My wife’s family initially was going to hold the family Christmas gathering later in the summer of 2021 when things warmed up.( We hale from Mn) Then my wife’s 80 year old mother changed her mind and decided to have it in a couple weeks. My extended family held the family gathering back in early December and 2/3s of my family chose not to attend because of Covid. That decision was respected by those that did attend. There was talk of practicing social distancing but they really didn’t. No masks etc. She is feeling guilty about us planning not to attend and said her Mom sounded disappointed. Most of her family thinks this mask wearing business and bar/restaurant closing thing is a joke. My sister in law works for the state and Governor Walz has set some strict guidelines in regards to family Christmas etc and she can’t attend. As a Head start teacher my wife really is supposed to do the same.
I told my wife what is my family going to think if we didn’t go to theirs and then go to your side? She is feeling guilty but I told her they are the ones not following CDC guidelines and she shouldn’t feel guilty. Anyone else dealing with a similar scenario?
I told my wife what is my family going to think if we didn’t go to theirs and then go to your side? She is feeling guilty but I told her they are the ones not following CDC guidelines and she shouldn’t feel guilty. Anyone else dealing with a similar scenario?
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