How do I convince my wife that my 2 yr old is not old enough for this trip yet? I want to buy myself a few more years.
Since this topic comes up alot, here's my take and it's never changed.My son has been going there since he was 1. Every trip has been fun, magical, you name it. When he went his second time at 2 years old and talking he told us what he wanted to see, so he remembered. If you are going to spend a week of vacation somewhere you have to balance everything you can do and the cost involved. With a family with chidlren you need, basically, stuff to entertain the kids and some stuff to let mom and dad have fun together too if possible. Disney has all of that in spades. You can spend a week in the complex in Florida and never once go to a park and still have a massively great time.You want ease of transportation at your destination. Disney has that in spades as well. You can walk, boat, bus, drive, monorail, train, horse drawn carriage and everything in between around the complex in varying degrees. Almost all of which is built in to the cost and doesn't add any extra bills.You want food - you aren't going to find a better family vacation in terms of food options. Not close. All price ranges, all different styles and all different meals. From an ice cream bar to a 5 star high end luxury eatery, it's got it all.And you want variety - you want to have enough to do so that you aren't bored or have so much down time that you lose some of the fun - unless a quiet week on a beach is what you want (although you can pull that off in Disney as well). You can really do everything here. Rollercoasters, slow rides, tours, shows, movies, stage shows, learning experiences, creative expereinces and everything in between.So you have everything you could want in one massive complex all yours for the taking. The last time we went we spent a total of maybe $2,500 on everything - and I mean everything. Food gas hotel buying stuff tips - everyting. And that is probably high. For a week vacation for a family of 3 such as us we haven't found a better deal when you take into account everything that is there for the offereing. We spend a 3 day weekend in DC to go to the Smithsonian complexes and a few other minor things and by the end of the 3 days we probably spent almost a grand. It just doesn't compare, and not much has.that's not to say that you should never do anything but Disney - but for everything you get, find a deal and you can't beat it.So, young kids... Sure, they may not remember everything. You will. You will have pictures. And they will remember some things. The argument that you shouldn't take a young kid there because they won't remember basically stands for the proposition that you shouldn't let your kid do anything at all until they are 9 and can write a paper on memory and how it works and then be able to take a test when you are done to ensure they actually remembered everything. It's rather silly.There isn't a kid in this world that can't have fun there. And there hasn't been one family that ever went there and didn't have that one perfect moment of absolute joy appear on their kids face when they got to hug Mickey, or meet Cinderella, or any one of the other thousands of things they can do there. A 2 year old can have fun there and so can parents of a two year old. Make it a laid back trip where you know in advance you can't get everything done - you never can - and just enjoy it. Take every picture under the sun. Spend the extra $100 and hire a photopass guy to follow you and tak eht epictures for you. Or get the photopass professional shots at one of the resorts. Add them to family shots you take and it's a book of memories you will never forget. My son took his picture of mickey to bed with him for weeks after we came back the first time.As for a way out? The Kingdom is under construction. It's better to save up and spend a little more all over the map to truly enjoy it and you should plan now for a trip next year. The only way you can agree is if she gives oral treats every day this year until you go (and franly at that point you aren't saying no anyway). I don't know - there has to be something.