Pretty simple poll that gets to the heart of when abortions should be allowed (if ever) and under what circumstances should there be exceptions.
Love ya, GB, but you always want to brand things as "simple" when, as is often the case with abortion, they are far more complex than they might appear. That said, I still think this was a very good poll, because it made me think through some things in a way I hadn't previously.
On a personal level, I've never had to deal with my partner or anyone close to me deciding on an abortion (although I know lots of women who had abortions before I knew them, and I'm sure plenty of others who had them while I knew them but never told me; I feel zero judgment toward any of those women). My wife and I have two sons and aren't planning on having any more kids, so I would hope I'll never have to be involved in making that decision. But let's imagine a hypothetical where I do. I think I would be profoundly uncomfortable no matter what I decided, but ultimately would be OK with terminating a pregnancy pre-viability, and after that point, I can't imagine any reason we would want to do it beyond a profound health threat to the mother and/or fetus.*
Legally speaking, what your poll drove home was how completely inappropriate it feels for the government to be making these distinctions. It's OK if there's a 30% risk of death but not if it's 27%? Do you go before some government review board that determines if your risk is high enough to warrant your abortion? And of course, all of this assumes enforcement is an exact science. No idea if this is true, but I read a piece this weekend that claimed pregnant Polish women with cancer have been denied chemo because doctors worried that if it harmed the fetus, they could be charged under the country's anti-abortion laws. I worry about ER doctors who have to make split-second decisions hesitating to order what they would otherwise consider a necessary treatment. I worry about women dealing with the profound loss of a miscarriage being aggressively questioned about how they or their doctor handled it.
I get that government frequently has to make these sorts of crass calculations (side note: did you know that the reason there are no seatbelts in school buses is because governments have determined that annual deaths are low enough that the financial costs those deaths impose on society are less than the cost of installing seatbelts across the entire fleet?) And maybe in that spirit, it does ultimately make sense to draw some sort of boundaries. But my visceral response is that I want the government as far away from those decisions as possible.
* Just remembered the story of a friend who was going through a rough patch in her marriage when she found out she was pregnant with twins. At some point during the pregnancy (no idea how many weeks), her husband told her he was leaving her for another woman. There was nothing physically wrong with her, but she was a complete wreck and felt thoroughly unequipped to raise children. Can I honestly say I would be in favor of a law that prevented her from terminating the pregnancy? Man, I don't know.