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***Official*** FFA iDating Thread (1 Viewer)
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Keerock
Footballguy
FYPLook at me i date a KoreanNot at all. It's not so much a racial thing as it is a sick-and-tired of it thing.
My girl is half korean... took her for sushi on our first date. I went with seaweed salad, softshell crab roll, and beef tataki just to mess with her.
12 years later... we still go for sushi 2-3x a month. Not all asian cultures are sushi-centric.(tell her i said herro by the way)
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Major
Footballguy
Sushi is always a good choice whether or not your date is Oriental. Clean food that is relatively light. Add a few bottles of sake to the mix and youre likely going for drinks after #pantiesdrop
I'd avoid heavy or messy food. No steak/red wine or eating stuff like tacos (the pink variety are fine).
I'd avoid heavy or messy food. No steak/red wine or eating stuff like tacos (the pink variety are fine).
Bogart
Footballguy
Breaking this rule tonight as we are going for Mexican. Might just stick with nachos and margaritas.
offdee
Footballguy
Shtick? Wine is perfectly acceptable and probably preferred most of the time.
And all of this dinner stuff on dates #1 and #2 is amateur hour. First 2 dates should be drinks only. Date 3+ (if they make it that far) is when you start to go into dinner territory.
Doctor Detroit
Please remove your headgear
Jesus Christ, don't listen to Kenny Powers.Having a good working knowledge of types of sushi (sashimi, nigiri, maki, etc), components of sushi (nori, roe, types of fish, etc), types of sake (hot aka garbage, vs nice cold unfiltered sake like Nigori, Snow Beauty, etc), and an overall knowledge of protocol/traditions make for compelling conversation and can impart some perceived worldliness/value in the eyes of most women. Most know they like it.. but don't know a ton of detail.
Of course you have to be able to pull it off with some charisma... and not come off as some sushi-tool putting on a clinic
saintfool
Dead sexy
and this is her baby?Disco Stu said:I'd be more concerned that the movie is Frozen, and she's asking you to babysit so she can also go on a date.I don't know man, I think I would steer clear. Or if you do see her again, I wouldn't go to their house. You hear these stories all the time, husband is hiding the closet, attacks the dude, ties him down and cornholes the living #### out of him while the wife records it all on video.That's the kind of stuff I do NOT miss about dating.Having dinner with married chick tonight. Schedules have been off the last week or so. She also asked if I want to come to her house on Saturday night for pizza and a movie while her husband is out on a date.
saintfool
Dead sexy
(HULK)
(Smash)
Well, I still take my wife to comedy clubs, so no. Also, I'm under 40, so no. But lol nonetheless.
Village Idiot
Pokerguy
Keerock said:FYPETA: jk GB[sbonomo said:Look at me i date a Korean" post="17101979" timestamp="1408042954"]
EYLive said:Greggity said:
My girl is half korean... took her for sushi on our first date. I went with seaweed salad, softshell crab roll, and beef tataki just to mess with her.
12 years later... we still go for sushi 2-3x a month. Not all asian cultures are sushi-centric.
Icon's GF tricked me when she answered the phone.
She had no accent.
It's probably a trick like Elton john sounding American only when he sings.
Joe T
Footballguy
Just got a text from this number:
"Who is this? Because you tested me before but I didn't answer"
not sure how to respond here.
sbonomo
Footballguy
Ask if it wants to go on a naked date?Just got a text from this number:
"Who is this? Because you tested me before but I didn't answer"
not sure how to respond here.
coyote5
Footballguy
Test? If a train headed east at 20 miles an hour...Just got a text from this number:
"Who is this? Because you tested me before but I didn't answer"
not sure how to respond here.
Re: Oriental
My best friend and ex was Chinese.
I once was dropping her off for work and getting her something to eat. I forget what the context was but I used the word ORIENTAL. I later apologized and said something about how I had heard that that term was offensive.
She laughed, said that I was misinformed and it was not the least bit objectionable.
My best friend and ex was Chinese.
I once was dropping her off for work and getting her something to eat. I forget what the context was but I used the word ORIENTAL. I later apologized and said something about how I had heard that that term was offensive.
She laughed, said that I was misinformed and it was not the least bit objectionable.
i guess it's time to try match and pay for it.
although, i am hindered by my lack of height (only 5-7) and a lot of the profiles i looked at of women 5-2 to 5-4 all wanted someone 6-0 tall at least
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Insoxicated
Look at me i date a Korean
My girl is half korean... took her for sushi on our first date. I went with seaweed salad, softshell crab roll, and beef tataki just to mess with her.
12 years later... we still go for sushi 2-3x a month. Not all asian cultures are sushi-centric.
She said hey and looks forward to seeing you guys again next year!
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Insoxicated
Two factors at play post likely:
1) women like to be able to wear heels (3-4" boost)
2) women know men lie about their height. 5'10"? Claim 6'.
You can either play the game and post as 5'9" to get past filtered searches, or not.
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Insoxicated
I know right?!ETA: jk GB[
Icon's GF tricked me when she answered the phone.
She had no accent.
It's probably a trick like Elton john sounding American only when he sings.
