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Abortion vs Suicide (1 Viewer)

Assisted Suicide.

  • There should be assistance for anyone wishing to commit suicide.

    Votes: 45 88.2%
  • There should NOT be assistance for anyone wishing to commit suicide.

    Votes: 6 11.8%

  • Total voters
    51
I never said I was pro-life in the conventional sense of all abortions being morally wrong and fully outlawed, etc.

What I believe is that life starts at conception...and that abortion is literally killing another human being from the point of conception onward. Life has to start somewhere and for me that is where.

Whether or not taking that life is justified IMO then becomes an individual choice based on a multitude of factors along a spectrum that ranges from strictly personal (religious belief system) to situational (accidental, irresponsible, can't provide) to societal norms (i.e. rape, incest).

So there's two major aspects of this debate that are anywhere from completely objective to massively subjective based on who you talk to: 1) when does a human become a human being and 2) when (if ever) is the taking of that human's life legally acceptable or personally justified?
For #1 - sometimes never, but, for most not until they get enough life experiences and education.

For #2 - we'd have to accept your conception definition of life in order to even have to say it is legal up until the point that the state statute for abortion says. 

 
I'll admit, I don't know much about the abortion process. But, I think I'm correct to assume that a woman doesn't have one without the assistance of a medical professional. What makes that different from assisted suicide? 
Unfortunately, having one without the assistance of a medical professional is now a very real possibility in Georgia.  Well, until the Supreme Court strikes this ridiculous law.

 
Unfortunately, having one without the assistance of a medical professional is now a very real possibility in Georgia.  Well, until the Supreme Court strikes this ridiculous law.
So you're saying, not only should a woman be allowed to make that decision about her body, but she should also be afforded professional care to make sure that the abortion is done properly? And that a person should be allowed to make the decision about their own body when it comes to suicide. But, they should not have professional care to make sure it's done as properly? 

 
Not sure your point. 

Both of abortion and suicide are decisions made by a single person. For the former, we have said that the woman has that right. For the latter, it often happens in moment of solitude. But still their right. 

I suggest we bring them both out of the shadows. Give both the opportunity for professional help in order to make the decision that is right for them. And have the process carried out by professionals. 

Do you think having the option for assisted suicide, after professional counseling, would ultimately help or hurt a majority of the population? The only way it would work is if some of the people are actually allowed to end their life. Otherwise it would be seen as just a way to prevent suicide. In an odd way, I would compare it to the father that finds his son smoking a cigar and makes him smoke the whole pack. 
As I said earlier, what you are describing is already the case in many socially progressive democracies.  Women have absolute autonomy over their own bodies, and assisted suicide is available if certain criteria is met.   

 
So you're saying, not only should a woman be allowed to make that decision about her body, but she should also be afforded professional care to make sure that the abortion is done properly? And that a person should be allowed to make the decision about their own body when it comes to suicide. But, they should not have professional care to make sure it's done as properly? 
no.  i am not saying that at all.

for clarity, I am saying that women should have access to professional care if she chooses to have an abortion.  I am also saying that a person who makes the decision to commit (assisted) suicide should have access to professional help in carrying that out.

 
no.  i am not saying that at all.

for clarity, I am saying that women should have access to professional care if she chooses to have an abortion.  I am also saying that a person who makes the decision to commit (assisted) suicide should have access to professional help in carrying that out.
The only requirement for abortion is to be pregnant. (duh!)

What are the requirements for assisted suicide? Why does there need to be any requirements other than the desire? We don't apply any to pregnant women.

 
The only requirement for abortion is to be pregnant. (duh!)

What are the requirements for assisted suicide? Why does there need to be any requirements other than the desire? We don't apply any to pregnant women.
In Canada, there are specific legislative requirements that must be met in order for licensed physicians to perform an assisted suicide.  The main criteria is terminal illness.

"desire" is not a good enough reason to justify suicide.  decisions about suicide that are not related to terminal illness are often made by people who suffer from mental illness.  

 
In Canada, there are specific legislative requirements that must be met in order for licensed physicians to perform an assisted suicide.  The main criteria is terminal illness.

