Missing money in my home... (1 Viewer)

[glock]

Goal posts?

 

[xulf]

Strip searching them seems like the correct play.

 

[VA703]

have them empty their pockets

 

[Niles Standish]

The kids don't go anywhere without me or their mom so we would know if they were buying anything. Lunch is the only thing they pay for when we aren't with them.

I realize I should have handled the money differently, I let my guard down.

Now I'm just trying to come up with a good plan on how to address this, so maybe someone will confess.

I thought the note on the board would get one/both of them asking what is going on. I could then tell them that I have noticed some items missing and see what their reactions are. I have no evidence that it was either one of them but my gut tells me one of them did it.

My first thought was to tell them if the items weren't replaced by the end of the week that I would have both of them replaced by new nurses...not sure I really want to handle it this way.

Have any of your children been putting on weight?

 

[SeaDogStat]

start hiding money BETTER

Fixed

 

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Nannycam

 

[Controller]

Yep, Nanny cam is the answer.

Here's a link to one site that sells them: http://www.brickhousesecurity.com/category/hidden+cameras.do?gclid=CMjqi6GT_rsCFSdp7AodJGYAWw

In addition to finding out who the thief is, you will also see just how good they are with your son, when no one is watching. That's worth spending the rest of your FF winnings on.

 

[Wilfredo Ledezma]

Yep, Nanny cam is the answer.

Here's a link to one site that sells them: http://www.brickhousesecurity.com/category/hidden+cameras.do?gclid=CMjqi6GT_rsCFSdp7AodJGYAWw

In addition to finding out who the thief is, you will also see just how good they are with your son, when no one is watching. That's worth spending the rest of your FF winnings on.

FWIW if you go this route (surreptitiously taping) would be best to check this website to see what the rules are on taping without the consent of all parties. In some states it can be a serious crime. Many states have laws designed to stop bathroom peepers/shower cams too. This is most important if you do decide to involve the police, as last thing you want is them slapping you with a charge for illegally recording someone without there consent.

Tape-recording laws at a glance | Reporters Committee for Freedom of the Press

This is on a reporters website, since so many reporters do hidden camera type stuff FYI.

 

[Mr. Know-It-All]

Could be the reverse tooth fairy, since money is missing see if any family members have extra teeth stuck in their grille.

 

[NCCommish]

Yep, Nanny cam is the answer.

Here's a link to one site that sells them: http://www.brickhousesecurity.com/category/hidden+cameras.do?gclid=CMjqi6GT_rsCFSdp7AodJGYAWw

In addition to finding out who the thief is, you will also see just how good they are with your son, when no one is watching. That's worth spending the rest of your FF winnings on.

FWIW if you go this route (surreptitiously taping) would be best to check this website to see what the rules are on taping without the consent of all parties. In some states it can be a serious crime. Many states have laws designed to stop bathroom peepers/shower cams too. This is most important if you do decide to involve the police, as last thing you want is them slapping you with a charge for illegally recording someone without there consent.

Tape-recording laws at a glance | Reporters Committee for Freedom of the Press

This is on a reporters website, since so many reporters do hidden camera type stuff FYI.

It is his home and a place of employment. Pretty sure he can record anything but inside the bathroom and be fine, That is different than planting a recording device in someone else business or home.

 

[I love my screen name]

After thinking about it over night I erased the note I left for them. I'm going to let it go this time since I can't prove anything without making things uncomfortable for everyone. I'll consider putting up cameras.

 

[Insein]

You didn't hide it good enough.

Also...

Start hiding money... better.

 

[Spike]

Hopefully they don't steal the nannycams.

 

[Johnny Rock]

After thinking about it over night I erased the note I left for them. I'm going to let it go this time since I can't prove anything without making things uncomfortable for everyone. I'll consider putting up cameras.

I was under the impression that you already left the note. Now I envision a note they can still read because erasing never works completely.

 

[flranger]

I would sit them both down and let them know that you are going to have to let them both go, and let them know the reason why unless one would like to resign working for you, no questions asked.

At a minimum under no circumstances would I do nothing and pretend nothing has happened. They both need to be aware that you have a concern about money missing in your home.

 

[Patriotsfatboy1]

Rather tha powder on the money, why wouldn't you just copy the serial numbers?

I would use a nanny cam to catch the culprit. You could be saving some other family from dealing with the same thing down the line.

Are either of these nurses hot?

 

[I love my screen name]

Neither of the nurses are hot. They are in there 50's. The money that was in the living room was in a small perfume box on the fireplace. I removed all the other items from the fireplace and left the box open facing the couches with the $50 paper that was wrapped around the money inside the box. The first nurse saw it yesterday and the 2nd one will see it today.

When I arrived home from work yesterday my daughter asked me where her money was, in front of the nurse. So nurse #1 is aware we have missing money.

 

[Dreamer]

Speak with them and explain the situation, tell them they will need to submit to a short lie detector test in order to stay employed and keep the police uninvolved.

First off polygraphs aren't accurate. Second off I am thinking it's expensive. Just get a couple of nanny cams. You can get them hidden in various items. Put one in each off limits bedroom, check when you get home. Pretty straightforward.

It's an empty threat. The guilty party will say no, or not show up.

 

[McGarnicle]

Battery, jumper cables, nipples, etc.

 

[Patriotsfatboy1]

Neither of the nurses are hot. They are in there 50's. The money that was in the living room was in a small perfume box on the fireplace. I removed all the other items from the fireplace and left the box open facing the couches with the $50 paper that was wrapped around the money inside the box. The first nurse saw it yesterday and the 2nd one will see it today.

When I arrived home from work yesterday my daughter asked me where her money was, in front of the nurse. So nurse #1 is aware we have missing money.

Can them both and keep going until you end up with at least one hottie.

 

[Johnny Rock]

Neither of the nurses are hot. They are in there 50's. The money that was in the living room was in a small perfume box on the fireplace. I removed all the other items from the fireplace and left the box open facing the couches with the $50 paper that was wrapped around the money inside the box. The first nurse saw it yesterday and the 2nd one will see it today.

When I arrived home from work yesterday my daughter asked me where her money was, in front of the nurse. So nurse #1 is aware we have missing money.

How is this going to help?

 

[Tchula]

Dude it's ok. Obama said you didn't earn that money anyway.

 

[Geezil]

Get a camera like this http://www.amazon.com/Foscam-FI8910W-Network-Camera-Two-Way/dp/B006ZP8UOW and watch them.

 

[GoFishTN]

The nurses sound like very convenient scapegoats. If you purchase a camera, don't tell anyone else you're setting it up.

 

[Geezil]

The nurses sound like very convenient scapegoats. If you purchase a camera, don't tell anyone else you're setting it up.

Or set it up in the room you post the "Stay Out. This is where all the money's at." sign on the door.

 

[chet]

These updates SUCK!

 

[Big Cat]

My link.