Thanks. Cutting the oil out for now. I weep a bit thinking of cutting out bread and jelly and my cereal, but i will try for a bit with going with no oil and see if i get going better. Next plateau i will make that next jump, but not excited to lose out on my Rice Krispies and PB&J.
on side note, Rice Krispies are pretty horrendous nutritious wise. not sure why the heck that is because it isn't like the cereal has some taste or whatever, but will slowly start to go to something else after seeing the nutrition on that box is just crap.
Instead of thinking "fat and sugar are bad", I like to think "complex carbohydrates and fiber are good" and "protein is good" and "vitamins, minerals and fatty acids are good".
When I eat, I have the opportunity to put good things into my body that will help it work better.
When I have lots of protein and get rest I don't feel sore after working out. When I have lots of complex carbs and fiber, I poop better and I don't feel tired after big meals and I don't get hungry, like, at all. When I eat vitamins and minerals and fatty acids I have more energy and I probably get fewer of the weird things that happen once one reaches a certain age.
It's not just that sugar is bad, it's that I'm denying myself those other good things when I eat it. I still eat it sometimes but I like having lots of that other stuff so I have to either eat more calories or eat less good stuff and either way that sucks.
If i just had berries fruit and eggs for breakfast and boneless skinless chicken breast with vegetables for dinner every night id be in pretty good shape. In reality thats almost exactly what I've been doing, I just swap eggs for yogurt and chicken for shrimp or other lean proteins depending on the day. That leaves me enough calories each day that I can atill have "fun foods" if I want, like sharing pizza with my kid or having the occasional cookie. But I only have so many fun calories to use especially if I'm trying to lose weight.
Rice Krispies aren't bad for you because they're made of sugar, they just don't have anything in them that makes you healthier. Theyre a "fun food". You can have them in small doses but then you cant have that pizza and still lose weight. Otherwise you're going to have to either eat more overall or sacrifice something healthy to make room for them.
And if you aren't eating lots of good healthy fruits and vegetables and lean proteins, you're going to have fewer calories available for fun foods than you could.
Conversely, the better the foods I eat when I'm being healthy, the more I have left for fun. The reason I eat berries isn't just that I like them, but also that they're packed with good stuff for a small amount of calories. I can eat some rice Krispies with berries and milk and feel like I'm getting away with something because the meal is relatively healthy.
If you watch what I've been posting, every day I post my protein and fiber and sodium and don't even mention that I stayed under calories because it's almost a foregone conclusion once I'm in stride. But keeping my fiber and protein numbers in mind helps make sure that I'm focused on getting the good stuff not just avoiding the bad, and that makes the whole process much easier and more enjoyable to me than don't eat this and you can't have that.