Alex P Keaton
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Just a pet peeve, but you are describing the median person, not the average person.You think how smart the average person is out there. 50% are dumber than him or her.
Just a pet peeve, but you are describing the median person, not the average person.You think how smart the average person is out there. 50% are dumber than him or her.
This is a good post that represents a lot of what I think as well. As far as the bolded, I think a BIG part of that statement is "get by", and I think that is the problem that people are pushing back on. There not much leeway in there for an illness, accident, saving for college, etc. Also built in there that you basically need to have X kids and both parents have to work, and I wrestle with how I feel about that. It's possible, but it's not fun, and I debate in my head how much plain "hard work" has to do with it.This is obviously a very complex issue. One in which I have no idea what the answer is (not even confident enough to even vote in this poll).
OTOH, I think rich folks should pay more taxes. I'd love to see single payer healthcare, etc. For the most part, I'm a liberal on these issues.
OTOH, anecdotally, I'm amazed at how many people can get by with no work ethic at all. Stacked as the deck may be, you can get by in this country with low-skilled jobs if you are willing to work. If you get married, you need to pick a partner that'll work (from what I see, so many fail to demand that qualification in a partner). You probably don't need to have 6 kids working in a low-skilled job. Probably best to avoid car payments on a new truck. And of course, live on a budget.
Working in the restaurant business might have me jaded. I see so many people that either make enough money, or have the ability to make enough money, for a comfortable living blowing it with poor decisions and taking little responsibility for their own circumstances.
These issues likely aren't even really related, just my thoughts. No, we aren't doing enough for those that truly need help. No, we shouldn't cut safety net programs just because some abuse them. Yes, politically, it's going the wrong way and the rich will certainly just keep getting richer.
But I have my "get off my lawn" side that just wants to tell some people to stop whining and go to work. It's possible to make it in this country if you're willing do so.
First off, I think you make some good points. Almost everything I stand up for is against my best financial interests.
Republicans run on less deficit, total lie.
Then they go religion, abortion and gun. All are non money issues.
Corporate Dems run nothing.
They want you not to give money to poor people but make sure they are not hurt by words. They fight the non money issues, guns, freedom of choice, and abortion.
Win win for these groups.
It will all change soon. We have the life expectancy less and upwards mobility less, dumb people forgot one thing.
Last i saw, the K Street dollar ratio was 35/1, private to public interestNo, but it's kind of the poor's own fault for not hiring enough lobbyists.
We should abolish term limits. Should institute a system where voters have a constant ‘thumbsup/thumbsdown’ mechanism online where they can nominate, vote out, or keep whoever they like at any given time. If they like someone enough, they can keep them forever.Term limits would be a good reasonable start.
Interesting idea but I’m not sure how this would work practically. People are fickle and quick to react (often poorly). I’m not sure any leader should be held accountable to a moment in time where not all the information will ever be available. As a leader myself I’m often forced to make unpopular decisions with the greater good in mind. While these decisions are sometimes not understood in the moment they often become understood after the effects are felt.We should abolish term limits. Should institute a system where voters have a constant ‘thumbsup/thumbsdown’ mechanism online where they can nominate, vote out, or keep whoever they like at any given time. If they like someone enough, they can keep them forever.
Politicians would be accountable to voters every waking second instead of once every 1/2/4 years.
If it comes out that they were on the right side of history, people can just put them back.Interesting idea but I’m not sure how this would work practically. People are fickle and quick to react (often poorly). I’m not sure any leader should be held accountable to a moment in time where not all the information will ever be available. As a leader myself I’m often forced to make unpopular decisions with the greater good in mind. While these decisions are sometimes not understood in the moment they often become understood after the effects are felt.
Most people aren’t built to be leaders and don’t understand what it takes to be a good one. Being at the whim of moment to moment emotional decisions from the group is the exact recipe for the down fall of said group.
Stop being so mean, unless that’s your standard mode of communication.Just a pet peeve, but you are describing the median person, not the average person.
Are you saying that’s his central tendency?Stop being so mean, unless that’s your standard mode of communication.
