DJackson10
Footballguy
So I have a friend from the neighborhood who I met while in Middle School. Over the years I've realized just how immature he is, arrogant, always thinks he's right and selfish. The other issue is he bandwagon's everything not just sports but TV and other stuff. Do to his behavior he has about 2 friends who are former co workers (the one is always taking advantage of him with money and stuff) and another who has a fiancee and sometimes I think he gets himself too involved with both on plans.
Outside of this school wise he didn't have many friends in school outside of myself and another neighborhood kid he ended up rooming with in College. Back in HS he invited himself to a Flyers NHL game that our other buddy was going with another friend and then bragged to me about it after the fact. Our other buddy profusely apologized to me for it. I've missed other sporting events movies and other things do to this guy but his parents have always been great and I've gone on a few family vacations with them. The worst thing about my two friends is this guy can't admit he was one of the biggest reasons for their falling out and can't admit any fault nor sees where he went wrong.
Anyway he bandwagons constantly whatever is popular from TV shows to movies, music etc. He is also into this online auction stuff and loves to brag about the stuff he gets (Always brags about any success, new car, job etc). Sports especially he bandwagons off of. He's always going after me for not being a 4 for 4 guy (Our city for some reason is obsessed with this and I think it's ridiculous) despite the fact he bandwagons everything outside of the 76ers and even then it's questionable. This was prevalent when we went to a Bulls vs 76ers game in Philly sat behind CHI bench and I got in a conversation with 2 other Bulls fans from Philly. When they asked my buddy if he was a Bulls fan (Didn't have anything sixers on had a PSU jacket on) he said no and despite being a 76ers fan he just bandwagons whatever team is good. So him saying I'm not 4 for is hypocritical by him since he doesn't want to go see a game unless said team is good. I've been a Bulls fan since MJ and stood by them when they were essentially laughing stock of the league till now.
I asked if he had any interest in taking a pair of my Mom's family Eagles tickets (My Uncle was lucky enough to secure a 2nd pair of Season Tix this season) and wanted to invite him to a game. He was all for it till he found out the price Said he'd rather get a hotel and see a PSU game because the Eagles suck right now. I'm sorry but I've been going to the Vet since the early 90s. I'll watch the Eagles lose 40-10 in Below freezing temps with snow coming down or a downpour if I had too.
Anyone else have a friend like this? How do you usually deal with them? Because of how he is it makes it incredible difficult to make any plans? At this stage in life I'm only interest in maybe going to a game with him of some sort, hit movie coming out or concert. Other then that we rarely hangout like we use too. Some because of work but also I have other friends who are a lot less aggravating and share my interests as well. Any reason I shouldn't cut hair at this point.
Outside of this school wise he didn't have many friends in school outside of myself and another neighborhood kid he ended up rooming with in College. Back in HS he invited himself to a Flyers NHL game that our other buddy was going with another friend and then bragged to me about it after the fact. Our other buddy profusely apologized to me for it. I've missed other sporting events movies and other things do to this guy but his parents have always been great and I've gone on a few family vacations with them. The worst thing about my two friends is this guy can't admit he was one of the biggest reasons for their falling out and can't admit any fault nor sees where he went wrong.
Anyway he bandwagons constantly whatever is popular from TV shows to movies, music etc. He is also into this online auction stuff and loves to brag about the stuff he gets (Always brags about any success, new car, job etc). Sports especially he bandwagons off of. He's always going after me for not being a 4 for 4 guy (Our city for some reason is obsessed with this and I think it's ridiculous) despite the fact he bandwagons everything outside of the 76ers and even then it's questionable. This was prevalent when we went to a Bulls vs 76ers game in Philly sat behind CHI bench and I got in a conversation with 2 other Bulls fans from Philly. When they asked my buddy if he was a Bulls fan (Didn't have anything sixers on had a PSU jacket on) he said no and despite being a 76ers fan he just bandwagons whatever team is good. So him saying I'm not 4 for is hypocritical by him since he doesn't want to go see a game unless said team is good. I've been a Bulls fan since MJ and stood by them when they were essentially laughing stock of the league till now.
I asked if he had any interest in taking a pair of my Mom's family Eagles tickets (My Uncle was lucky enough to secure a 2nd pair of Season Tix this season) and wanted to invite him to a game. He was all for it till he found out the price Said he'd rather get a hotel and see a PSU game because the Eagles suck right now. I'm sorry but I've been going to the Vet since the early 90s. I'll watch the Eagles lose 40-10 in Below freezing temps with snow coming down or a downpour if I had too.
Anyone else have a friend like this? How do you usually deal with them? Because of how he is it makes it incredible difficult to make any plans? At this stage in life I'm only interest in maybe going to a game with him of some sort, hit movie coming out or concert. Other then that we rarely hangout like we use too. Some because of work but also I have other friends who are a lot less aggravating and share my interests as well. Any reason I shouldn't cut hair at this point.