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PBS Frontline : The Retirement Gamble, sorta Must See (1 Viewer)

Yeah, meant to be a joke.

I finished law school in 2010 and still have loans. IIRC, I could take 8500 a semester is subsidized, but haven't stayed on top of student loan info since then. Over 4 years, that's 61000. Just roughly, assuming you can make 5%, by maxing subsidized loans and then repaying on graduation (you actually have 6 months from grad date), that's 5K+ you could save yourself. (850+1742.50+2679.62)
Are subsidized loans what I use to call "Guaranteed Student Loans" when I was a kid or are they something different/more now a days?

 
My daughter is a rising senior and getting ready for college.

It looks like she will be going private and the expected total cost will be around $265k on average over the 4 years.

We will not be getting any financial aid.

Merit scholarships are a possibility if she does not get into her first choice of Brown (which does not offer any merit). I am not expecting she will get into Brown so the possibility of merit exists but for the sake of this discussion, assume $0 in merit.

We have saved up around $180k in her 529 plan.

*If I assume the $180k will not cover the total cost, what is the best way to withdraw?  Do I simply drain the 529 completely first before I send in our non 529 money or do I balance each year of some 529 money and some non 529 money?

*How do I actually withdraw the 529 money? Do I request a check be sent to me which I deposit and then write my own check to college or do I tell the 529 to send money directly to school?
What is she going to be studying?  Is there grad school on the horizon?  I just can't wrap my head around spending so much on 4 years of undergrad.

 
HSA is right near the top.  It has better tax privileges than any other tax sheltered account and should be at the top of your list.  Only reason it's #2 is due to matching monies.
Which makes it mildly irritating that some of us won't qualify. 

 
HSA is right near the top.  It has better tax privileges than any other tax sheltered account and should be at the top of your list.  Only reason it's #2 is due to matching monies.
Ok thanks.  I wanted to make sure I had those in the right order.

I still currently do not have any sort of Roth investments.  Once I get through my 90 day probationary period for my new job (knock on wood, ya never know) I will be setting up my investments for the start of 2017.  For the moment I am maxing out the 403b and that is it as far as investments.  Also stashing a little in savings.

If they keep me after the 90 days I get a 3k sign on bonus, so maybe I could use that and some saving to max out the Roth for 2016.  If I do go with the HSA, ideally I would like to max the 403b, max the HSA, and max the Roth.  I am just not sure if I can do ALL of that and keep up with all our bills with the rest of the take home money. 

 
Also just found out my new job has a 4 dollar an hour shift differential for working night shift.  Old job was 1 dollar.  A nice perk I wasn't even aware of since I will likely work quite a few night shifts throughout the year.  :excited: :moneybag:

 
What is she going to be studying?  Is there grad school on the horizon?  I just can't wrap my head around spending so much on 4 years of undergrad.
She wants do some sort of combination of animation and creative writing.  Will either end up in some sort of publishing field or a job as a story border type.  My wife and I are engineers so we can wrap our head around these things but we know we can't force her into something she is going to hate.

The costs seems relatively fixed for private schools these days.  No matter what private school we visit in New England, be it Ivy league or something lesser, they all seem to come in right around $63k for next year.

 
She wants do some sort of combination of animation and creative writing.  Will either end up in some sort of publishing field or a job as a story border type.  My wife and I are engineers so we can wrap our head around these things but we know we can't force her into something she is going to hate.

The costs seems relatively fixed for private schools these days.  No matter what private school we visit in New England, be it Ivy league or something lesser, they all seem to come in right around $63k for next year.
If you and your wife are retired, is there any way to game your distributions to make your FAFSA show a gross household income under 60K? The 529 is going to get included, so you can't pull that money out, but the colleges in NE often come through big on need if HH income is under 60K.

ETA--Sure a U Mass school isn't an option? The 529 should cover that and help with grad school, which she's going to need at some point.

 
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If you and your wife are retired, is there any way to game your distributions to make your FAFSA show a gross household income under 60K? The 529 is going to get included, so you can't pull that money out, but the colleges in NE often come through big on need if HH income is under 60K.

