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Capella said:
Father’s Day

for Father’s Day I wrote about my not always great relationship with my dad. 
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Great post.  Looks like Lincoln is bridging the gap between you and your dad.  Hey, whatever it takes.

I saw a similar dynamic with my kids and my (now-ex) FIL.  It's as if grandchildren gave him a do-over of sorts.  Still a ways to go, but better than before.

 
For the last 18 months or so I have tried to get my husband to have a 2nd child. He turns 40 next year and refuses (he had a vasectomy). I have even offered to wake up with the child every night, take care of all diapers, spit up and laundry. It is not working.

 
msudaisy26 said:
For the last 18 months or so I have tried to get my husband to have a 2nd child. He turns 40 next year and refuses (he had a vasectomy). I have even offered to wake up with the child every night, take care of all diapers, spit up and laundry. It is not working.
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Is he going to live in a separate home where he won’t hear/see any of this?

 
msudaisy26 said:
For the last 18 months or so I have tried to get my husband to have a 2nd child. He turns 40 next year and refuses (he had a vasectomy). I have even offered to wake up with the child every night, take care of all diapers, spit up and laundry. It is not working.
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How old are you if you don't mind me asking? And if he is that adamant about not having another child, don't do it. He will resent you for it.

 
irish eyes said:
How old are you if you don't mind me asking? And if he is that adamant about not having another child, don't do it. He will resent you for it.
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I will be 38 later this year. I doubt we do it, but I have brought it up several times over the last 18 months. 

 
RokNRole said:
Is he going to live in a separate home where he won’t hear/see any of this?
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Other than the kid waking up in the night I don't see the a problem, but he sleeps like a rock and never really woke up with our 1st child until I asked him, and I  would hope the 2nd would be as good as the 1st. She slept through the night at an early age and is a very good sleeper now. 

 
msudaisy26 said:
I will be 38 later this year. I doubt we do it, but I have brought it up several times over the last 18 months. 
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I turned 40 this year and my wife is 38.  We have a soon-to-be 4 year old and a 2 year old.  I'm also adamant that I do not want anymore kids but she'll bring it up on occasion.  I think she's about 50/50 and a lot of it changes day-to-day (primarily based on how much stress the kids are causing her on a given day).  I like life right now.  It's easy.  I have no interest in adding anymore complications.  As IE said - don't push the issue too much if he's serious about not wanting another kid.  

 
I just turned 40 and had my seventh child (second son)in February. I couldn’t imagine doing anything else that’s more rewarding. They make me feel young and active even as I’m getting gray and old.

 
RokNRole said:
Why are you guys having children at such old ages?
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Financially it makes more sense to have kids later. Take my family for example. We could afford another kid or 2 and our life style wouldn't change other than how much free time we have. My sister in-law started having kids at 23 and they always need money. We also make about the same amount of money a year. 

 
We are now potty training twin boys.  Every time I think I'm at the bottom of my life, I realize another nadir I didn't think possible.  In the last 3 days alone, I've fished out 7 washcloths, 3 toys and 2 half full rolls of TP out of toilets.  I've been urinated on more than a Japanese porn starlette.  I've cleaned smeared feces out of nooks and crannies that I never imagined would contain smeared feces.  And the worse part about all of this is that they don't take me seriously.  They think I'm being funny when I'm mad, like we all do when we get Angry Shuke.  I'm 45 and my life is a flaming pile of doodoo fire.  It's taken its toll on me physically.  I look horrible.  I've aged 10 years in 3.  I have the sex drive of eunuch which is great because I am completely and utterly untappable.  Sometimes I get chest pains and I think "good, let's get this over with".  The highlight of my day is drifting off to sleep on the couch.  I should probably post this in the depression thread but really, who cares.  It's all the same.

Happy Father's Day?  I think not....
 