"desire" is not a good enough reason to justify suicide.  decisions about suicide that are not related to terminal illness are often made by people who suffer from mental illness.  
Is all mental illness curable? Is pregnancy curable?

 
Nobody will ever force me into decisions with my own body (good, bad or otherwise).  I'd kill them before I'd let them make me a slave. 

Thusly abortions and suicide are options (good, bad or otherwise) for whatever someone else chooses to do.

 
Again, you are conflating concepts.  It is obvious to me that you do not see that, so i will just stop here.

Cheers.
Not really. People want to say that it's acceptable for a doctor to perform an abortion on a completely healthy mother and fetus. But, they don't want to say that it's acceptable for a doctor to assist a suicide on a person that suffers from a mental health issue. 

Health has nothing do with it when the mother and fetus are healthy. 

 
Not really. People want to say that it's acceptable for a doctor to perform an abortion on a completely healthy mother and fetus. But, they don't want to say that it's acceptable for a doctor to assist a suicide on a person that suffers from a mental health issue. 

Health has nothing do with it when the mother and fetus are healthy. 
You were right until you wrote the second paragraph. 

 
how exactly does that work?  legal punishment for a failed suicide attempt?
This is how it works now, at least in California. There is no legal penalty, exactly, when somebody attempts suicide. But here’s what happens: 

1. The authorities try to prevent it if they can- so, for example, a policeman or fireman has a legal duty to pull somebody away from the bridge, talk them down, attempt to disarm them, etc. They can’t just stand there and let it happen. 

2. Once the person has been stopped they are either escorted by the police to a hospital, where they are offered medical care, or they are sent to jail overnight, after which a judge assigns medical care. 

Now this is not a perfect system obviously but it makes sense to me. The reason that I want suicide illegal is not to punish people who attempt it, but because I want the authorities to try to stop it if they can. 

 
. People want to say that it's acceptable for a doctor to perform an abortion on a completely healthy mother and fetus. But, they don't want to say that it's acceptable for a doctor to assist a suicide on a person that suffers from a mental health issue.
This is correct; it’s exactly how I feel. The first stance has nothing to do with the second, and your comparison is completely invalid. There is no contradiction here. 

 
This is correct; it’s exactly how I feel. The first stance has nothing to do with the second, and your comparison is completely invalid. There is no contradiction here. 
Why?

When you use the argument that a woman has absolute say over her body. And you want professional medical assistance. (we haven't even discussed who should pay for it)

 
Nobody will ever force me into decisions with my own body (good, bad or otherwise).  I'd kill them before I'd let them make me a slave. 
This isn’t true. 

1. I don’t want you to take heroin. My tax money, and my vote and support, is going to a police force that will stop you from taking heroin. Even if you have to go to prison, I don’t want you taking it. 

2. I don’t want you to kill yourself (in most situations.) If you try to jump off a bridge I want the police to pull you back. 

There are other limitations as well. 

 
Seems fair.  I'm sure all religious people would graciously accept your framing of their worldview.
Only required when forcing those beliefs on to me.  Like the person I responded to trying to push life starting at conception.  If you want to over turn Roe v Wade you're going to have to do better than using your imaginary beliefs as justification.  That's all.

 
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Why?

When you use the argument that a woman has absolute say over her body. And you want professional medical assistance. (we haven't even discussed who should pay for it)
It’s up to you to make the argument that this is a contradiction, not up to me to explain why it isn’t. 

But again I need to point out that, even if it was a contradiction, it wouldn’t change my mind. Consistency is not a fundamental value in the establishment of law, nor even a desirable one. 

 
It’s up to you to make the argument that this is a contradiction, not up to me to explain why it isn’t. 

But again I need to point out that, even if it was a contradiction, it wouldn’t change my mind. Consistency is not a fundamental value in the establishment of law, nor even a desirable one. 
I have pointed it out numerous times. The statement that a woman has sole decision over her body. Is this just something that is being afforded to women? Does that mean that a woman should be allowed assisted suicide? 

Nobody here has said anything to differentiate the two in regards to the above statement. They've just said over and over that they are not comparable. Without reason. 

