Nathan R. Jessep
Footballguy
Damn, you old smoothie.Nudes?Yes sir, I have a very good sense of her hotness.
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fantasycurse42
Footballguy Jr.
When is she coming and how long is she staying until? Where are you located and where is she? Have you discussed sleeping arrangements? Is sex basically a guarantee? Sounds like it...
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Nathan R. Jessep
Footballguy
Flying in tonight. I'm picking her up at the airport then hitting a hotel since it will be late when she gets in. Let's just say she's crossing an ocean to get here.fantasycurse42 said:
When is she coming and how long is she staying until? Where are you located and where is she? Have you discussed sleeping arrangements? Is sex basically a guarantee? Sounds like it...
We'll be sleeping in the same bed either way, but I'd put odds for sex at 100:1 in my favor or better. I have 50+ condoms and 10 days before I have to be back to work. Let us pray, gentleman.
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Johnny Rock
Footballguy
China? /johnnycakesFlying in tonight. I'm picking her up at the airport then hitting a hotel since it will be late when she gets in. Let's just say she's crossing an ocean to get here.fantasycurse42 said:
When is she coming and how long is she staying until? Where are you located and where is she? Have you discussed sleeping arrangements? Is sex basically a guarantee? Sounds like it...
fantasycurse42
Footballguy Jr.
Flying in tonight. I'm picking her up at the airport then hitting a hotel since it will be late when she gets in. Let's just say she's crossing an ocean to get here.fantasycurse42 said:
When is she coming and how long is she staying until? Where are you located and where is she? Have you discussed sleeping arrangements? Is sex basically a guarantee? Sounds like it...
I have 50+ condoms and 10 days before I have to be back to work. Let us pray, gentleman.
Can we get a nationality?
Nathan R. Jessep
Footballguy
she is not Asianed
let's go with Scandinavian
let's go with Scandinavian
chet
Footballguy
#### that. Post a pic or two.Flying in tonight. I'm picking her up at the airport then hitting a hotel since it will be late when she gets in. Let's just say she's crossing an ocean to get here.fantasycurse42 said:
When is she coming and how long is she staying until? Where are you located and where is she? Have you discussed sleeping arrangements? Is sex basically a guarantee? Sounds like it...
I have 50+ condoms and 10 days before I have to be back to work. Let us pray, gentleman.
Can we get a nationality?
fantasycurse42
Footballguy Jr.
James Daulton
Footballguy
She's flying across the ocean to hook up with someone she's never met in person before huh. How much currency has been exchanged?
Poke_4_Life
Footballguy
Also adding to notebook to check on Jessep's well being on Oct 5.
Nathan R. Jessep
Footballguy
Survey says: ZERO!
We had discussed meeting up for a while, then I had some life issues going on and my availability was in limbo for a bit. But I knew she was serious when she told me she bought the plane ticket.
James Daulton
Footballguy
Dating sure has changed since I was in the scene. Regardless, I hope you two hit it off and you two have a great time.
Worst comes to worst (other than her killing you) is that you'll have some great stories to tell.
Nathan R. Jessep
Footballguy
Guys, I need some help. I've lost my mojo and need to mix it up somehow and not sure what to do. I think part of the reason is that my ex (of 6 weeks) started texting me 2 weeks ago acting like she wants to get back together but since then has kept me in limbo.
Anyway... Tinder sucks, OKC sucks, POF sucks. I'm tempted to subscribe to Match but I know all those "interests" I've been getting are from older women that I don't care to meet or date.
Is it best to just take a break and regroup? Start my profiles over from scratch? I'm not Brad Pitt but I'm not ugly either. Have dated some nice looking women in the past.
Anyway... Tinder sucks, OKC sucks, POF sucks. I'm tempted to subscribe to Match but I know all those "interests" I've been getting are from older women that I don't care to meet or date.
Is it best to just take a break and regroup? Start my profiles over from scratch? I'm not Brad Pitt but I'm not ugly either. Have dated some nice looking women in the past.
Depending on how old you are, you should really just start hanging out at Starbucks. Bring a laptop and act like you're writing something. You can be wasting time posting on here, they won't know the difference.
