'beavers said:
So I went on my first iDate last night since Feb or March. I met her on OK Cupid and we met up for dinner and drinks. I wasn't expecting much (she's a doctor who is moving in July for a 1 yr fellowship). But, I ended up liking her (I think the feeling is mutual) because we spent about an hour kissing and such before going home.
Our next date is this Sunday evening. I'm inviting her over (it's easy that way since I am a single mom and won't have to deal with sitters). She was so willingly to make out on the first date, I have a very good chance of sleeping with her on Sunday. I am wondering, since I like her and see potential, should I slow it down? (my original goal was the sex). But, she is moving so does it matter?
Moving in July?? Of 2013? I don't see the issue.
No kidding, you do realize July is 11 months away right? Some marriages don't even last that long.
We are talking about a woman here. You know how they (over)analyze/justify things.
"Well I really don't see a reason for getting involved with him. He might get another job and move away someday."
This is a correct statement. The "and such" is the just extra things aside from kissing. We had a few drinks of premium beer, and I loved that she knew a lot about good beer. Total turn on for me

Anyway, when we were about to leave, I walked her to her car and during our goodbye hug, she said that she wanted to kiss me. So I went ahead and kissed her. We were on the sidewalk for about an hour (maybe a few grinds and rubs) but that is the "as such." I can't really describe it in too much detail (NSFW). The funny thing is, lesbians just don't make out like this on the side of a street (really guys, how many have you seen?). But we didn't care - it was a great feeling, actually. We had a few people look at us when walking by but no big issues. She walked me to my car (I guess me walking her to her car wasn't the end

) and then after we were kissing a while outside my car, we noticed Melissa Ethridge (Come to my Window) and then George Michael loudly playing from someone's stereo. Someone was watching and totally ####### with us.

(we were in a gay friendly area that is considered a slow, but upcoming neighborhood right outside of downtown) We didn't stop then ... What stopped us is that it was now 1 AM and my babysitters had to work tomorrow (they totally understood but I don't like doing that to my sitters).