No idea how I'm getting around. I haven't gotten that far yet. Something I need to think about I guess.
I'm not scheduled on the family trip yet. My Aunt is a world traveller for leisure and as a career and used their travel agent to put the family trip together. I will talk to her tonight about ideas and how to get around etc.
Thanks for all the help and input thus far. The more you guys talk, the more informed a decision I can make. (I never would have thought about "how do I get around" because I was just thinking "well there is a train or something I hear and I'm sure I can get a cab"). I have ZERO European travel experience.
Rent a car if you go to southern france. You want to be able to drive around. I would not go to Nice, etc... Monaco is a cool spot but unless you are going to gamble would rather visit the french countryside.
Is there a way to both gamble and do wine country and/or beaches (weather permitting)?
Not sure how much time you have but you could go to Nice and visit Cannes and Monacco (all really close together) where gambling and beaches all fit together. However, in May it is like 70 and really not beach wheather which is way I would not go to that area in May. The heart of provenance is about 2 hour drive from Nice according to Google Maps if you want to go to both. Provenance is really more of a food mecca then wine country though the wine is great.
True french wine country where the best places to go are the vineyards are to far out of your way (e.g. Burgundy or Bordeoux). My best advice is not to feel rushed wherever you go and doing beach towns and french countryside might be to much if you only have 2 or 3 days. Also, Tuscanny countrside is another great location so if you cut out a trip to France and go to Florence stay in the small towns in addition to a night in Florence and take it slow. Also, Tuscanny is some great wine country. Others might feel differently but if I had to rate your options it would go like this.
1A. Florence
1B. Provenance
3. Tuscanny
4. Nice, Cannes, Monacco
If I included Rome on the list I would put it below Tuscanny and above Nice, etc... I am not a huge Rome fan and Florence is my favorite city in Italy.
Dissent re: the bold. I'd recommend Rhone over any other wine region in France other than Burgundy for visitors interested in food, wine, and site seeing (caveat, I've not been to Alsace, which I here is exceptional as well). Burgundy is a clear #1 IMHO, but Rhone is a close second, and both well ahead of Bordeaux for the average visitor. Avignon and Chateauneuf du Pape are amazing, from the
galets in the vineyards to the history in Avignon. On the way from Avignon to Paris, Lyon and Cote Rotie are easy stops with great food, world class wines, stunning scenery (the slopes of Cote Rotie are beautiful) and it's enough off the beaten path that it's a wonderful experience. The inns and the restaurants of the Rhone Valley were some of my favorite memories of traveling in France.