ETA--Sure a U Mass school isn't an option? The 529 should cover that and help with grad school, which she's going to need at some point.
we have tried to visit some of the bigger public schools, but she hated them.   She wants a small campus, which in NE typically means $.  We have the money so I don't really care too much, I just want her to find some where she likes.

My wife has filled out the sample forms some schools give you online for financial aid but I have not watched what she does.  I do know our income is very low but that our non retirement means (including our fully paid off house) tend to be high which is why we are not expecting any thing meaningful.  If we get anything, we are just going to consider it gravy.

 
Health Ins. is $700 a month for me,  had a baby in that last twelve months,  I wear contacts so there's another $400-500 a year,  Wife has a gym membership.

I think that's pretty reasonable..    it might be more like 10K this year.
You need to get yourself some lasik

 
Ok team: I fully funded a new Roth IRA (for year 2016) with Vanguard yesterday. I am now deciding on allocations. Let's assume I know very little about this. 

I'm planning to just go 4500 in a Vanguard total stock index and 1000 in a Vanguard total bond index. (I'm in my early 20s, figure this gives me a good balance)

Do those exist? Are they easy to pick out? I plan on ETF...is there a reason to go Mutual Funds? ETFs, as I understand, are typically lower expense ratio - which is basically how I plan to choose them. 

Any any helpful advice, thoughts, or suggestions? 

 
We have the money so I don't really care too much, I just want her to find some where she likes.
Well, you gotta spend it on something I suppose.

For me, $265,000 might represent 6-10 years worth of savings so I would be treating it with a bit more scrutiny, but I hope to one day be at the point where that amount of $$ matters a bit less!

 
Late to the party on this question for Dentist, but 12 grand a year for health and fitness?

And a general question for the crowd.  I know I have seen this somewhere on here but would be hard to find, and easy for one of you to answer.  Regarding the "order" of things to invest in (if you have a 403b through work), is this the correct route (assuming no debt other than house and car with low interest rate)?

1- 100% of company match for 403b

2- Max Roth IRA

3- Max 403b

If I am able to max both the 403b and roth IRA, what should come next?  I am still looking into my HSA option for 2017.  If I do decide to go with the HSA where would that fall into place?  Before or after any of the above listed items?

Also what else might I be missing and in what order should it all be?  TIA
2 and 3 depend on your situation.  If you are in a high tax bracket then your 2 and 3 are not in the correct order IMO.  If you are a low tax bracket then yes this is correct.  HSA depends on your financial situation too.  Honestly anyone who gives you a blanket list like this doesn't know what they're talking about.

If you're in the top tax bracket today and don't think you're going to be in the top tax bracket when you're retired you'd be dumb to max your roth before maxing your 403b.

 
Well, you gotta spend it on something I suppose.

For me, $265,000 might represent 6-10 years worth of savings so I would be treating it with a bit more scrutiny, but I hope to one day be at the point where that amount of $$ matters a bit less!
We have been saving for her college since she was in my wifes belly :).  

But we never considered a dime of the money in the 529 plan ours in any way in our assests or in any of our financial models.

  So instead of it looking like we are going to be spending $265kish of our assests, it is easier to think of it as spending closer to $80k which is the difference we will have to make up if she does not receive any grants or scholarships.   I think there is a better than 50% chance she will receive some decent scholarship money, so even that $80k will hopefully be less.  Keeping my fingers crossed.

 
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Bumping this to see if anyone has any insight...
I've done some research on both.  I think betterment is a better idea since Schwab keeps ~7% of your portfolio in cash.

Pretend you earn 7% return and have $100,000.  With betterment you are going to make 7K in a year and pay 250 in fees.  Meaning you're up 6750.

With Schwab you're going to make 6510 (93K x 1.07).  As the interest you earn increases you do even better with betterment.  That's using the .25% fee for betterment when at 100K you actually pay .15%.  But I want to try and be as fair to Schwab as I can.  And most of us are going to start below 100K and at the .25% fee.

This is before tax loss harvesting.  So assuming you can keep up a 7% rate of return over the long haul you'll do quite a bit better with betterment.

 
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*If I assume the $180k will not cover the total cost, what is the best way to withdraw?  Do I simply drain the 529 completely first before I send in our non 529 money or do I balance each year of some 529 money and some non 529 money?

