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How often does this happen for youÂMotivation has been through the floor. Struggling to do much of any thing, including work. :(
How often does this happen for youÂMotivation has been through the floor. Struggling to do much of any thing, including work. :(
Its Columbus Day weekend. Traditional last feast of autumn, until the next one on Halloween and also Thanksgiving. And veterans day obv.I took a vacation day today because I have to use them or lose them by the end of the year. I got my allotted steps for the day, then got some chores done around the house
Then I made Linguine Aglio E Olio with 1 pound of pasta and ate I 3/4 of it and drank a bottle of wine  It's still basically my weekend, right? Back on track tomorrowÂ
Its Columbus Day weekend. Traditional last feast of autumn, until the next one on Halloween and also Thanksgiving. And veterans day obv.
F yeah. Let's do this gb.ÂOk fellas. Â Ok @bostonfred. Â This is it.
I’m locked in.  Dialed in.  I’m not exactly sure what I’m doing, but I have a bead on the diet plan, which is the most important thing to get me started off, and I’ll sort out the exercise part after that.
1. Keto diet + MFP.  I’ve tried it before, had some success in spurts, and gotten off it.  But when it works, it works incredibly well.  And I believe very strongly in the fundamentals: that we stuff too many carbs in our pie holes, and that our bodies were built to eat less frequently and go into fat burning mode when we’re either not stuffing sugar in our faces or not eating enough at all.Â
I ordered some Huel last week.  I have no idea.  I may hate it, I may love it, but I know that in my early 20s I lost like 40lbs by swapping out my lunches for Slim Fast shakes and then eating really light dinners.  No reason that can’t work again.  I got the Huel Black, which is high protein, keto friendly.  This will by my breakfast and/or lunch replacement.Â
I’ll also get back to logging on MFP.  That way I can get some of those good habits back, and heaven forbid I go off the rails with a beer or two one day, I figure even if I deviate from keto, it can be a “win” day if I stay within calorie goals.
2. Exercise: I’m not entirely sure yet.  I’m a little burnt out on the rowing, so may not do that just yet.  I may just start with a daily 30 minute dog walk.  From there, I may just add in body weight and dumbbell exercises in my basement, or I may unfreeze my LA Fitness membership and get back to the gym.  But I want to get back to lifting weights — for me, I think that’s the better solution than cardio.  I just know my body and what has worked for me in the past.  I don’t want to churn up a ravenous appetite only to then be in the vicious cycle of eating a lot and then working out a lot just to burn the calories from eating a lot.  For me, the better strategy has always been a restrictive diet and doing some kind of lean muscle building, not cardio.  It worked for me in 1999, there’s no reason it can’t work again today.
In the end, it’s 90% diet. Â
F yeah. Let's do this gb.Â
I will be doing myfitnesspal again and I've proactively rid my home of alcohol and junk food this weekend so there won't be any temptations. I won't be watching carbs but will try to keep fiber and protein up. As usual, I'll count any calories burned from cardio towards my daily allotment because it rewards me for exercising, but I won't count weights.Â
I have my basement gym about 90 percent done, and I'm on the treadmill walking in front of Monday night football as we speak. I'm sore from moving everything around and cleaning up down here but I've got my yoga mat, weight bench, kettlebell, treadmill, rower, even a trampoline. I'm bringing a desk down here so I can do some exercise between calls, and I've got a small play area for my kid because sometimes he wants to hang out while I run.Â
I don't usually do cheat days but I'm going to this time for my birthday and Halloween are at the end of this month, Thanksgiving, and Christmas week. I'm planning to go at this for a few months because I was awful the last couple months but I've got most of it out of my system.Â
I think the hard parts will be my kid wanting takeout and me saying no or having something else, and getting back off the booze. Neither should be a deal breaker but it's easier said than done. Â
I like your plan. The shakes are gimmicky bull#### but you seem to thrive on structure like that. What's your plan re alcohol.
Four months isn't that hard. The hard part is doing it through Halloween and Thanksgiving and Christmas. I'm planning on eating a little candy, nothing crazy. Will probably turn off myfitnesspal on Thanksgiving. I'm taking the week off for Christmas and I'll enjoy myself then get back on track. I'd like to be at my goals by spring, which leaves me some wiggle room this time.ÂLove your plan GB.  Sounds solid.
