Another strategy I'm considering which would completely turn my eating world upside down, but would solve all my problems: I've for the longest time roughly been following IF because I don't eat breakfast, just coffee. But rather than skipping breakfast, what if I skipped dinner? Imagine I shut down my kitchen after 1pm or 2pm or something. All of my very worst eating and habits start after 6pm. I wouldn't drink. I wouldn't eat garbage. If I loaded up on a healthy breakfast and a regular lunch, and then didn't eat till breakfast the next morning, I would positively lose a ton of weight.
During quarantine there's no reason I can't do this. I wish I'd thought of it and started it 2 months ago. It'll be harder when "work life" kicks back in, including taking clients to dinners, and it being difficult to have a real/big breakfast and lunch during regular commuting work days. Then again, here in NY we're probably still months, maybe many months, from returning to that kind of normalcy. So maybe, just maybe, I can use this "upside down IF" for a few months to kick all the bad habits and get healthy.
I don't think you need another fad diet.
I think you like fad diets because you find them motivating.
I think you can follow strict rules when you are motivated but you lose motivation quickly and look for another fad diet so you can get excited that this is the one that really works.
You don't need a different diet that really works.
You need to commit to a diet and exercise plan for an extended period of time.
You keep trying diet or exercise.
I know, I'll try eating nothing but potatoes, that was I don't have to exercise. I'll wake up before dawn tondo a MAF row every day but not change my diet. Now you want to skip dinner every night and quit exercising,
You don't have to starve yourself to lose weight. You can lose 2lbs per week and barely feel hungry. You can even have the occasional drink or two, and you don't have to drink bud light select or michelob ultra or vodka and sadness or whatever you have been drinking recently,
Eating really well for one day or even one week won't help you meet your goals.
If you want to lose 25 pounds, that will take at least 10 weeks (assuming there's a few pounds of water weight from all the alcohol and crappy diet) and probably more like 3 or 4 months. You could easily be 210 in August if you commit to it.
You could be 200 before Halloween if you wanted to put in the work.
You need to put in the work.
How much do you really want this? Not in terms of how much you are willing to do today. I don't care if you row 7 days a week or 3, I don't care if you drink beer or not, I don't care if you skip dinner or not. None of that matters if you don't commit to a long term change and consistently hold yourself to it.
Is there anything else we can do to help you be accountable and stay motivated?