*How do I actually withdraw the 529 money? Do I request a check be sent to me which I deposit and then write my own check to college or do I tell the 529 to send money directly to school?
I think the answer to the first questions depends on where the non 529 money is coming from.  If it is going to come from a retirement account or generate a significant capital gain, you will want to see how much taxable income you can add without losing the American Opportunity tax credit or pushing you into a higher bracket. 

Normally the 529 distribution can be sent to either the account owner (you) or the beneficiary (your daughter). I'm not sure if they will pay the school directly.  Whoever receives the money will receive a 1099-Q at the end of the year. Fun fact about 1099-Q, if the money is used for qualified expenses it does not get reported anywhere on your tax return so the IRS knows you received a distribution but has no way to tell if you used it all for education or just forgot to report it.

 
My daughter is a rising senior and getting ready for college.

It looks like she will be going private and the expected total cost will be around $265k on average over the 4 years.

We will not be getting any financial aid.

Merit scholarships are a possibility if she does not get into her first choice of Brown (which does not offer any merit). I am not expecting she will get into Brown so the possibility of merit exists but for the sake of this discussion, assume $0 in merit.

We have saved up around $180k in her 529 plan.

*If I assume the $180k will not cover the total cost, what is the best way to withdraw?  Do I simply drain the 529 completely first before I send in our non 529 money or do I balance each year of some 529 money and some non 529 money?

*How do I actually withdraw the 529 money? Do I request a check be sent to me which I deposit and then write my own check to college or do I tell the 529 to send money directly to school?
Unless her plan is to get into the top 1%, something is seriously wrong with this picture. Just invest the $180k for her and have her go to a cheaper college. Within 20 years she will have over a million in the bank if she just gets the average S&P yearly return. She won't even have to work after 45 if she adds to it during her 25 years working. I mean, at 45, she will be bringing in over to 200k for doing nothing.

 
I think the answer to the first questions depends on where the non 529 money is coming from.  If it is going to come from a retirement account or generate a significant capital gain, you will want to see how much taxable income you can add without losing the American Opportunity tax credit or pushing you into a higher bracket. 

Normally the 529 distribution can be sent to either the account owner (you) or the beneficiary (your daughter). I'm not sure if they will pay the school directly.  Whoever receives the money will receive a 1099-Q at the end of the year. Fun fact about 1099-Q, if the money is used for qualified expenses it does not get reported anywhere on your tax return so the IRS knows you received a distribution but has no way to tell if you used it all for education or just forgot to report it.
Thanks for the info.

The non 529 plan will be coming from non retirement assets/vehicles.

 
Ok team: I fully funded a new Roth IRA (for year 2016) with Vanguard yesterday. I am now deciding on allocations. Let's assume I know very little about this. 

I'm planning to just go 4500 in a Vanguard total stock index and 1000 in a Vanguard total bond index. (I'm in my early 20s, figure this gives me a good balance)

Do those exist? Are they easy to pick out? I plan on ETF...is there a reason to go Mutual Funds? ETFs, as I understand, are typically lower expense ratio - which is basically how I plan to choose them. 

Any any helpful advice, thoughts, or suggestions? 
I'd say, in your 20s, no bonds.

Maybe mostly the lowest cost stock index fund, one aimed at aggressive growth over value, a REIT, and an international index, again aiming for growth over value. 

And/or, put all/some of it into the Target Date 2065 fund. 

But, really, just getting started young is a great help no matter what you choose. 
I happen to agree but there are benefits to maintaining a more balanced approach.  And it really depends when you want to use the money, not just age (although age is usually a good guide). 

If you want to make it simple and like ETFs, just buy VTI - Vanguard Total Index although I'd probably split it something like 70% VTI, 30% VEU - Vanguard All-World ex-US

 
Does anyone have any recommendations for sources I can reference to start to educate myself on college grants that fall outside of the school merit's or financial aid program? 

I have read that there are many smaller grants that kids can apply for that can help out a bit financially. 

Have any of you guys who have been through this process used these types of grants for your kids?

 
Does anyone have any recommendations for sources I can reference to start to educate myself on college grants that fall outside of the school merit's or financial aid program? 