In a country where we strive for equality, doesn't this fly in the face of that?

 
I have pointed it out numerous times. The statement that a woman has sole decision over her body. Is this just something that is being afforded to women? Does that mean that a woman should be allowed assisted suicide? 

Nobody here has said anything to differentiate the two in regards to the above statement. They've just said over and over that they are not comparable. Without reason. 

In a country where we strive for equality, doesn't this fly in the face of that?
1. The statement that a woman has sole decision over her body has to do with reproductive rights. It has nothing to do with suicide, or drug use, or anything else. In those instances and others, sometimes she has the right to do stuff and sometimes she doesn’t. None of that is connected to reproductive rights. 

2. Reproductive rights are only afforded to women as they are the only ones who can reproduce. 

3. A woman or man should only be allowed assisted suicide in extreme medical conditions. 

4. I just gave you the reason why they are not comparable. Reproductive rights are unique rights and can’t be compared to other rights. 

5. This has nothing to do with equality. I take it you’re a man? If so, if you can figure out how to reproduce then you can have reproductive rights as well. 

Hope that answers you. 

 
This isn’t true. 

1. I don’t want you to take heroin. My tax money, and my vote and support, is going to a police force that will stop you from taking heroin. Even if you have to go to prison, I don’t want you taking it. 

2. I don’t want you to kill yourself (in most situations.) If you try to jump off a bridge I want the police to pull you back. 

There are other limitations as well. 
Also, mandatory vaccinations.

 
1. The statement that a woman has sole decision over her body has to do with reproductive rights. It has nothing to do with suicide, or drug use, or anything else. In those instances and others, sometimes she has the right to do stuff and sometimes she doesn’t. None of that is connected to reproductive rights. 

2. Reproductive rights are only afforded to women as they are the only ones who can reproduce. 

3. A woman or man should only be allowed assisted suicide in extreme medical conditions. 

4. I just gave you the reason why they are not comparable. Reproductive rights are unique rights and can’t be compared to other rights. 

5. This has nothing to do with equality. I take it you’re a man? If so, if you can figure out how to reproduce then you can have reproductive rights as well. 

Hope that answers you. 
I can understand the uniqueness of reproductive ability. I think it discounts that part of the fetus comes from a male part of the reproductive process. That part is eliminated by saying that the woman has sole decision. For me, this is where all outside consideration is lost. For either abortion or suicide. It's their sole decision. How we handle the process is where the discussion continues.

 
I appreciate KC's engagement here.  we disagree, but he is genuinely responding substantively to the discussion.  all other threads are basically unreadable at this point.  same 5-6 posters doing what they always do.

 
Not really. People want to say that it's acceptable for a doctor to perform an abortion on a completely healthy mother and fetus. But, they don't want to say that it's acceptable for a doctor to assist a suicide on a person that suffers from a mental health issue. 

Health has nothing do with it when the mother and fetus are healthy. 
A woman has an abortion when they don't want to go through the term of their medical condition, pregnancy. It very much has to do with health. 

 
A woman has an abortion when they don't want to go through the term of their medical condition, pregnancy. It very much has to do with health. 
And a person commits suicide when they don't want to go through the term of their mental health condition. Which is usually the rest of their life.

 
And a person commits suicide when they don't want to go through the term of their mental health condition. Which is usually the rest of their life.
There are hundreds of different reasons people commit suicide... perhaps thousands.

Again, I'm not opposed to suicide when it's a mature rational decision. But it's far easier for me to rationalize abortion given we understand the reasons a woman may want to do it... whereas there are many reasons people commit suicide that we don't understand. Our lack of understanding many reasons for suicide is not enough for me to make it illegal (except maybe for minors), but these are two very different issues. One is easy to grasp. The other is far harder. 

 
There are hundreds of different reasons people commit suicide... perhaps thousands.

Again, I'm not opposed to suicide when it's a mature rational decision. But it's far easier for me to rationalize abortion given we understand the reasons a woman may want to do it... whereas there are many reasons people commit suicide that we don't understand. Our lack of understanding many reasons for suicide is not enough for me to make it illegal (except maybe for minors), but these are two very different issues. One is easy to grasp. The other is far harder. 
It's not up to us to grasp the reasons for either. If it's easier for your to rationalize abortion, that's your choice. It's easier for me to rationalize someone that want's to commit suicide. They are making a decision that takes only their life. Not an unborn child's. 

