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Stable life, meet college flame (1 Viewer)

Ask your wife if she's happy in the marriage. Then tell you how you feel. Get her side first.

In the mean time, leave Buffy McBigmuffins alone!

 
cstu said:
Steve Tasker said:
Coeur de Lion said:
Also, this girl was/is that hot, plus super cool, plus OP had this "deep connection," and not only was there no hooking up in college, but he let her fall totally off of the map for 15 years? Yeah, OK.
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This is what still confuses me, too. I get the mindset of "don't want a girlfriend right now" while you're in college, but if this girl is as amazing as OP describes and they were truly "inseparable" friends....you just let that girl totally fall off the map and lose contact with her for 15 years?
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Were you ever in college? Happens all the time.
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What happens all the time? I totally get the "play the field" angle, but then why not just bone the hot cool chick you hang out with? I also might get the "not going to bone a good friend and screw that up" angle, but that's pretty uncommonly mature for college kids if the spark is there. And if she's that good a friend, zero contact after college is a big stretch. It's the combination of the three that sounds like BS.

If a girl was DTF when I was in my late teens / early 20s, it was on. Friend, part of the group, friend's sister, didn't much matter during the years when most of us thought exclusively with the little head. Good friend's serious ex was really the only completely "hands off" type situation -- and even that wasn't a 100% deal breaker.

Plus, the way the OP instantly was down for a weekend of debauchery and possibly throwing away his marriage strongly suggests that he's been carrying the torch all this time to me after years of pining for her BITD.

Seriously, who remembers or cares about a chick you chose NOT TO get with after 15 years? The "one that got away" sure. But not one that you took a willing pass on.

 
Coeur de Lion said:
Plus, the way the OP instantly was down for a weekend of debauchery and possibly throwing away his marriage strongly suggests that he's been carrying the torch all this time to me after years of pining for her BITD.
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mammaries, like the corners of his mind... misty water colored mammaries.. of the way they were..

 
Coeur de Lion said:
cstu said:
Steve Tasker said:
Coeur de Lion said:
Also, this girl was/is that hot, plus super cool, plus OP had this "deep connection," and not only was there no hooking up in college, but he let her fall totally off of the map for 15 years? Yeah, OK.
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This is what still confuses me, too. I get the mindset of "don't want a girlfriend right now" while you're in college, but if this girl is as amazing as OP describes and they were truly "inseparable" friends....you just let that girl totally fall off the map and lose contact with her for 15 years?
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Were you ever in college? Happens all the time.
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What happens all the time? I totally get the "play the field" angle, but then why not just bone the hot cool chick you hang out with? I also might get the "not going to bone a good friend and screw that up" angle, but that's pretty uncommonly mature for college kids if the spark is there. And if she's that good a friend, zero contact after college is a big stretch. It's the combination of the three that sounds like BS.

If a girl was DTF when I was in my late teens / early 20s, it was on. Friend, part of the group, friend's sister, didn't much matter during the years when most of us thought exclusively with the little head. Good friend's serious ex was really the only completely "hands off" type situation -- and even that wasn't a 100% deal breaker.

Plus, the way the OP instantly was down for a weekend of debauchery and possibly throwing away his marriage strongly suggests that he's been carrying the torch all this time to me after years of pining for her BITD.

Seriously, who remembers or cares about a chick you chose NOT TO get with after 15 years? The "one that got away" sure. But not one that you took a willing pass on.
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:goodposting:

This guy was such a ladies man and had so many options that he passed on a gorgeous woman he had this magical compatibility with and who possessed 32f's and instead married a woman with whom he had very little sexual compatibility...? Makes no sense.

 
Coeur de Lion said:
cstu said:
Steve Tasker said:
Coeur de Lion said:
Also, this girl was/is that hot, plus super cool, plus OP had this "deep connection," and not only was there no hooking up in college, but he let her fall totally off of the map for 15 years? Yeah, OK.
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This is what still confuses me, too. I get the mindset of "don't want a girlfriend right now" while you're in college, but if this girl is as amazing as OP describes and they were truly "inseparable" friends....you just let that girl totally fall off the map and lose contact with her for 15 years?
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Were you ever in college? Happens all the time.
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What happens all the time? I totally get the "play the field" angle, but then why not just bone the hot cool chick you hang out with? I also might get the "not going to bone a good friend and screw that up" angle, but that's pretty uncommonly mature for college kids if the spark is there. And if she's that good a friend, zero contact after college is a big stretch. It's the combination of the three that sounds like BS.