Re: alcohol, honestly, I don’t know.  I know that if I give it up that’ll be a huge advantage for me.  but I also know how much I damn enjoy it, and I figure, if it is within plan — both the keto carb limit and my MFP daily calorie limit — then a drink or two will not kill me.  So, I’m going to play it by ear.  Going to start with course correcting on diet first, and I’m going to take up the alcohol issue and exercise issue as it comes to me. Â
If I do keto + MFP + 5am weights at the gym + no alcohol, for even just 4 months, I will absolutely be at my goal.  I’ll probably look and feel amazing.  But do I have what it goes for such sudden changes across so many areas?  Maybe.  But maybe not.  Though, as I type this, damn, that doesn’t seem all THAT hard, and for just 4 months??  hmmm….
This isn't usual. My dad had a bad stroke end of last week and it's hitting me hard. This is more like fighting off depression.How often does this happen for youÂ
My dad had a stroke a couple weeks ago. I have been struggling too. Every stroke is different but it sounds like your dad is talking and regaining some mobility which is awesome. I slept in the hospital room with my dad for about a week while he was first recovering and he couldn't move his right shoulder, arm, anything. I saw him twitching his shoulder in his sleep and I took video, showed him the next day and he tried it and was able to do it. Now he's able to button his shirt. But he's still got aphasia so it's really hard for him to talk. He's saying a word or two at a time and gets frustrated. It sucks. Keep being there for him and if you want to talk let me know. You're a good egg and I'm rooting for you.ÂThis isn't usual. My dad had a bad stroke end of last week and it's hitting me hard. This is more like fighting off depression.
I made myself go do a strength workout after posting. Didn't make it onto the bike though.
ÂOk fellas. Â Ok @bostonfred. Â This is it.
I’m locked in.  Dialed in.  I’m not exactly sure what I’m doing, but I have a bead on the diet plan, which is the most important thing to get me started off, and I’ll sort out the exercise part after that.
1. Keto diet + MFP.  I’ve tried it before, had some success in spurts, and gotten off it.  But when it works, it works incredibly well.  And I believe very strongly in the fundamentals: that we stuff too many carbs in our pie holes, and that our bodies were built to eat less frequently and go into fat burning mode when we’re either not stuffing sugar in our faces or not eating enough at all.Â
I ordered some Huel last week.  I have no idea.  I may hate it, I may love it, but I know that in my early 20s I lost like 40lbs by swapping out my lunches for Slim Fast shakes and then eating really light dinners.  No reason that can’t work again.  I got the Huel Black, which is high protein, keto friendly.  This will by my breakfast and/or lunch replacement.Â
I’ll also get back to logging on MFP.  That way I can get some of those good habits back, and heaven forbid I go off the rails with a beer or two one day, I figure even if I deviate from keto, it can be a “win” day if I stay within calorie goals.
2. Exercise: I’m not entirely sure yet.  I’m a little burnt out on the rowing, so may not do that just yet.  I may just start with a daily 30 minute dog walk.  From there, I may just add in body weight and dumbbell exercises in my basement, or I may unfreeze my LA Fitness membership and get back to the gym.  But I want to get back to lifting weights — for me, I think that’s the better solution than cardio.  I just know my body and what has worked for me in the past.  I don’t want to churn up a ravenous appetite only to then be in the vicious cycle of eating a lot and then working out a lot just to burn the calories from eating a lot.  For me, the better strategy has always been a restrictive diet and doing some kind of lean muscle building, not cardio.  It worked for me in 1999, there’s no reason it can’t work again today.
In the end, it’s 90% diet. Â
Thanks Fred, appreciate it.My dad had a stroke a couple weeks ago. I have been struggling too. Every stroke is different but it sounds like your dad is talking and regaining some mobility which is awesome. I slept in the hospital room with my dad for about a week while he was first recovering and he couldn't move his right shoulder, arm, anything. I saw him twitching his shoulder in his sleep and I took video, showed him the next day and he tried it and was able to do it. Now he's able to button his shirt. But he's still got aphasia so it's really hard for him to talk. He's saying a word or two at a time and gets frustrated. It sucks. Keep being there for him and if you want to talk let me know. You're a good egg and I'm rooting for you.Â
All right @Otisgame on. If it goes in your mouth it goes in myfitnesspal. I'm easing into things today, getting sugar in my coffee at dunkin and half a bagel, but will probably switch back to milk only for the next few months.Â
Who let these Negative Nancies in here?