I have read that there are many smaller grants that kids can apply for that can help out a bit financially. 

Have any of you guys who have been through this process used these types of grants for your kids?
Some examples of places I got grants from to give you an idea:  Local church attended, high school athletics booster club, local social club, lawyer's office essay contest, and county alumni club of college I attended

 
Does anyone have any recommendations for sources I can reference to start to educate myself on college grants that fall outside of the school merit's or financial aid program? 

I have read that there are many smaller grants that kids can apply for that can help out a bit financially. 

Have any of you guys who have been through this process used these types of grants for your kids?
I was just here earlier today (use your own state, I'm in Alabama) or https://www.scholarships.com/, there are other sites but these are a good start.

 
Some examples of places I got grants from to give you an idea:  Local church attended, high school athletics booster club, local social club, lawyer's office essay contest, and county alumni club of college I attended
Step daughter is going into her freshman year.  This is where we got most of the non school grants.  She was also in NHS which gave her some leads on some other grants.

Reading Newlyretired situation makes me feel fantastic about her college situation.  Assuming she graduates on time, four years at a public institution.  She'll probably end up with about $35,000 in loans.  A small percentage paid for in grants, a small amount of 529 contributions, and her kicking butt working all summer and during the school year to pay for the rest.

 
Step daughter is going into her freshman year.  This is where we got most of the non school grants.  She was also in NHS which gave her some leads on some other grants.

Reading Newlyretired situation makes me feel fantastic about her college situation.  Assuming she graduates on time, four years at a public institution.  She'll probably end up with about $35,000 in loans.  A small percentage paid for in grants, a small amount of 529 contributions, and her kicking butt working all summer and during the school year to pay for the rest.
Yeah.  I saw a pricetag that high for private schools up north and knew I was going to stay in state and go the public route.  Since college was all on me, I had to shop around and work to get grants/better scholarships.  It taught me a lot of about money...

 
Unless her plan is to get into the top 1%, something is seriously wrong with this picture. Just invest the $180k for her and have her go to a cheaper college. Within 20 years she will have over a million in the bank if she just gets the average S&P yearly return. She won't even have to work after 45 if she adds to it during her 25 years working. I mean, at 45, she will be bringing in over to 200k for doing nothing.
Even a "cheap" college is going to cost close to 100k once you factor in room and board.  

 
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Even a "cheap" college is going to cost close to 100k once you factor in room and board.  
This is not correct, and is what these colleges hope you think.

Here's state schools and tuition

http://www.usnews.com/education/best-colleges/paying-for-college/articles/2014/12/18/where-to-find-the-highest-and-lowest-in-state-tuition-in-each-state

or another

https://trends.collegeboard.org/college-pricing/figures-tables/2015-16-state-tuition-and-fees-public-four-year-institutions-state-and-five-year-percentage

I figure for 4 years you are into it for $30-60K tuition plus fees, depending on which you choose.

Most uni's want you on campus that first year, so add another $10K all in for that year.  Past the first year the student can (and should) live offsite and cut costs in half

I would say you are more like $50-80K for state schools.  With some focus you can stay close to that $50K number.  If you are even smarter your student goes to CommCollege for two years, and now you can cut the costs down to $30K

 
This is not correct, and is what these colleges hope you think.

Here's state schools and tuition

http://www.usnews.com/education/best-colleges/paying-for-college/articles/2014/12/18/where-to-find-the-highest-and-lowest-in-state-tuition-in-each-state

or another

https://trends.collegeboard.org/college-pricing/figures-tables/2015-16-state-tuition-and-fees-public-four-year-institutions-state-and-five-year-percentage

I figure for 4 years you are into it for $30-60K tuition plus fees, depending on which you choose.

Most uni's want you on campus that first year, so add another $10K all in for that year.  Past the first year the student can (and should) live offsite and cut costs in half

I would say you are more like $50-80K for state schools.  With some focus you can stay close to that $50K number.  If you are even smarter your student goes to CommCollege for two years, and now you can cut the costs down to $30K
Does that include room and board?  That's like 12-15k per year. 