If a girl was DTF when I was in my late teens / early 20s, it was on. Friend, part of the group, friend's sister, didn't much matter during the years when most of us thought exclusively with the little head. Good friend's serious ex was really the only completely "hands off" type situation -- and even that wasn't a 100% deal breaker.

Plus, the way the OP instantly was down for a weekend of debauchery and possibly throwing away his marriage strongly suggests that he's been carrying the torch all this time to me after years of pining for her BITD.

Seriously, who remembers or cares about a chick you chose NOT TO get with after 15 years? The "one that got away" sure. But not one that you took a willing pass on.
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The friend thing threw me off, too. Unless he was being friend-zoned by this chick for years but is too proud to admit it. And now she's trying to convince him she liked him all along because she suddenly needs support and knows he's still interested.

Seriously, what kind of guy doesn't sleep with his hot female friends in college? He'd have us believe circumstances stood in the way of a friendly shagging but his wedding vows were malleable on the matter?

 
Are we just seeing the titt of the iceberg here? What if our OP just starts banging random strange?

 
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pantagrapher said:
Al O said:
pantagrapher said:
Seriously, what kind of guy doesn't sleep with his hot female friends in college?
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Hot wasn't a prerequisite for me.
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:bag:

same here
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That's three of us. Don't think I (or pretty much anyone I know actually) passed on sex at that age, period. Except when I had a GF of course, but young + horny + booze and drugs flowing = banging pretty much anything with a ######. :shudder: @ some of the gnarly chicks I slept with in college while wasted.

 
I'd love to see things work out with semen mitts. Even though it was crappy what he did to his wife, hopefully things work out. I, for one, am jealous of the melons.

 
The friend thing threw me off, too. Unless he was being friend-zoned by this chick for years but is too proud to admit it. And now she's trying to convince him she liked him all along because she suddenly needs support and knows he's still interested.

Seriously, what kind of guy doesn't sleep with his hot female friends in college? He'd have us believe circumstances stood in the way of a friendly shagging but his wedding vows were malleable on the matter?
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My guess.

 
sublimeone said:
seahawk 17 said:
Godsbrother said:
saintsfan said:
I've read things on this board about reasons why marriages fall apart and sometimes, it's for the absolute best. The marriage has become a bad thing for both parties and for the kids. Mental health issues. Infidelity. Trust issues. Drugs. Whatever.

But what disturbs me about this, assuming the OP isn't fishing, is the casualness. I mean, when you step up to the preacher or justice of the peace and you say "for better or worse, in sickness and in health, forsaking all others, AS LONG AS YOU BOTH SHALL LIVE." That doesn't mean, "until I get a little bored and a hot piece of ### that I have always been attracted to comes around."

I mean, come on. Doesn't your vow mean anything??
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A vow is supposed to be a sacred promise made to your spouse in front of God (if you believe) and everyone at the wedding. When you cheat you are telling everyone your word doesn't mean a damn thing.

The scary thing about it is that Miss Sweet Melons knows the OP is a piece of crap and was willing to help. This is a big red flag about her character. Then again they both suck so they deserve each other.
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I love when people post religious beliefs, and then follow it up with name calling and judgment.

One example of why people think religion is a joke.
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I love when the anti-religion zealots go into full attack mode at the slightest mention of "God."
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I'll have an order of fries with a side of weak sauce.

 
Couple of things I wanted to note. I don't think it is in any way odd that someone can have a close attraction/bond/connection with a member of the opposite sex while in college and then lose touch or drift apart. It ain't like we all had facebook or even email to stay in touch with peeps. You leave college, move on , etc. Nothing at all hard to believe in my opinion.

I also do not find it hard to believe that he was attracted to this person but didn't sleep with them. I was an idiot in college and found myself in a long distance relationship and passed up a lot of poon...much of which was throwing itself at me or quite easy for me to take if I had just made a move. God I was an idiot.

I also have no problem believing that it is possible for two people to have a connection and due to bad timing in life...that it simply does not work. Nor do I have a hard time believing that two people can reconnect and reignite that flame and make it work. I have heard plenty of stories of people who reconnected and lived happily ever after, etc.

Additionally, I don't by the argument that because the flame decided to sleep with a married man that she will cheat on him.

With all that said, just because it is possible or plausible doesn't mean that there aren't warning signs or pitfalls one should consider. OP needs to take a good hard look at his life and figure out if he really wants to stay married. Everything else is moot and pointless until that question is answered.

 
In the old days, this could have been an Otis story, but without the marriage and specifics on the boobs.

Come to think of it, this is nothing like an old Otis story.

