That's not my point.
Being financially responsible should NOT be enough. Of course men find themselves in jail eventually if they don't pay support, but they should be doing MORE. Sending a monthly check shouldn't be the minimum required for creating another life. If a woman is forced to go through a pregnancy and bear a child and then be responsible for the child (unless given up for adoption), then the father should have far more REQUIRED responsibility than the financial burden.
For a pro-life stance, the woman has no choice but to carry through with her physical and emotional responsibility of pregnancy and birth. For a man who created the pregnancy, why aren't there similar requirements of time and commitment? Especially with jail time for those that don't honor those commitments. If that were in place, maybe we'd see a significant decrease in unwanted pregnancies, especially since you can't have one without a man's contribution.
I wonder how many stringent laws like we're seeing now we'd see if men had the option of being pregnant and having to carry a baby to term. Methinks it would be less than today.