Bogart
Footballguy
Dinner happened Thursday night. Went well. Was more like a real date, there were zero questions about her marriage. Saturday night did NOT happen as she was sick with a cold. Will reschedule somewhere down the road.Having dinner with married chick tonight. Schedules have been off the last week or so. She also asked if I want to come to her house on Saturday night for pizza and a movie while her husband is out on a date.
This worked out well. Great first date. Went sushi and she loved it. By far, physically, the best looking girl I have dated, even if she is a bit older. (She is probably 42-43, most of the girl I have been dating are between 29-36). She is 5'10", and maybe 125 lbs. Super, super thin and very toned arms and legs. Perky small C cups. I was pleasantly surprised. Conversation was very friendly, quite a bit in common, but didn't get too deep in any one area. Lunch lasted about 90 mins then we went our separate ways with promises of a second date.
Will be very curious to see how this goes.
TLEF316
Footballguy
TL
R version....I said something mean/stupid that may or may not have prevented me from getting laid.
So this isn't an Idating question, but I'm really not in the mood to start a new thread about it. This is more of a "How badly did I misplay this" situation..
So my buddies and I went in on a vacation house last week. 4 guys for the whole week plus 1 fiance, 1 girlfriend and the fiance's friend. I'm one of the 2 single guys. Fiance's friend is a nice girl (and in good shape since she runs a ton and does triathlons) but she's not really my type at all (too muscular). A couple of days in, the friend tells us that a friend of hers (so my buddy's fiance's friend's friend if you're following at home) is going to come out for a day. The friend is fresh out of grad school and about move out West but she's in the area for a few days to see some family.
The friend shows up on Friday morning (last full day of the trip). Super cute chick with a tight body (despite not having a ton up top). Definitely someone I would go for other than 1 minor detail....she's engaged. From what I was able to gather, she and the fiance were supposed to get married earlier in the summer (before he moved out West, which is where she's going) but decided to delay. Her reasoning is that they can't really afford it yet (she's a student. He has a lousy job that will never pay him anything) but the friend (who had been with us all week) indicated that there were other factors at play. All that being said, I'm not the kind of dude that goes and tries to #### someone's fiance just because he's not around, so I mostly just exchange small talk with her while we're chilling at the beach for the day.
Evening rolls around and the drinks start flowing. We have dinner and start knocking back wine/beer. Everyone's 5 or 6 drinks deep by the time we decide to head out to the bar. Again, we've been friendly with each other all day but nothing sexual at all. That changes in a hurry once we get to the bar. Once we walk in the door, this girl is all over me. She's dancing on me, pulling me in close to take pictures, buying me drinks, constantly touching my face, chest and arms, etc. Basically, she's doing everything short of kissing me or grabbing my junk to let me know that its go time. At this point I'm sort of playing along but not getting aggressive about it at all. In the back of my head, I can't shake the feeling that this is just a young drunk girl blowing off some steam because she's gone a while without some male attention (hadn't seen the fiance in a month or so). But while my mind is telling me "this is a lame move" my #### is telling me to take a swing. She's not getting any negative feedback from her friend (you know that move where a girl will pull her friend aside for a quick "you sure you wanna do this?") and pretty much everyone in the group is giving me looks that say "go ahead and close".
So like 12:30 rolls around and I basically decide that its #### or get off the pot time. I'm not about to spend the entire night getting #### teased only to make a move and get the "I have a fiance" thrown in my face. So semi-drunk me decides to throw out a feeler. Details are sort of sketchy (I'm 10 drinks deep at this point after a day of getting baked in the sun) but I'm pretty sure I said something along the lines of "Are you sure you're ready to get married? You're way too much fun". I figure that if there's any chance of this happening, her response to this will give me the green light....
She's goes super quiet for a couple of minutes, grabs her phone and walks out the patio of the bar. Obviously I know right away that I screwed up. I clearly spooked her and she's obviously calling the fiance. I eventually make my way out to make sure she's ok and apologize (she says "Its fine" and that she's not mad at me, but that's obviously crap) and then head back inside. Eventually, I decide to make an early exit (bar is closing in 15 minutes anyway) to avoid her coming back in and causing a scene. During my walk home, her friend texts to assure me that she's ok and not to worry about, but I'm pretty pissed at myself. I'm thinking this was just about the ####tiest thing I could have said to someone who just postponed their wedding and is clearly having doubts. Real **** move on my part and I know it.
The group makes it home like a 1/2 hour later and the 2 girls (the girl and her friend) come straight down to my room. She starts going into this whole speech about how she isn't mad and me and that she's just a naturally flirty/open person and that its not a big deal at all. She apologizes to me for messing up the night and gives me a hug. We eventually end up going to bed (separately, obviously) without any further incidents. She leaves early the next morning with a very casual good bye.
So basically, after all that, I'm asking the following....
How ####ty is it to sleep with some other dude's fiance when
A) you don't know him
B) you'll likely never see the girl again
C) they're clearly having problems and probably won't end up married anyway (In my opinion)
D) She's clearly the aggressor.
