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Joe Bryant

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Quick thought I had today and something I saw on instagram.

Jen Hatmaker and David Sedaris are two of my favorite writers. Both are super talented.

Hatmaker has been dealing with a divorce and has written quite a bit on social media about mental health and such. 

She posted this yesterday regarding a postcard she received from David Sedaris and I thought it was good.

Peace and Grace for y'all.

(I'll paste below but the image is worth seeing for the postcard)

https://www.instagram.com/p/CXz6oIVMrK8/?utm_medium=copy_link

Good evening, darlings. A quick note from me and David Sedaris.

Is this a way to tell you he wrote me a lovely postcard made from flash cards for butchers () and suggested I would have been the most wonderful final conversation on earth in the case of his death? It is.

But also, I like his final suggestion better: “Let’s both live.”

Dears, since we find ourselves breathing tonight, alive in our bodies and minds, let’s just live. We may as well, right? We may as well laugh while we can, throw our arms around the people we adore and hug them well past their comfort level while we can do that too. Might as well tell folks that we love them, we appreciate them, we’re sorry, we were wrong, we see them, we need them, we think they are so fantastic that it almost makes us freak out.

While we are at it, this living bit, we may as well get on with the business of risking it all for love, for hope, for the sneaking suspicion that magic is just around the corner. Sure, we could play it safe and coy and distant, but what if we didn’t? What if we lived instead and stumbled upon outrageous happiness? Wouldn’t that have been terrible to miss?

In this living experiment, we could say yes. What a dreamy word when well placed. A million gorgeous things have happened on the other side of a yes.

Living means we can also lay some heavy things down; just choose to do it. Unhook the chain and let it drop. Decide to be free. Maybe this means forgiveness. Maybe it just means moving on because life is short and we have the least amount of days left than we’ve ever had.

So let us live while we can. While blood courses through our veins and songs are still being written and life begs to be celebrated. We get no days back but every single one from here on is ours for the taking.

Love,
David and Jen

 
:thumbup:  Great statement..
 

It kind of goes along with a quote/Motto that I've followed since I was a teenager.. Semi-Quoted from Oscar Wilde:

" Life is too important to be taken seriously ".

This article I found really sums up how I feel that quote has affected my life.

As the Article "Summarizes" near the end:
 

Summarizing it all, we need to get over ourselves.
We need to understand that we are not the center of the universe but rather a little and important part of something so much bigger than each and every one of us individually. Remove the man-made pressure.
Life is not supposed to be filled with pressure. How are you supposed to enjoy it being stiff all the time?
We have created the pressure and can in the same way remove it, by slowly understanding objectively that it is something we have received rather than something that comes from within from the starting point.

Dare to be more light in your steps. Dare to play more, find your inner kid. Dare to remember that we know little about everything and allow yourself to enjoy more, be more present. All super obvious but maybe not that easy. Practise. Dare to fail. Dare to test. Dare to put your well being first. Dare to live life for you and for no one else.

 
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Joe, my wife is related to some Hatmakers in TN but not Jen - although she is one of my wife’s favorite authors too.  Great sentiment.

 

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