My wife graduated from University of Michigan. She couldn't begin to have a conversation about a book or a good movie or history. She knows almost nothing and admits it. She passed her classes, but didn't really care about history and mostly didn't read the books, just did Clff's Notes, etc. She is a very successful business person because she is organized, knows how to get people to do their jobs, and is good at developing a plan with a budget and timeline and making sure it all happens correctly. I doubt my wife knows if Hemingway was American or British and would know what century he lived in. She isn't ditzy or stupid, she just doesn't care about "old stuff".
Sincere congratuations to your wife on her success and endeavoring to best serve her strengths in her career. But it sounds like she is not a scholar, she is a graduate.
Perhaps that is the word that trips me up as applies to this guy is "scholar". I expect an intellectual and when three different organizations consider you to be so, and all the evidence demonstrates otherwise, then I'm left to wonder that word or concept is worth today, if anything at all.