 
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  If you are even smarter your student goes to CommCollege for two years, and now you can cut the costs down to $30K
This I disagree with.

Maybe the community colleges are vastly different in different parts of the country.   But here, every time I see a parent or kid say they are going to do this...  it's always with the intent to goto a 4 year school and get a degree... but this almost never happens.

You're not in a good "dialed in" academic environment with liked minded kids shooting for a good degree in a comm. college setting.    It's setting yourself up to fail.

The price of a "real" college/university is worth it in almost all cases.   If you're not ready for real school, hit a trade program or just work.

 
As I noted, room and board only typically matters the first year when you are required to live on campus.  After that it is time to get a 4 BR craphole and pay $400/month and get that college experience you are talking about, figure out how to eat on another $200-300 / month.   None of my estimate (other than perhaps the community college for two years) assumes living at home.

Quite the strawman with the living at 50 and at home though, hard to argue against that!

 
This I disagree with.

Maybe the community colleges are vastly different in different parts of the country.   But here, every time I see a parent or kid say they are going to do this...  it's always with the intent to goto a 4 year school and get a degree... but this almost never happens.

You're not in a good "dialed in" academic environment with liked minded kids shooting for a good degree in a comm. college setting.    It's setting yourself up to fail.

The price of a "real" college/university is worth it in almost all cases.   If you're not ready for real school, hit a trade program or just work.
How many data points you have in your study?

I knew a few kids that did this in a top engineering school I went, and they were all well accomplished and have gone on to great things.  We are coming at it from two perspectives, but it's actually one of the few 'good deals' left for college.  You can get great teaching at CC, smaller classes, much cheaper.  Thinking back to college, sitting in a huge lecture hall for freshman Physics and Chemistry was not the times I remember really being challenged or inspired

 
This I disagree with.

Maybe the community colleges are vastly different in different parts of the country.   But here, every time I see a parent or kid say they are going to do this...  it's always with the intent to goto a 4 year school and get a degree... but this almost never happens.

You're not in a good "dialed in" academic environment with liked minded kids shooting for a good degree in a comm. college setting.    It's setting yourself up to fail.

The price of a "real" college/university is worth it in almost all cases.   If you're not ready for real school, hit a trade program or just work.
It's a risk that the kid won't transfer or gets caught up in life outside of college which impacts a decision not to graduate from a better school, but for some kids it's a wise move.  Like most things, it's up to the individual.  Right now, if I were to guess, I'd guess my 13yo does the community college routine first then moves on to Bama or another school.  (obviously it's too early to know what he'll do)

As I noted, room and board only typically matters the first year when you are required to live on campus.  After that it is time to get a 4 BR craphole and pay $400/month and get that college experience you are talking about, figure out how to eat on another $200-300 / month.   None of my estimate (other than perhaps the community college for two years) assumes living at home.

Quite the strawman with the living at 50 and at home though, hard to argue against that!
I think that's a tad low (I paid almost double that 20 years ago - but then I actually had some money), but if you're living in a true craphole maybe it's right. 

 
This I disagree with.

Maybe the community colleges are vastly different in different parts of the country.   But here, every time I see a parent or kid say they are going to do this...  it's always with the intent to goto a 4 year school and get a degree... but this almost never happens.

You're not in a good "dialed in" academic environment with liked minded kids shooting for a good degree in a comm. college setting.    It's setting yourself up to fail.

The price of a "real" college/university is worth it in almost all cases.   If you're not ready for real school, hit a trade program or just work.
Agree.  The better move is to go to a good 4-year college, but have your kid take a couple classes over the summer at your community college and transfer the credits.  When I was in college the kids who went to our community college were 90+% the bozos who barely got through high school.

 
here at Umass you still pay plenty when you add every thing up as an instate student

Tuition: 14.5k

Room: 6k

Meals: 5.3k

Books: 1k
My wife went to UMass as well.  The thing is, off-campus living is cheap.  You shouldn't take that $11.3K and multiply by four, it really only applies when you are 'forced' to live on campus.  You can easily cut that in half

Here's your apt for example http://westernmass.craigslist.org/sub/5721959551.html (granted, you would have to live with a Bernie supporter but you are in Western Mass).  Your "Room" budget just got chopped in half

 
I went to Ohio State which is lecture hall city for many classes (or at least the lecture part of the classes).  I also went to a CC to get the additional credit hours to sit for the CPA exam, so I have seen both sides of this.  The quality of student at OSU was far above that at the CC.  Sure, there are standouts at CC's and slackers at big schools, but on average the students were much more engaged at the larger schools.  Try having a classroom discussion, when there are only 8 kids in the class, and you were the only one who did the reading.  Makes for a pretty bad experience.