Mid-40's but I typically don't date anyone over 30. Yes, I realize that's part (all?) of my problem.
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You're going to hit a wall at some point where, aesthetically, you're going to start looking "old" to 20-somethings. For some it takes longer than others to hit that point. Sometimes it comes on pretty suddenly. Not saying you're dead to them, but the well will dry up considerably. If you're in your mid 40's, you might well have reached that point.
Unless you're pretty well loaded or disproportionately young/great looking.... there's a good shot you're going to have to extend your range upward a bit at some point in the not too-terribly distant future...
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I know, and I'm fine with that as long as they look good. I had a 32-year old on POF message me out of the blue several weeks ago. We messaged and texted for about a week and a half, things went well, then we met up and I blew it somehow. We met for drinks and had a pretty good time, but I could tell from her texts afterwards that she wasn't interested. Pretty disappointing.
But I'm not even getting anything from women in their 30s right now. No one looking at my profile, etc. I'm tempted to upgrade on OKC to see who all my "likes" are from, but I don't know. That's always such a disappointment. Maybe I should just pony up on OKC and/or Match. Any recommendations on which pay site is worth it?
Most of the stuff on OKC is free, with a few upgrades available (who "liked" you, for example). On Match you pretty much can't do anything without a subscription except create a profile, browse profiles, and send winks.
offdee
Footballguy
fantasycurse42
Footballguy Jr.
Shakira Shakira
fantasycurse42
Footballguy Jr.
If you aren't worth at least 7 figures, you're out of your element, regardless of what you look like. You'll be in your 50's before this reality slaps you in the face.
If I was in my mid 40's and single, I'd be on the hunt for an attractive and established mid to late 30's chick.
For the demo you are chasing, Tinder is your best bet. For the demo you should be chasing, match/jdate would be your best bet.
James Daulton
Footballguy
Jdate? I should look for Jewish women?
Ok, so if I sign up for Match, should I try 1 month first or just go for a longer period?
fantasycurse42
Footballguy Jr.
I'd recommend a fresh profile start from scratch for beginners. Where are you located? Just curious of population and talent field. I'm in NYC, obviously there is endless talent here. If you're in the cornfields of Nebraska, you might need to really adjust strategies.
A month is a small sample size... It is nearly impossible to not meet women on these sites, so you could be cramming a lot of material/dates/conversations into a shorter time-frame (location depending). I'd look at 3 months. J-Date is also location depending, but I recommend for a few reasons - I'd be looking for a smart/established woman in your situation. Not to play stereotypes, but I'd anticipate them being as established as anyone. These aren't like Hasidic you need a sheet to bang kind of women... I think they'll list religious preferences on profiles too. Worth a gander if you're in an NYC/LA kinda place where there are def a bunch of hotties a smaller playing field.
Tinder is strictly for banging, don't anticipate meeting anything but a playtoy there - Nothing wrong with that, just whatever you're looking to get into now. Match will be filled with women looking for something serious.
fantasycurse42
Footballguy Jr.
I think we get an update here Mondayish?So I met a chick on a social media site about a year ago. It wasn't a dating site, but I'm counting this as an iDate. We chitchatted for several months. Have texted, skyped, etc. She's flying in to hang out with me for a week. Should be interesting.
Some ####er, somewhere is nailing a chick from like Norway right now endlessly. Good for him
James Daulton
Footballguy
Or he's dead and his organs have been harvested. I highly doubt he's worth flying over the ####### Atlantic Ocean for. I'm not even worth that!I think we get an update here Mondayish?So I met a chick on a social media site about a year ago. It wasn't a dating site, but I'm counting this as an iDate. We chitchatted for several months. Have texted, skyped, etc. She's flying in to hang out with me for a week. Should be interesting.
Some ####er, somewhere is nailing a chick from like Norway right now endlessly. Good for him
Joe T
Footballguy
YepI think we get an update here Mondayish?So I met a chick on a social media site about a year ago. It wasn't a dating site, but I'm counting this as an iDate. We chitchatted for several months. Have texted, skyped, etc. She's flying in to hang out with me for a week. Should be interesting.