 
General Malaise said:
We are now potty training twin boys.  Every time I think I'm at the bottom of my life, I realize another nadir I didn't think possible.  In the last 3 days alone, I've fished out 7 washcloths, 3 toys and 2 half full rolls of TP out of toilets.  I've been urinated on more than a Japanese porn starlette.  I've cleaned smeared feces out of nooks and crannies that I never imagined would contain smeared feces.  And the worse part about all of this is that they don't take me seriously.  They think I'm being funny when I'm mad, like we all do when we get Angry Shuke.  I'm 45 and my life is a flaming pile of doodoo fire.  It's taken its toll on me physically.  I look horrible.  I've aged 10 years in 3.  I have the sex drive of eunuch which is great because I am completely and utterly untappable.  Sometimes I get chest pains and I think "good, let's get this over with".  The highlight of my day is drifting off to sleep on the couch.  I should probably post this in the depression thread but really, who cares.  It's all the same.

Happy Father's Day?  I think not....
 
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So sorry general, I can only imagine. When I'm feeling down about my life, I'm going to come back and read this post to keep things in perspective.  Hang in there.

 
General Malaise said:
We are now potty training twin boys.  Every time I think I'm at the bottom of my life, I realize another nadir I didn't think possible.  In the last 3 days alone, I've fished out 7 washcloths, 3 toys and 2 half full rolls of TP out of toilets.  I've been urinated on more than a Japanese porn starlette.  I've cleaned smeared feces out of nooks and crannies that I never imagined would contain smeared feces.  And the worse part about all of this is that they don't take me seriously.  They think I'm being funny when I'm mad, like we all do when we get Angry Shuke.  I'm 45 and my life is a flaming pile of doodoo fire.  It's taken its toll on me physically.  I look horrible.  I've aged 10 years in 3.  I have the sex drive of eunuch which is great because I am completely and utterly untappable.  Sometimes I get chest pains and I think "good, let's get this over with".  The highlight of my day is drifting off to sleep on the couch.  I should probably post this in the depression thread but really, who cares.  It's all the same.

Happy Father's Day?  I think not....
 
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Wow, that is dark. 

 
General Malaise said:
We are now potty training twin boys.  Every time I think I'm at the bottom of my life, I realize another nadir I didn't think possible.  In the last 3 days alone, I've fished out 7 washcloths, 3 toys and 2 half full rolls of TP out of toilets.  I've been urinated on more than a Japanese porn starlette.  I've cleaned smeared feces out of nooks and crannies that I never imagined would contain smeared feces.  And the worse part about all of this is that they don't take me seriously.  They think I'm being funny when I'm mad, like we all do when we get Angry Shuke.  I'm 45 and my life is a flaming pile of doodoo fire.  It's taken its toll on me physically.  I look horrible.  I've aged 10 years in 3.  I have the sex drive of eunuch which is great because I am completely and utterly untappable.  Sometimes I get chest pains and I think "good, let's get this over with".  The highlight of my day is drifting off to sleep on the couch.  I should probably post this in the depression thread but really, who cares.  It's all the same.

Happy Father's Day?  I think not....
 
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Well, father’s days  are merely symbolic of how another year has gone by and
how little we've grown. No matter how desperate we are that someday a better
self will emerge, with each flicker of the candles on the cake, we know it's not
to be, that for the rest of our sad, wretched pathetic lives, this is who we are
to the bitter end. Inevitably, irrevocably; happy father’s day? No such thing.

 
Long Ball Larry said:
I am generally mired in cynicism and nihilism in family life (and all life I guess), but this is a good point:

I’ve spent most of my adult life stressing over whether FSU wins or not, but this time I just wanted to get him out of that situation. The game wasn’t even a factor. He’s definitely changing me in little ways.
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Yea we left sometime late in the second quarter. I felt so bad for him. Worst was we were there with friends at their first FSU game and having a good time (despite the loss) but we all knew it was a possibility going in. 

 
Kid turned one the other day. We did it. So that’s a wrap right?