 
How many data points you have in your study?

I knew a few kids that did this in a top engineering school I went, and they were all well accomplished and have gone on to great things.  We are coming at it from two perspectives, but it's actually one of the few 'good deals' left for college.  You can get great teaching at CC, smaller classes, much cheaper.  Thinking back to college, sitting in a huge lecture hall for freshman Physics and Chemistry was not the times I remember really being challenged or inspired


A few hundred, I'd say.   Again, maybe the comm. colleges here suck and are great in your area.

But kid after kid says they are going to comm. college.   I see them years later, and 95+% of them never made it to that back 2 years to get a degree... they ended up just working and then getting promoted to some dead end job at "insert big box store here" and are condemned to a 30K/yr existence.

Here, comm. college is free for two years...  so with the "get what you pay for" component.. maybe it's the comm. college as much as the student... that part I don't know.

No question sitting in freshman chem and physics in a lecture hall was terrible.   But the value came when I was studying/interacting with those students who were dialed in to pass the class to move on to dental school/med school/pharm school, etc. 

 
CommCollege might not be the answer, but the numbers show clearly you don't need to spend $100K even if paying full freight.  $50-$80K will get you through your state school, and you can take steps to keep it on the low end of that

 
There is no one right decision for every kid.  You just need to do your best with your specific child needs, assuming you want to and have the means to help.

What works for one kid might be a disaster for another and vice versa.

 
A few hundred, I'd say.   Again, maybe the comm. colleges here suck and are great in your area.

But kid after kid says they are going to comm. college.   I see them years later, and 95+% of them never made it to that back 2 years to get a degree... they ended up just working and then getting promoted to some dead end job at "insert big box store here" and are condemned to a 30K/yr existence.

Here, comm. college is free for two years...  so with the "get what you pay for" component.. maybe it's the comm. college as much as the student... that part I don't know.

No question sitting in freshman chem and physics in a lecture hall was terrible.   But the value came when I was studying/interacting with those students who were dialed in to pass the class to move on to dental school/med school/pharm school, etc. 
Let's first acknowledge that you did not track a few hundred students, and using terms like 95% is ridiculous.

Here's some actual stats

https://www.nsf.gov/nsb/sei/edTool/data/college-05.html

Looks like 1/4 or 1/5 transfer into 4 yr programs, which feels about right.  For the motivated student I think saving $25K-40K or whatever it might be is a big win, but it would depend on the right community college and the right student

Putting the question of Community College aside, though, this was more about spending $100K or more as a 'requirement' for a 4 yr degree

 
A few hundred, I'd say.   Again, maybe the comm. colleges here suck and are great in your area.

But kid after kid says they are going to comm. college.   I see them years later, and 95+% of them never made it to that back 2 years to get a degree... they ended up just working and then getting promoted to some dead end job at "insert big box store here" and are condemned to a 30K/yr existence.

Here, comm. college is free for two years...  so with the "get what you pay for" component.. maybe it's the comm. college as much as the student... that part I don't know.

No question sitting in freshman chem and physics in a lecture hall was terrible.   But the value came when I was studying/interacting with those students who were dialed in to pass the class to move on to dental school/med school/pharm school, etc. 
not to mention the parties and social life are generally a lot better at the big schools than CC. 

 
This is not correct, and is what these colleges hope you think.

Here's state schools and tuition

http://www.usnews.com/education/best-colleges/paying-for-college/articles/2014/12/18/where-to-find-the-highest-and-lowest-in-state-tuition-in-each-state

or another

https://trends.collegeboard.org/college-pricing/figures-tables/2015-16-state-tuition-and-fees-public-four-year-institutions-state-and-five-year-percentage

I figure for 4 years you are into it for $30-60K tuition plus fees, depending on which you choose.

