Captain Cranks
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Anyone else stupid enough to have made this mistake?
She's by no means a bigger girl. She's just thrown on a quick 15 in the last year or so and I made the mistake of admitting that I had noticed.Quite simply, no. However there are a few potential upsides here for you.
1. She gets her feelings hurt and decides to get healthier.
2. She realizes that you are a catch and if she wants to hang onto you she better up her bedroom game. We all know bigger girls try harder.
3. If she really punishes you, which I doubt, you can pull the plug at any time and move on to someone younger, hotter, and dirtier.
All it takes is a lack of empathy on your part and you can really turn this into a win.
Pretty much.
You didn't do this on Mother's Day did you?Anyone else stupid enough to have made this mistake?
Bigger than she was though? Amiright?She's by no means a bigger girl. She's just thrown on a quick 15 in the last year or so and I made the mistake of admitting that I had noticed.
Pretty much.![]()
No...no they do not. I even asked, "was I just supposed to lie and say I hadn't noticed." The response was 'yes'.I made the mistake once of pointing out the hypocrisy of my wife saying she wanted to lose a couple pounds while she ate half a large pizza and down 3 beers.
For the most part I think women want us to be honest and tell them when things are starting to change, but at the same time they don't wont to feel unattractive. Its a fine line to walk. I think in the end they respect you more if you tell the truth and say how you feel, rather than sugar coat everything and wish she would stay in shape.
:reported:Compliment her ####....profit.
This one isn't that complicated really. As we know, women and men put on weight as they get older usually. With that added weight comes bigger boobs. Which is nice. Like God's way of saying, "sorry we ran out of whiskey, but here's a beer."
And then asked who is the father.At least you didn't congratulate her for being pregnant.![]()
Did she ask you or did you bring it up on your own?Captain Cranks said:No...no they do not. I even asked, "was I just supposed to lie and say I hadn't noticed." The response was 'yes'.
There was some lamenting on her part about her body and I brought up things she can do to help. I should have just said, "you look gorgeous" and left it at that.Did she ask you or did you bring it up on your own?
Lol women.During the 'conversation', it was revealed that she believes I should be just as sexually attracted to her at 500 pounds as I am at 140.
Just like, I am as attractive to women if I make $400K per year or $40K per year.During the 'conversation', it was revealed that she believes I should be just as sexually attracted to her at 500 pounds as I am at 140. Once again, I should have just said, "of course I will be."
Well, see. Once you're in love with someone, the things that drove your sexual attraction before you were in love all go out the window. At least that's what I'm being told.Just like, I am as attractive to women if I make $400K per year or $40K per year.
Sabertooth said:Quite simply, no. However there are a few potential upsides here for you.
1. She gets her feelings hurt and decides to get healthier.
2. She realizes that you are a catch and if she wants to hang onto you she better up her bedroom game. We all know bigger girls try harder.
3. If she really punishes you, which I doubt, you can pull the plug at any time and move on to someone younger, hotter, and dirtier.
All it takes is a lack of empathy on your part and you can really turn this into a win.