I’ve been a regular in this thread for a whole 4 months and have already seen some incredible success stories. There’s definitely no shortage of effort around here. I also haven’t met a single health & fitness guru who hasn’t had a down week, a cheat day, a lack of motivation from time to time. Go on r/AdvancedRunning and you’ll find marathon runners making the same kind of Struggling With Motivation, Rough Week, Time to Rebound posts. What makes them top 1% athletes is that they DO rebound from those rough stretches, get back on track, and start kicking ### again. That’s what this thread helps us do. It’s harder to fall off the horse completely when there are some e-strangers out there waiting for a good report from you. It seems like a lot of us have gotten tripped up recently, but we’ll be back at it soon enough. Just a matter of time.Â
The shakes are gimmicky bull#### but you seem to thrive on structure like that. What's your plan re alcohol.
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I just ate a cupcake from the office breakroom as I have a 0% chance of getting in home time for dinner so I suppose I shouldn't be laughing...
Well, there are benefits to being the only one in a big office breakroom at 9:00 PM...Anyone else think of this? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EzF0IjOD7xo
krista4 said:I'm in for daily accountability posts. I've usually posted fairly general weekly updates, but I think daily for a while will be better.  Starting today I'll do the daily posts here along with many of you. I've never wanted to post them before because they seem boring in theory, but I enjoy reading everyone else's, so I guess mine will be fine, too.
Just got back from a five-day "vacation" to visit family in Louisville. The bad parts fitness-wise were my food and alcohol intake, but on the plus side I did yoga at least once per day and got a TON of walking in. Walking in 87-degree, 98% humidity heat. So I don't feel too, too bad about where I am, though I haven't weighed.Â
These daily updates are stupid, but super helpful. I enjoy reading everyone else's, and it turns out that, when I'm doing them regularly, I tend to stay on course. Causation/correlation problem there maybe, but whatever, it seems to help...
So keep it up! We all should, maybe we can get some momentum.
 I shall weigh-in in the AM and go from there.Â@eaganwildcatsstop lurking and join us we're getting the band back together. Saw your rowtis updates we need you
I ate pretty well today (not great). I had to make Mac n Cheese for dinner for my kid's school "project." Also ate a pretty big lunch (although not too unhealthy of one). Snacks today were carrots in the morning, less than quarter cup nuts and 5 mini pretzel sticks (oh and a mini size 50 calorie pack of Mike & Ike   ). Most importantly - no booze.
I had a really hectic day of meetings so only got in a half mile walk but also did a little yard work. I have about 150 calories to burn to hit my 600 calorie goal. About to put in a 30 minute strength workout to hit my goal.
On another note, life has just been so stressful lately. My wife and I are in a funk where we're either arguing (today in front of the little kids) or just not talking at all (which is more common). I don't really even know what triggered it but it's been going on for over a month now. Fortunately we have our first couples therapy session this Friday so really hoping that helps (but doubtful). On top of that, work has been incredibly stressful.
Anyways that was a digression and sorry for venting. Just need an outlet from time to time. Â
 but only 2 beers  my f'ing ankle was killing me.  i pushed it today, doing a bunch of stuff for my parents, at their house.still sidelined by the ankle.  will probably attempt something tomorrow.  gonna go dry for a while as well.  not being aBLE to balance the booze with exercise is a problem.
You can but only if those posts also happen on Thursday, Friday, and Saturday.ÂThese daily updates are stupid, but super helpful. I enjoy reading everyone else's, and it turns out that, when I'm doing them regularly, I tend to stay on course. Causation/correlation problem there maybe, but whatever, it seems to help...
So keep it up! We all should, maybe we can get some momentum.
Thanks Krista.  We have been married for 13 years and together for 18 years and overall have had a pretty strong foundation.  I’m sure we will get through it. ÂI'm sorry to hear of the life stress. In the past I've actually found marriage counseling to be useful (please set aside the fact I got divorced, haha), so I'm more hopeful than you are that you guys will see some benefits from it. Good job avoiding the booze when facing that stress, by the way!
Thanks Krista.  We have been married for 13 years and together for 18 years and overall have had a pretty strong foundation.  I’m sure we will get through it. Â