Most uni's want you on campus that first year, so add another $10K all in for that year.  Past the first year the student can (and should) live offsite and cut costs in half

I would say you are more like $50-80K for state schools.  With some focus you can stay close to that $50K number.  If you are even smarter your student goes to CommCollege for two years, and now you can cut the costs down to $30K
So assuming you go the cheapest route on everything (but don't go to community college).  We'll say 10K/year so 40K (since there are at least a few states SC/Bama/Illinois (I'm sure more since I didn't go through whole list) that you need about 10K for cheapest state school.  Add another 35K room and board.  That's 10K year 1 and an additional 700/month (36 months).  Not to mention some states it's a whole lot harder to hit those numbers so I bet we'd have 20-25 states that this would be pretty close to the minimum you could do it (again assuming no community college).  So 75K for state school.  Honestly that's cheaper than I thought it was.  If you do CC you can drop it to around 33K room/board + 20K (final 2 years) + 6000 ($100x60 credit hours).  Where is my math wrong because I'm getting 60K at CC?

 
I assumed living at home for CC.  I have tuition at like $3-4K for CC.  So first two years are < $10K.  You probably need another $30K for those final two years at state school though, so I was low on my initial $30K number.

 
Count me in the camp that thinks it's insane to spend close to $300k (or even $200k) on a child's college. I think it's smarter to encourage them to stay in state and to possibly....gasp....work a little bit while in college. 

Whatever money is left over would be very useful as a down payment on their first home.

 
I was going to criticize the guy for not finding a way to talk his daughter out of spending $265K on a private undergrad degree but then I realized his name is NewlyRetired and I'm thinking he has a pretty solid handle on the situation. 

 
I was going to criticize the guy for not finding a way to talk his daughter out of spending $265K on a private undergrad degree but then I realized his name is NewlyRetired and I'm thinking he has a pretty solid handle on the situation. 
I am trying.  I know it is easy to criticize but every situation different.  While I am more than happy to try and save some money, money is not a huge concern for us.

My daughter has some personal issues that we also have to deal with when thinking of what type of school she could survive at which is part of why we are looking at the quieter smaller schools near us.

The money is not our issue, the major she wants is.  I come from a family of engineers (as does my wife) so I really only understand the math and science based majors.  The fact that she wants to be a writer and/or editor is hard for me to wrap my head around in terms of what it means for job prospects some day.

But she is such a good writer (has won multiple awards in high school) and spends 99% of her free time either writing her own stories or editing others stories it is hard for me to crush something that she loves.  She is going to try and get her first novella published next year.

 
here at Umass you still pay plenty when you add every thing up as an instate student

Tuition: 14.5k

Room: 6k

Meals: 5.3k

Books: 1k
Meal plans are one of the biggest scams of college IMO.  They required freshman to have meal-plans if you lived on campus at South Carolina.  I had enough credits to technically be a sophomore in the system, so I got out of that for the second semester and saved tons of money with sandwiches and Chunky's soup.

 
I am trying.  I know it is easy to criticize but every situation different.  While I am more than happy to try and save some money, money is not a huge concern for us.

My daughter has some personal issues that we also have to deal with when thinking of what type of school she could survive at which is part of why we are looking at the quieter smaller schools near us.

The money is not our issue, the major she wants is.  I come from a family of engineers (as does my wife) so I really only understand the math and science based majors.  The fact that she wants to be a writer and/or editor is hard for me to wrap my head around in terms of what it means for job prospects some day.

But she is such a good writer (has won multiple awards in high school) and spends 99% of her free time either writing her own stories or editing others stories it is hard for me to crush something that she loves.  She is going to try and get her first novella published next year.
Was just joking on the "criticize" part...seems like you're doing everything you can for her and supporting her in what she wants to do. If she was taking on $265K in debt to pursue this I'm guessing it would be a different situation.

Nothing wrong with supporting her dream and encouraging it but also having a good discussion on taking other courses that could help with getting a job one day or pivot into another degree if she changes her mind. I'm sure a lot of people "make it" in writing but don't have the financial gains to show from it anywhere near immediately. 

 

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