 
It's not up to us to grasp the reasons for either. If it's easier for your to rationalize abortion, that's your choice. It's easier for me to rationalize someone that want's to commit suicide. They are making a decision that takes only their life. Not an unborn child's. 
I completely disagree with the bolded. Many people who commit suicide leave behind loved ones who want answers. And the suicide may have turned those people's live upside down. 

The loss of a fetus does no such thing. 

 
It's not up to us to grasp the reasons for either. If it's easier for your to rationalize abortion, that's your choice. It's easier for me to rationalize someone that want's to commit suicide. They are making a decision that takes only their life. Not an unborn child's. 
I'm still struggling to understand this idea of "rationalizing suicide". There's no need to make it legal or illegal. People are going to kill themselves with or without anyone's permission and with total disregard for the legality of it. If you're trying to make a case for  *assisted* suicide on demand, science fiction has already presented it as a possibility

 
I completely disagree with the bolded. Many people who commit suicide leave behind loved ones who want answers. And the suicide may have turned those people's live upside down. 

The loss of a fetus does no such thing. 
Unbelievable. 

Does it effect the father at all? You know, the person who has no say in the matter. Even though part of that fetus is made up of his DNA.

Let's stop holding parents responsible for the actions of, or against, their children if you don't want them to be responsible for them in the womb. 

 
I'm still struggling to understand this idea of "rationalizing suicide". There's no need to make it legal or illegal. People are going to kill themselves with or without anyone's permission and with total disregard for the legality of it. If you're trying to make a case for  *assisted* suicide on demand, science fiction has already presented it as a possibility
I see it as applying the same support to both. If we want abortion on demand, why shouldn't we have assisted suicide on demand?

 
I see it as applying the same support to both. If we want abortion on demand, why shouldn't we have assisted suicide on demand?
First, we already assisted suicide in some states. We also have suicide in every state for people who want it. You're trying to equate "death with dignity" with choosing to carry a fetus to full term. Death with dignity is more than just choosing to die. Its having the right to say enough when faced with a terminal illness. If you're trying to equate abortion with someone just giving up on life and seeking assistance to kill themselves, why do they need assistance? IOW, you're looking for "safe" suicide.

Do you think there's a need or demand for "safe" suicide?

ETA: I almost get the vibe that you're looking to create a "gotcha" moment for people who are pro-choice.  IMO, there is no case where abortion and suicide should be "well you're for one, why not the other?". Suicide does not require assistance.

 
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I see it as applying the same support to both. If we want abortion on demand, why shouldn't we have assisted suicide on demand?
I understand what you are saying.  A fetus is a life.  Therefore it should be treated like a living, breathing human.  

You wont bridge the gap (by appealing to logic) with those who dont share that view.  

Suggesting that we should assist anyone who wants to commit suicide won’t get you there.   

 
Unbelievable. 

Does it effect the father at all? You know, the person who has no say in the matter. Even though part of that fetus is made up of his DNA.
The father knows why the fetus is no more, and the fetus wasn't the father's bread winner in their home. 

Let's stop holding parents responsible for the actions of, or against, their children if you don't want them to be responsible for them in the womb. 
WTF?!?!

This has to be fishing. 

 
Unbelievable. 

Does it effect the father at all? You know, the person who has no say in the matter. Even though part of that fetus is made up of his DNA.

Let's stop holding parents responsible for the actions of, or against, their children if you don't want them to be responsible for them in the womb. 
The law is a double standard on two fronts.

1) Biological fathers of an unborn child have no legal say in the abortion decision...yet are legally held liable for child support if the woman chooses to have the child...even if the father would have preferred abortion. (Not saying men are victims...)

2) Physicians can legally assist killing an unborn human, even when the mother is perfectly healthy and sane.  But physicians cannot assist in killing a born human, even if that human is perfectly healthy and sane.