He’s currently tugging at my leg as I try to finish spider man and I’m pretty sure he has a poop diaper and mommy is nowhere to be found.   :sadbanana:

 
Capella said:
Also since he turned 1 the wife is seriously on some second kid ####. 
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It happens. I’ve got three boys now, but the youngest is 11. I don’t get tugs on the leg with poopy diapers anymore, which is really nice. I just get punched and tackled since my two youngest play football and wrestle. I can still take them, but my 14 year old worries me, seems like he grows daily and isn’t that much smaller than me, he might be 5’9-5’10 next year and somewhere around 180 pounds. I’m in my late 40s so I’m legitimately worried that they’ll be doing a lot more weights in high school next year and he will be able to kick my butt. I’m 5’10” and 200+ pounds. Strong but not in great shape anymore.

 
The Commish said:
We have about 5 years between each of our three.  I don't know how I'd do two toddlers at once.  That seems like a ticket to the loony bin.
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We have 3 years between ours. It works well. The oldest was in 1st grade when the youngest was born so the spacing made it nice.

 
The Commish said:
We have about 5 years between each of our three.  I don't know how I'd do two toddlers at once.  That seems like a ticket to the loony bin.
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It may be rough for the first year but it pays off in the long run.  Having kids close in age is very underrated.  I can’t tell you how much it’s worth to relax while your kids are in another room entertaining each other.

 
fred_1_15301 said:
It may be rough for the first year but it pays off in the long run.  Having kids close in age is very underrated.  I can’t tell you how much it’s worth to relax while your kids are in another room entertaining each other.
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My oldest has been babysitting since he was 5  :D  

 
Capella said:
Kid turned one the other day. We did it. So that’s a wrap right?

He’s currently tugging at my leg as I try to finish spider man and I’m pretty sure he has a poop diaper and mommy is nowhere to be found.   :sadbanana:
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Congrats.  1 is a great age because they can’t talk yet!  Appreciate this time.  My kids are 4 and 2 and now I have a permanent ignore function on (although it’s easier to manage in here than in real life).

 
Capella said:
How did you survive 
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Wonderful wife and good support system mostly.  I think we were also lucky and a little good at parenting little ones.  At those young ages its all about being there and giving them the attention and love they need to flourish.  I'm sure you and your wife are doing awesome.

 
Long Ball Larry said:
Well, father’s days  are merely symbolic of how another year has gone by and
how little we've grown. No matter how desperate we are that someday a better
self will emerge, with each flicker of the candles on the cake, we know it's not
to be, that for the rest of our sad, wretched pathetic lives, this is who we are
to the bitter end. Inevitably, irrevocably; happy father’s day? No such thing.
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:thumbup:

Well played, Larry.  Well played.

 
The Commish said:
We have about 5 years between each of our three.  I don't know how I'd do two toddlers at once.  That seems like a ticket to the loony bin.
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I keep waiting for them to take me away, heee hee, ha ha......

 
fred_1_15301 said:
It may be rough for the first year but it pays off in the long run.  Having kids close in age is very underrated.  I can’t tell you how much it’s worth to relax while your kids are in another room entertaining each other.
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Mine are two years apart, and they are already best friends even though they are still very young. But, both of them were and remain terrible sleepers, so it’s been a long and difficult process. I’d very much like to fast forward a couple years so I can finally get some sleep and exercise again.  

 
Capella said:
The people you meet on road trips
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Lol. Liked the post and I agree wholeheartedly. I still don’t have a Facebook page. I’m busy enough already. I’m just glad we travel with my boys and they’ve got plenty of sports and friends to hang out with because I do agree that there are some people where social media is their life and reality. Sad and very divisive. It’s way easier to argue and fight online and way easier to have a civil discourse in person.

I went to the US Naval Academy for a week in high school (a blast and a week off although I was the only person it seemed not planning to go there). No phones or email (got that in college) back then so a week with complete strangers. Sucked that it was too easy to lose touch with everyone. We spent hours in a negotiation exercise over the government budget. Just a great process and something I think 99% of the current world couldn’t handle without a video of a fight on YouTube.

 
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