I’m also middle class, and happy. My wife and I both work full time jobs. We pay taxes. I think it could be better spent. I think the promise of jobs is a poor trade off for corporate tax breaks. I think we can do more domestically to help people- and I mean everyone. I would like to see more money go to infrastructure, money the states and local governments would be able to save and reappropriate their budget to help people on a local level- job training, food banks, etc. Subsidized child care would go a long way in our lives, or cheaper healthcare. Sure, I can pay the bill for recently having my appendix out, but it’s not easy to absorb those costs for a lot of working Americans, even if they have decent jobs and health insurance. While @TripItUp is the great american dream (pulling up your bootstraps and working for it, frugal living and investing) it doesn’t automatically mean they will end up in the same tax bracket. It also doesn’t mean people with less money don’t work hard either.I'm middle class. And I'm happy
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Definitely agree with the bolded (don't disagree about the education part, I just think there are ways to do that affordably).This is a good post that represents a lot of what I think as well. As far as the bolded, I think a BIG part of that statement is "get by", and I think that is the problem that people are pushing back on. There not much leeway in there for an illness, accident, saving for college, etc. Also built in there that you basically need to have X kids and both parents have to work, and I wrestle with how I feel about that. It's possible, but it's not fun, and I debate in my head how much plain "hard work" has to do with it.
I think at the very least we shouldn't go broke because of health and education. Both of those things help society as a whole, and both are very bloated expenses for the middle class.
This is a big reason I support abortion as an option, or having a wide net to help these people. This is part of my problem with the Republican Party. Fight making birth control covered by insurance or Medicare (or medicaid?) fight abortion, not because it’s good policy, but to secure a branch of voters. Then strip down the aid given and tell them to work harder.Definitely agree with the bolded (don't disagree about the education part, I just think there are ways to do that affordably).
I don't wrestle with how I feel about "you basically need to have X kids and both parents have to work". Basing the number of kids you have based on your income outlook? What's wrong with that? In fact, that might be the single most important lifelong financial decision one can make (when to have kids). The most assured way to be impoverished is to have a child at a very young age without a dependable partner.
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I just don't like to go down the rabbit hole of trying to tell people how many kids they can/should have, that's basically what I was saying. Stuff happens - and the expenses for 1 kid could quickly become more for somebody than it is for 3 kids somewhere else. health, special needs, on and on. It's not that easy to plan, and I don't look down too much on people for wanting kids.Definitely agree with the bolded (don't disagree about the education part, I just think there are ways to do that affordably).
I don't wrestle with how I feel about "you basically need to have X kids and both parents have to work". Basing the number of kids you have based on your income outlook? What's wrong with that? In fact, that might be the single most important lifelong financial decision one can make (when to have kids). The most assured way to be impoverished is to have a child at a very young age without a dependable partner.
But generally speaking at a range of economic levels, folks need to make some sort of rational decisions when it comes to family planning (or lack of). And both parents working isn't some hardship.
I would vociferously disagree with this assertion. Our standard of living has gotten dramatically better. Take a look at any cancer survival rate chart over the years. Look at road deaths per capita. Look at homicides per capita. Look at the phone in your pocket. Look at how the average home has gotten larger, substantially so, over the last 40.The standard of living has consistently got worse for the middle class and below over the last 40 years
Most of these things seem pretty far off-target; cars are bigger, cancer survival, more powerful phones? I feel like I am missing how that is relevant to the economic situation many people find themselves in, both because things like that are becoming more unobtainable by the lower classes, and it is more a general statement of "technology gets better over time", rather than something related to the topic at hand. Using that logic a homeless person has a higher standard of living then John Rockefeller because they can walk into the library and use the internet.Sand said:I would vociferously disagree with this assertion. Our standard of living has gotten dramatically better. Take a look at any cancer survival rate chart over the years. Look at road deaths per capita. Look at homicides per capita. Look at the phone in your pocket. Look at how the average home has gotten larger, substantially so, over the last 40.
If anything the US has seen lifestyle inflation over this time period. Cars have gotten bigger, more powerful. More cars per household. More miles driven per household. Homes have gotten dramatically larger. Leisure time has gone up (and much more in the lower economic classes - upper classes have seen work weeks get significantly longer. This is a switch from early this century).
We live in the most prosperous country the world has ever seen and the best time to be living in that country is now.