Some ####er, somewhere is nailing a chick from like Norway right now endlessly. Good for him
xulf
Footballguy
Pretty sure his organ got harvested several timesOr he's dead and his organs have been harvested. I highly doubt he's worth flying over the ####### Atlantic Ocean for. I'm not even worth that!I think we get an update here Mondayish?So I met a chick on a social media site about a year ago. It wasn't a dating site, but I'm counting this as an iDate. We chitchatted for several months. Have texted, skyped, etc. She's flying in to hang out with me for a week. Should be interesting.
Some ####er, somewhere is nailing a chick from like Norway right now endlessly. Good for him
McGarnicle
Footballguy
Is it possible to install Tinder on one of those burner phones you can get at Walmart?
GOB
Footballguy
Absolutely. Its linked to your Facebook.Create a fake Facebook.
Sign up for Tinder.
Change logo of Tinder app to something else if you dont want people knowing it's Tinder
James Daulton
Footballguy
It's all fun and games until you wake up in a bathtub filled with ice. Then how much fun will you be having?Pretty sure his organ got harvested several timesOr he's dead and his organs have been harvested. I highly doubt he's worth flying over the ####### Atlantic Ocean for. I'm not even worth that!I think we get an update here Mondayish?So I met a chick on a social media site about a year ago. It wasn't a dating site, but I'm counting this as an iDate. We chitchatted for several months. Have texted, skyped, etc. She's flying in to hang out with me for a week. Should be interesting.
Some ####er, somewhere is nailing a chick from like Norway right now endlessly. Good for him
Bogart
Footballguy
Still more fun than being married.It's all fun and games until you wake up in a bathtub filled with ice. Then how much fun will you be having?Pretty sure his organ got harvested several timesOr he's dead and his organs have been harvested. I highly doubt he's worth flying over the ####### Atlantic Ocean for. I'm not even worth that!I think we get an update here Mondayish?So I met a chick on a social media site about a year ago. It wasn't a dating site, but I'm counting this as an iDate. We chitchatted for several months. Have texted, skyped, etc. She's flying in to hang out with me for a week. Should be interesting.
Some ####er, somewhere is nailing a chick from like Norway right now endlessly. Good for him
The market I live in is ranked in the 70's I think, so not some big huge dating pool like NYC. What sort of strategy should I have?
I went ahead and got a 3-month subscription to Match a couple days ago. Found a promo code online, so ended up paying $45 for 3 months.
offdee
Footballguy
Cut your teeth on OKCupid for Free for a few months...perfect your profile, polish your communications and dating game, plow through that bunch.
There will come a time when you keep basically seeing the same women over and over again in searches, and your thoughts on every pic/profile is:
1) yuck
2) talked to her and went nowhere
3) plowed her silly :shizeatinggrin:
When it comes to that point, then you're seasoned enough to move onto Match (pay site) and start the process all over again. Good luck!
There will come a time when you keep basically seeing the same women over and over again in searches, and your thoughts on every pic/profile is:
1) yuck
2) talked to her and went nowhere
3) plowed her silly :shizeatinggrin:
When it comes to that point, then you're seasoned enough to move onto Match (pay site) and start the process all over again. Good luck!
Thanks, offdee. I was on these sites a while back, before my last girlfriend, so I'm not exactly a newcomer. I've been working OKC and POF for the last couple of months, but with only one date to show for it. I think my confidence level is down a bit, and I'm really picky, so I just can't seem to find my stride. I've been getting a few messages on Match, but nothing exactly to write home about.
offdee
Footballguy
I'm sure it has a lot to do with a weak profile, possibly. A while back someone asked me to PM him my profile to use as an example for himself to start with....I just looked in my PMs and see it there still. If you are curious, let me know and Ill send it over to you.ETA: and at some level you need to be at least slightly good looking (or stop being so picky). If you're not easy on the eyes, I once read a technique of a great profile combined with your pic being just you holding a sign in front of your face with a random word on it (one of your personality strengths or just a funny word to make them laugh). No doubt you'll stand out and girls will click your profile just out of sheer curiosity.
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Well, I like to think I'm at least slightly good looking. I've dated some nice looking women in the past, so I know it's at least possible.
Sure, would love see your profile as an example. I know you've done well. But I also know you're a great looking guy with :style:
