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is this a medical condition, normal? (1 Viewer)

belljr

belljr

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I know everyone needs alone time/me time whatever but I have always had this issue.

I love my wife and kids more than anything but some days I just want to left the hell alone. I snap at them for really no reason other than I'm being bothered.

my wife knows to tread lightly on these days. I snap out of it in a day or so and apologize. If I was a chick I would blame it on my period.

:shrug:

 
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belljr said:
I know everyone needs alone time/me time whatever but I have always had this issue.

I love my wife and kids more than anything but some days I just want to left the hell alone. I snap at them for really no reason other than I'm being bothered.

my wife knows to tread lightly on these days. I snap out of it in a day or so and apologize. If I was a chick I would blame it on my period.

:shrug:
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It's pretty normal. Everyone needs some time to relax without responsibilities, and the male role in many/most households doesn't allow for that when everyone's around.

 
Suck it up you pansy!

Naw seriously, I think this is pretty normal. Everyone should have some alone time.

 
Normal. Fixable without medication.

You are fine. You are just an irritable person sometimes, likely based on things irritating you, though things may irritate you more easily than other people.

Either way, yes, normal in the sense that basically everyone has this from time to time. maybe you just have it slightly more.

 
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My dad had a case of this when I was growing up. His doctor at the time diagnosed him as "being an #######" HTH

 
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is it always on Monday?

because it sounds like someone's got a case of the Mondays
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lol... i thought it might be depression. .. I'll just wake up one day and know it's that day.I'm usually always in a hyper good mood then blam this day happens

 
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I don't know if this is a help, but I want my 30 minutes if peace after I'm home before talking to anyone about anything, so one rule in my house is that I'm not home and available for anything or anyone until I have been home for 30 minutes.

If anyone talks to me before that, my only reply is "30 minutes." After that I settle down on the couch in my office and entertain requests for school supplies, football equipment, answer questions about what time I want dinner or whether I want a big dinner or a small one or if I prefer to grill outside, etc. it works for us.

 
johnnycakes said:
I don't know if this is a help, but I want my 30 minutes if peace after I'm home before talking to anyone about anything, so one rule in my house is that I'm not home and available for anything or anyone until I have been home for 30 minutes.

If anyone talks to me before that, my only reply is "30 minutes." After that I settle down on the couch in my office and entertain requests for school supplies, football equipment, answer questions about what time I want dinner or whether I want a big dinner or a small one or if I prefer to grill outside, etc. it works for us.
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see its not an everyday feeling and I get plenty of free time. It's just a day I wake up with my period
 
johnnycakes said:
I don't know if this is a help, but I want my 30 minutes if peace after I'm home before talking to anyone about anything, so one rule in my house is that I'm not home and available for anything or anyone until I have been home for 30 minutes.

If anyone talks to me before that, my only reply is "30 minutes." After that I settle down on the couch in my office and entertain requests for school supplies, football equipment, answer questions about what time I want dinner or whether I want a big dinner or a small one or if I prefer to grill outside, etc. it works for us.
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I get needing the time, but Jesus, this sounds miserable. I struggle with the sudden mood changes and wish I knew what triggers them, but I find if I consciously decide to change it, I can overcome it. Some times are easier than others. One of the best ways I can beat it is to go for a run. I almost never come back grumpy after a solid run.

 
Probably a chemical imbalance. Get a full workup before you go postal.















































You're a man? Never mind, completely normal.

 
Us men can be impatient at times. Guilty as charged. But learn to stop yourself before taking it out on the wife and kids. It's you - not them.

 
I encounter this a lot. I'm very introverted. Not sure how much my wife understands my need for alone/me time to refresh. There are days where driving around with my kids, I want to tell them to just STF up.

 
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