i am not in the group basically i would have to reveal my secret identity and hey clark that aint happening so bam but i wish you and all other stravachachos the best take that to the bank bromigoNice, I hit 600 km of biking as well in June this morning. Are you part of the FFA strava group? It is mostly folks from the 10k thread but a few bikers are in there as well. Would recommend it to all.i hit 600 km of biking for june so that rules and i am declaring this a kick butt week where i will do at least 150 minutes of workout a day and hit my calory goal every day and come out of this week feeling good and not like i sold the farm over a holiday week take that to the bank bromigos
Huge fan of run/walk. Been doing a lot of it myself lately in this heat.This morning I started walking at 6am, started stretching in the street as I was walking and then I just wanted to run and went with it. When things started to pull or hurt I just slowed down and walked a bit then started up again.
I'm in Palm Beach area, it's been 95 degrees everyday which when there's a nice breeze is livable but there hasn't been rain for a couple weeks now and nothing in the upcoming forecast to suggest a change so it's unbearable if you don't get out before the sun comes up. I can barely stand up at night when we play Tennis by the 2nd Set, hands on the hips, awful. And night is like 6pm which is still hot.Huge fan of run/walk. Been doing a lot of it myself lately in this heat.