 
Henry Ford said:
Penguin said:
Quez said:
Did the OP ever come back? If so we are going to need more details about the secs.
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I think he left because some people were hitting too close to home
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Maybe someone who knows him mentioned this thread to his wife.
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Or the rush of new sex and breasts the size of lawn bags wore off and reality set in: new commitment, stepfatherhood, the misery of divorce and other life-changing decisions (where will he and long-distance flame live?) vs. the comfortable, unglamourous routine of marriage.

 
pantagrapher said:
Henry Ford said:
Penguin said:
Quez said:
Did the OP ever come back? If so we are going to need more details about the secs.
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I think he left because some people were hitting too close to home
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Maybe someone who knows him mentioned this thread to his wife.
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Or the rush of new sex and breasts the size of lawn bags wore off and reality set in: new commitment, stepfatherhood, the misery of divorce and other life-changing decisions (where will he and long-distance flame live?) vs. the comfortable, unglamourous routine of marriage.
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I wish I had a million likes to give this.

 
sublimeone said:
Coeur de Lion said:
cstu said:
Steve Tasker said:
Coeur de Lion said:
Also, this girl was/is that hot, plus super cool, plus OP had this "deep connection," and not only was there no hooking up in college, but he let her fall totally off of the map for 15 years? Yeah, OK.
Click to expand...
This is what still confuses me, too. I get the mindset of "don't want a girlfriend right now" while you're in college, but if this girl is as amazing as OP describes and they were truly "inseparable" friends....you just let that girl totally fall off the map and lose contact with her for 15 years?
Click to expand...
Were you ever in college? Happens all the time.
Click to expand...
What happens all the time? I totally get the "play the field" angle, but then why not just bone the hot cool chick you hang out with? I also might get the "not going to bone a good friend and screw that up" angle, but that's pretty uncommonly mature for college kids if the spark is there. And if she's that good a friend, zero contact after college is a big stretch. It's the combination of the three that sounds like BS.

If a girl was DTF when I was in my late teens / early 20s, it was on. Friend, part of the group, friend's sister, didn't much matter during the years when most of us thought exclusively with the little head. Good friend's serious ex was really the only completely "hands off" type situation -- and even that wasn't a 100% deal breaker.

Plus, the way the OP instantly was down for a weekend of debauchery and possibly throwing away his marriage strongly suggests that he's been carrying the torch all this time to me after years of pining for her BITD.

Seriously, who remembers or cares about a chick you chose NOT TO get with after 15 years? The "one that got away" sure. But not one that you took a willing pass on.
Click to expand...
:goodposting:

This guy was such a ladies man and had so many options that he passed on a gorgeous woman he had this magical compatibility with and who possessed 32f's and instead married a woman with whom he had very little sexual compatibility...? Makes no sense.
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Sometimes you have to throw out reality in order to be entertained. The back story makes no sense. Look past that and enjoy the movie.

 
OP better hope that Mammary Lane doesn't have a HS flame. or an elementary school flame or a work flame. Betty Boob is likely lining up all takers to father up the kids.

 
I hope the OP comes back one day and updates this thread. It will be interesting to hear if everyone's prognosis of doom&gloom comes true, if he lives happily ever after ever with Princess Tittyballs, or if he rekindles things with wifeypoo.

 
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moleculo said:
I hope the OP comes back one day and updates this thread. It will be interesting to hear if everyone's prognosis of doom&gloom comes true, if he lives happily ever after ever with Princess Tittyballs, or if he rekindles things with wifeypoo.
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Or maybe the wife is into Miss Sweet Melons and the OP will live a happy life as a polygamist.

 
Godsbrother said:
moleculo said:
I hope the OP comes back one day and updates this thread. It will be interesting to hear if everyone's prognosis of doom&gloom comes true, if he lives happily ever after ever with Princess Tittyballs, or if he rekindles things with wifeypoo.
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Or maybe the wife is into Miss Sweet Melons and the OP will live a happy life as a polygamist.
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most likely scenario according to several videos I've recently seen.

 
Yeah, Ms. Tiger Woods' Ball Washer is definitely getting hammered from multiple angles, she's not just into you only

 
this reminds me of another song...

Counting all the #######s in the room

I'm definitely not alone, I'm not alo-o-o-one

You're a liar, you're a cheater, you're a fool

Well that's just like me, ooh-ooh, and I know you too

Mr. Perfect don't exist my little friend

and I tell you that again

and I'd do it again

Counting all the #######s in the room

I'm definitely not alone, I'm not alo-o-o-one ZAH!!!!! :headbang:

 
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