I think the ACA has hurt more middle class families than it has helped.It's not the middle class that's without health care. Or homeless. Let's keep our eye on ball.
You cherry picked a bit here. We have significantly safer vehicles, thus lower deaths. Homicides have plummeted - we're safer. Lifespans have increased. That's just the things I can think of off the top of my head. I know there are better writers out there who can express this stuff much more eloquently than I as I sit here on my 14th hour of work.Most of these things seem pretty far off-target
You'd be right there, but the typical middle class American has a higher standard of living than Rockefeller, all things inclusive.Using that logic a homeless person has a higher standard of living then John Rockefeller
Posts like this just seem to read like "I did it, why can't everyone?" or "I have empathy for people who make the same choices I did". If so, i just dont get this mentality.I have little empathy for those that "struggle" that make poor life decisions. Having kids when you can't properly raise them/support them is near the top of the list of poor decisions people make. Acohol/drug use is another. General laziness is another.
I do have empathy for those that try to do the right thing by working hard and being a good parent.
I would like to have a system that deters the former and better supports the latter.
I agree with much of what you wrote. Except in my personal experience my co-pays seem reasonable (I can choose to pay more or less, to change the copay value, I pay $25 for a Dr or DDS appt). And a few years ago something happened that resulted in a $70K bill. I paid $400.I think the ACA has hurt more middle class families than it has helped.
For most people--they don't go to the doctor or ER. They aren't getting bankrupt by medical bills. The premiums are taking money out of their pockets for a service they rarely/never use.
And when they DO use it--the co-pays/deducitbles are so high--they aren't really getting a benefit from being insured.
For every "I got sick and had to file bankruptcy" story, I hear 10 "my insurance didn't pay my bill" stories.
I'm a doctor, fwiw.
Sure. But for thousands of Americans, insurances are finding loopholes to not pay that 70KI agree with much of what you wrote. Except in my personal experience my co-pays seem reasonable (I can choose to pay more or less, to change the copay value, I pay $25 for a Dr or DDS appt). And a few years ago something happened that resulted in a $70K bill. I paid $400.
I am not well versed in ACA, but I feel like we would be screwed if not for the mental health and preexisting conditions aspect of it. Not 100% sure of that is the case, and if so how many of the country falls under a similar umbrella as us.I think the ACA has hurt more middle class families than it has helped.
For most people--they don't go to the doctor or ER. They aren't getting bankrupt by medical bills. The premiums are taking money out of their pockets for a service they rarely/never use.
And when they DO use it--the co-pays/deducitbles are so high--they aren't really getting a benefit from being insured.
For every "I got sick and had to file bankruptcy" story, I hear 10 "my insurance didn't pay my bill" stories.
I'm a doctor, fwiw.
If you incent poor decisions, people will keep making them.Posts like this just seem to read like "I did it, why can't everyone?" or "I have empathy for people who make the same choices I did". If so, i just dont get this mentality.
Then the battle becomes who decides what are "poor decisions". In your post you mentioned just using alcohol, and it feels like you have a $ amount that people need to make to have kids.If you incent poor decisions, people will keep making them.
If you incent good behavior, people will continue those behaviors.
Govt. should set policy that addresses root causes, and not set policy that just puts bandaids on problems.
I love how Lieberman gets the blame,, and we just ignore the simple fact that we don’t have health care for all right now because of the Republican Party.We could already have healthcare for all if it wasn't for Liberman....all bs.
What planet are you living on? This is absolute nonsense, and this kind of crap absolves Republicans.Hard no, and anyone even attempting to blame this on one party over the other is absolutely fooling themselves. Our political system is broken (long before Trump) and needs a complete overhaul if those in the Middle class and below have any real chance
San Diego just like you. And no it’s actually quite the opposite, it absolves no one. Both parties are culpable, the degrees of which are only what’s up for arguments and ultimately that matters little.What planet are you living on? This is absolute nonsense, and this kind of crap absolves Republicans.
Most people I talk to are just focused on income tax levels and don't think about any of the other types of taxation.
And here it is.I know there are better writers out there who can express this stuff much more eloquently than I as I sit here on my 14th hour of work.