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Footballguy
I hate your ex wife.
The good news is that his ex will pay half.well, obviously.Except for FennisAlso, Bodeine, I'm sure you know this, but it is customary for anyone starting a topic to paypal $50 to each person who responds.
Sure, because she's never found a reason to do that before.Can you afford it? If so, just do it. Last thing you need is that #### poisoning the mind of your son about you being a ####.
True storyAlso, Bodeine, I'm sure you know this, but it is customary for anyone starting a topic to paypal $50 to each person who responds.
If she can't afford it she shouldn't have invited so many people.Are you in far better financial position to pay for it? Can she afford to split the bill?
Me too. She makes my skin crawl and I don't even know her.I hate your ex wife.
50 poundsBTW, what's the difference between a lurker and a super lurker?
Take it easy on the OP, he is a Super Lurker & doesn't have that much experience posting.Is she remarried? Does she have a boyfriend or any man attending with her? How long have you been divorced?
Is your son 18? Do you still have financial liabilities to this woman?
Then tell her that her father needs to bring enough for about 30 people.Bodeine said:Out of the blue, I get a text message from her saying that is customary for the Father to foot the bill.
Then why'd you ask?This.Ummm.... the father pays the bill when the parents are married. Otherwise they split it or everyone pays their own tab.
isn't this how the whole mess started?Send her a #### pic
He also wears a cape.50 poundsBTW, what's the difference between a lurker and a super lurker?
This is a terrible idea. So he'll be getting out s calculator and will sit there crunching numbers figuring out what each of these people ate and drank and then totaling it up with everyone sitting there? Awkward.Definitely let her know ahead of time so there is no scene. 50/50 is more than generous or maybe tell her you'll pay for you, your 2 guests/your kid and the tip. You don't want to do the splitting for the first time at the restaurant, it will cause a scene and you are trying to keep the kid out of it.
Your ex-wife sounds just like my ex-wife. FBGs would take away my man card if they knew how much I paid for her that I didn't have to.So, the conclusion of the story: I texted the ex and advised that I was not in agreement with her suggestion and that I would be happy to split the bill with her.
She then responded that the money would be a struggle for her at this time as she has had a number of unexpected expenses most of which were related to her health as she had been suffering symptoms from something doctors have as yet been unable to diagnose.
Trying to find the highest road here, maintain the celebratory air of the occasion (being my child's graduation), I decided to not to bog the whole issue down into a fight over a couple of hundred dollars. I moved on from there and just agreed to cover the bill.
Is this grad party at McDonalds or Sonny's BBQ?a couple of hundred dollars. I moved on from there and just agreed to cover the bill.
You're a good man for keeping it about your son and not letting it impact his celebration.So, the conclusion of the story: I texted the ex and advised that I was not in agreement with her suggestion and that I would be happy to split the bill with her.
She then responded that the money would be a struggle for her at this time as she has had a number of unexpected expenses most of which were related to her health as she had been suffering symptoms from something doctors have as yet been unable to diagnose.
Trying to find the highest road here, maintain the celebratory air of the occasion (being my child's graduation), I decided to not to bog the whole issue down into a fight over a couple of hundred dollars. I moved on from there and just agreed to cover the bill.
This is the right result I think. If she's been a manipulative nightmare all along, maybe less so, but either way I don't think you had much choice other than to do what you did. Well played sir.You're a good man for keeping it about your son and not letting it impact his celebration.So, the conclusion of the story: I texted the ex and advised that I was not in agreement with her suggestion and that I would be happy to split the bill with her.
She then responded that the money would be a struggle for her at this time as she has had a number of unexpected expenses most of which were related to her health as she had been suffering symptoms from something doctors have as yet been unable to diagnose.
Trying to find the highest road here, maintain the celebratory air of the occasion (being my child's graduation), I decided to not to bog the whole issue down into a fight over a couple of hundred dollars. I moved on from there and just agreed to cover the bill.
So, the conclusion of the story: I texted the ex and advised that I was not in agreement with her suggestion and that I would be happy to split the bill with her.
She then responded that the money would be a struggle for her at this time as she has had a number of unexpected expenses most of which were related to her health as she had been suffering symptoms from something doctors have as yet been unable to diagnose.
Trying to find the highest road here, maintain the celebratory air of the occasion (being my child's graduation), I decided to not to bog the whole issue down into a fight over a couple of hundred dollars. I moved on from there and just agreed to cover the bill.
http://www.carminesnyc.com/locations/upper-west-side-nyc/Is this grad party at McDonalds or Sonny's BBQ?a couple of hundred dollars. I moved on from there and just agreed to cover the bill.
Right, you made it a great day for your son, well done.http://www.carminesnyc.com/locations/upper-west-side-nyc/Is this grad party at McDonalds or Sonny's BBQ?a couple of hundred dollars. I moved on from there and just agreed to cover the bill.
Thankfully, I had the foresight to have previously suggested a "family-syle" restaurant where you order four or five large entrees and a few appetizers for everyone. Also thankfully, not many drinkers in the crowd. There was a few beers, pre-meal, a martini and a large bottle of wine for the table. Everyone was quite full after all was said and done and I've got leftovers for two meals.