This thread reaffirms the decision I made TODAY with my better half. We are getting married in July and have been semi-house hunting (looking at stuff but not diving into it seriously). I took a step back last night and realized, why are we rushing to buy a house when our current situation is great. We are living in my late grandfather's house (small cape owned by my mother and her brother, with great access to NYC) and only pay the taxes, nothing else. Although Bergen County, NJ taxes suck, we are very close to earning good money.
If we stay put until we have at least a kid, we would be sitting pretty for the long term. We would eventually move because the schools here are not great, but if we are able to save nearly enough to buy a house in cash, why wouldn't we? We then could save for the future kid's college fund, retirement, etc. In short, I won't rush into anything so I can be in a similar situation as TF.
FWIW, I am 32 and my fiance is 28. I'm okay with staying 3-5 years and then buying the exact house I want. Congrats TF