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Is there any path back for us?. She said she needed to figure out what she wanted and couldn't be in a relationship. That is probably the end for me. I g get it. I just have so many regrets. I want to try if there is a way

I love her. I messed up, she is not moving on , I don't think, but needs to figure things out. Is there anyway to make things right? Small steps. I love her. I realize it's likely over, and she reached out because she does care for me. Im a mess

I don't want to end things with her. I know it is probably over. I get that, but I am in a depression. Is there any response I can give that is not desperate, shows I care, I want her back and that i am willing to do whatever that takes?

Message from her today: Hey, I am thinking of you and hope you're doing ok... And taking care of yourself too. I haven't been taking care of myself. I have lost 10 lbs, I am depressed and I love her. I really don't think she is opening any doors to a relationship, but how would I go about...

My heart isn't really into it, but I was on eHarmony today. I received an interest, and we talked on the phone tonight for 2 hours. I don't know if I sounded distracted, down or anything like that, but she seemed normal, fun and interested in meeting...we are planning to meet up on Saturday...

I honestly don't know/how to meet someone next. I met her on accident. I'm alone right now. I am a wreck but do want to get back out there. In all seriousness, how do I meet someone that I want to actually date?

We are broken up. She needs to improve herself, focus on her. I asked her what she was doing this weekend....Camping with friends. I don't know who she'd be talking about so I asked who was that...refused to answer. Probably seeing someone even though she flat out said she is not interested in...

Obviously, she expects the call to last under 1 hour. That's probably because we're done and she's going to state that so she probably doesn't need more than a few minutes to explain her decision.

Update: I did ask her earlier, on chat, how her work project went and she said the draft was done, but still working on it. I then asked if she was good with 7pm tonight to talk. She said 'yep' She just asked a moment ago if I can 6 pm now (vs. 7 Pm) so she can attend an excercise class at 7pm...

I'm doing it again..... Hi, I did get the flowers that was a nice gesture. Let's talk tomorrow after work. At least in this moment, I think she wants to actually talk. I've been thinking the opposite all day. Hope my at least short-term optimism is right.

I am 44, she is 32. She is extremely mature. I have never met somebody who is more intellectual/smart.

I don't think she's the type who would lie. I think it's at least good we're keeping some level of communication open.

OK, she did provide an update: Her: "It looks like I'm going to need to work late on a deliverable for my boss." Me: Hi there, Im good at any time. Is later ok? Her: Let's do tomorrow. I have no idea how long I'll be working on it. Me: Ok that is fine. I hope you do't work too late...thinking...

I will call her tonight if she doesn't call me. I'm not sure if there's something up with Google Chat, but it's odd that she hasn't read the messsage. I don't want that to be the reason we don't talk.

Thank you! If the call is pretty to the point, it will probably be over in like 5 minutes. There's not much for me to add if she clearly ends things. I'm not even sure how to end a call like that, but I think I may find out. If she does end things, I have to be able to find peace.