mikmak8902 said:
This is the best thing I've read all day. I am one of those people that called Kap a POS and I'd like to apologize for that. You're absolutely right. Insulting him for exercising his right as an American is wrong. However, I don't agree with it at all. I wish he would have chosen one of the many many other possible avenues for making his point. Thank you for taking the time to write this. I enjoyed reading it and while I don't necessarily think we are in complete agreement in regards to Kap's actions, I respect the fact that you took the time to make a thoughtful response.
I really appreciate this. Not that you complimented my post but your willingness to try and understand another perspective. As you said, we don't have to be in complete agreement on perspective, opinion, choices of action, etc. The world would be a terribly boring and complacent place if we did. But respecting other people and the willingness to attempt to undertand perspectives other than our own is sorely lacking in this country and a huge part of the problem. That's the beauty of diversity. Learning from and finding value in our differences. Be them race, gender, socio-economic status, religion, nationality, life experiences, personality, etc.
Sadly, the internet and social media have taken us a step back in this regard. It is easier to believe than it is to think. And now people only seek and value opinions and "info" that support what they already believe, which we can all easily do online. Plenty of people have shared links to very thoughtful posts from veterans and others who have stated that while they do not agree with Kap's choice to sit for the anthem they respect his reasoning for doing so. But those posts have largely been ignored as people continue to spew the same ignorance.
A few other points I'd like to address before I attempt to focus any future comments I have in this thread on football.
-Many have referred to Kap's status as a millionaire, being bi-racial, and raised by white parents as if that makes his position any less legitimate. Well, if they actually listened to what he had to say he talked about his own experiences in dealing with this issue. And more importantly, he doesnt have to have been personally oppressed to speak out on social issues that affect many many people. By this terrible logic only slaves could have been abolitionist, only blacks living in the South could speak against Jim Crow, only children could speak out against child endangerment, only women could speak out against rape, and so on and so on. Some people actually have the capacity to empathize and speak on behalf of people other than themselves. The same hold true for the argument that b/c we elected a black president that somehow centuries of systemic racism have magically disappeared. People with this view simply do not understand historical facts or the context of systemic racism, I assume, because they've never had to deal with it and its never personally affected them. This again, speaks to people's inability and unwillingness to look outside of their own perspective.
-Secondly, I think the fact that so many find someone not standing for a song, no matter what song that is, more objectionable than some of the atrocities that go on in this country and aroud the world, really underscores the point that Kap was trying to make. If you find talking about racism and injustice more objectionable than racism and injustice themselves, then you are a huge part of the problem. There are many posters here that fit that description.
-Thirdly, if one conversation occured related to injustice in this country that would not have occured otherwise then I think Kaepernick's statement was a success. People can, and will, continue to run him through the mud to further whatever political points they want to make. His NFL career could be over, which again would be more due to his recent play, but that's a personal consequence that he apparently is fine with. I have low expectations for those conversations here on a board that is predominantly conservative white men, but there is some of that occuring here, and I've seen many, many more conversations on FB and other social media platforms where people with different perspective are engaging, where people are considering points of views they haven't before, and are learning from each other. I will take that as progress, no matter how slight it may be.
-Lastly, in regards to references to Ali, Jackie Robinson, Jim Brown and other athletes throughout history who have taken public stances on social issues. No, Kap is obviously not the athlete or the social justice figure that those men were. But let's remember how reviled those men were at the time of their actions. I have no doubt here that many of the same posters showing such disdain for Kap now would have been saying the same, if not worse, about those men then. I personally take Kap at his word, as I do most people, unless I have reason to believe otherwise. And again, while his decision to sit for the anthem is not I would personally emulate, I applaud him for the courage of his convictions, the reasoning he articulated, and for doing so knowing the damage it would do to him from a career and PR standpoint.