IMO there needs to be consistency. But it kind of is what it is.

 
I understand what you are saying.  A fetus is a life.  Therefore it should be treated like a living, breathing human.  

You wont bridge the gap (by appealing to logic) with those who dont share that view.  

Suggesting that we should assist anyone who wants to commit suicide won’t get you there.   
I'll take this advice and move on. 

 
The father knows why the fetus is no more, and the fetus wasn't the father's bread winner in their home. 

WTF?!?!

This has to be fishing. 
I'm sure in your mind, the father is perfectly fine with the decision. And just to be clear, your comment was

I completely disagree with the bolded. Many people who commit suicide leave behind loved ones who want answers. And the suicide may have turned those people's live upside down. 

The loss of a fetus does no such thing. 
This is a very one sided look at the situation. I get it if you don't think that the two are comparable. But to think that there are fathers out there that don't have their lives turned upside down because the woman has sole decision is just being closed minded.

 
The law is a double standard on two fronts.

1) Biological fathers of an unborn child have no legal say in the abortion decision...yet are legally held liable for child support if the woman chooses to have the child...even if the father would have preferred abortion. (Not saying men are victims...)

2) Physicians can legally assist killing an unborn human, even when the mother is perfectly healthy and sane.  But physicians cannot assist in killing a born human, even if that human is perfectly healthy and sane.

IMO there needs to be consistency. But it kind of is what it is.
So, in your mind, terminating a pregnancy (what you describe as killing an unborn “human”) is the same as killing (murdering?) an autonomous living breathing person?

 
I'm sure in your mind, the father is perfectly fine with the decision. And just to be clear, your comment was

This is a very one sided look at the situation. I get it if you don't think that the two are comparable. But to think that there are fathers out there that don't have their lives turned upside down because the woman has sole decision is just being closed minded.
Anyone who has their life turned upside down because someone else had an abortion is not attached to the fetus that was killed, but is attached to their personification of that fetus. While the grief they experience is real, that's nothing compared to having your life turned upside down because your parent, your spouse, your son/daughter or bother/sister killed themselves.

Again, your comparison of abortion to suicide is really odd given how different they are. But what is more odd is your refusal to accept how different they are. 

 
Anyone who has their life turned upside down because someone else had an abortion is not attached to the fetus that was killed, but is attached to their personification of that fetus. While the grief they experience is real, that's nothing compared to having your life turned upside down because your parent, your spouse, your son/daughter or bother/sister killed themselves.

Again, your comparison of abortion to suicide is really odd given how different they are. But what is more odd is your refusal to accept how different they are. 
Whatever. I really don't care about your opinion anymore. 

Is this where I'm supposed to give you the middle finger?

 
This isn’t true. 

1. I don’t want you to take heroin. My tax money, and my vote and support, is going to a police force that will stop you from taking heroin. Even if you have to go to prison, I don’t want you taking it. 

2. I don’t want you to kill yourself (in most situations.) If you try to jump off a bridge I want the police to pull you back. 

There are other limitations as well. 
But you do that for the societies benefit because of the collateral damage that comes along with it.  Not to force me into/out-of anything.

 
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This is how it works now, at least in California. There is no legal penalty, exactly, when somebody attempts suicide. But here’s what happens: 

1. The authorities try to prevent it if they can- so, for example, a policeman or fireman has a legal duty to pull somebody away from the bridge, talk them down, attempt to disarm them, etc. They can’t just stand there and let it happen. 

2. Once the person has been stopped they are either escorted by the police to a hospital, where they are offered medical care, or they are sent to jail overnight, after which a judge assigns medical care. 

Now this is not a perfect system obviously but it makes sense to me. The reason that I want suicide illegal is not to punish people who attempt it, but because I want the authorities to try to stop it if they can. 
I don't have a problem with any of that except the jail part.  not really what I was picturing when you say "against the law".

 
I don't have a problem with any of that except the jail part.  not really what I was picturing when you say "against the law".
My (very limited) understanding is they throw the person in jail if it appears that the guy is simply going to run away from the hospital and immediately attempt suicide again. It’s a temporary fix. 

 

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