Does it matter if you're both drunk and her friend isn't doing anything to stop her?
R version....I said something mean/stupid that may or may not have prevented me from getting laid. So this isn't an Idating question, but I'm really not in the mood to start a new thread about it. This is more of a "How badly did I misplay this" situation..
So my buddies and I went in on a vacation house last week. 4 guys for the whole week plus 1 fiance, 1 girlfriend and the fiance's friend. I'm one of the 2 single guys. Fiance's friend is a nice girl (and in good shape since she runs a ton and does triathlons) but she's not really my type at all (too muscular). A couple of days in, the friend tells us that a friend of hers (so my buddy's fiance's friend's friend if you're following at home) is going to come out for a day. The friend is fresh out of grad school and about move out West but she's in the area for a few days to see some family.
The friend shows up on Friday morning (last full day of the trip). Super cute chick with a tight body (despite not having a ton up top). Definitely someone I would go for other than 1 minor detail....she's engaged. From what I was able to gather, she and the fiance were supposed to get married earlier in the summer (before he moved out West, which is where she's going) but decided to delay. Her reasoning is that they can't really afford it yet (she's a student. He has a lousy job that will never pay him anything) but the friend (who had been with us all week) indicated that there were other factors at play. All that being said, I'm not the kind of dude that goes and tries to #### someone's fiance just because he's not around, so I mostly just exchange small talk with her while we're chilling at the beach for the day.
Evening rolls around and the drinks start flowing. We have dinner and start knocking back wine/beer. Everyone's 5 or 6 drinks deep by the time we decide to head out to the bar. Again, we've been friendly with each other all day but nothing sexual at all. That changes in a hurry once we get to the bar. Once we walk in the door, this girl is all over me. She's dancing on me, pulling me in close to take pictures, buying me drinks, constantly touching my face, chest and arms, etc. Basically, she's doing everything short of kissing me or grabbing my junk to let me know that its go time. At this point I'm sort of playing along but not getting aggressive about it at all. In the back of my head, I can't shake the feeling that this is just a young drunk girl blowing off some steam because she's gone a while without some male attention (hadn't seen the fiance in a month or so). But while my mind is telling me "this is a lame move" my #### is telling me to take a swing. She's not getting any negative feedback from her friend (you know that move where a girl will pull her friend aside for a quick "you sure you wanna do this?") and pretty much everyone in the group is giving me looks that say "go ahead and close".
So like 12:30 rolls around and I basically decide that its #### or get off the pot time. I'm not about to spend the entire night getting #### teased only to make a move and get the "I have a fiance" thrown in my face. So semi-drunk me decides to throw out a feeler. Details are sort of sketchy (I'm 10 drinks deep at this point after a day of getting baked in the sun) but I'm pretty sure I said something along the lines of "Are you sure you're ready to get married? You're way too much fun". I figure that if there's any chance of this happening, her response to this will give me the green light....
She's goes super quiet for a couple of minutes, grabs her phone and walks out the patio of the bar. Obviously I know right away that I screwed up. I clearly spooked her and she's obviously calling the fiance. I eventually make my way out to make sure she's ok and apologize (she says "Its fine" and that she's not mad at me, but that's obviously crap) and then head back inside. Eventually, I decide to make an early exit (bar is closing in 15 minutes anyway) to avoid her coming back in and causing a scene. During my walk home, her friend texts to assure me that she's ok and not to worry about, but I'm pretty pissed at myself. I'm thinking this was just about the ####tiest thing I could have said to someone who just postponed their wedding and is clearly having doubts. Real **** move on my part and I know it.
The group makes it home like a 1/2 hour later and the 2 girls (the girl and her friend) come straight down to my room. She starts going into this whole speech about how she isn't mad and me and that she's just a naturally flirty/open person and that its not a big deal at all. She apologizes to me for messing up the night and gives me a hug. We eventually end up going to bed (separately, obviously) without any further incidents. She leaves early the next morning with a very casual good bye.
So basically, after all that, I'm asking the following....
How ####ty is it to sleep with some other dude's fiance when
A) you don't know him
B) you'll likely never see the girl again
C) they're clearly having problems and probably won't end up married anyway (In my opinion)
D) She's clearly the aggressor.
Does it matter if you're both drunk and her friend isn't doing anything to stop her?
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McGarnicle
Footballguy
I always shied away in these situations and even got pissed when I found out later that a girl I hooked up with was married or had a bf. That's just me; plenty of guys have no issue with it. Seems like your conscience was bothering you all night, so you put it out there. In my opinion you did the right thing. She could've said, actually, the relationship with the fiancé is on shaky ground anyway, then given you the green light. But she didn't. She still cares about the dude. We can put aside how thoughtless it is to forget about your fiancé all night until someone brings it up, but she was pretty drunk too. And I know plenty of people believe the onus falls only on the attached person, and if I turn it down they'd go bang someone else anyway. Just me personally, I think it's a #### move to bang someone else's chick.
TLEF316
Footballguy
Yeah, this is kind where my head is at on this one. Their engagement probably isn't going to work out anyway (This girl was going way beyond just being "naturally flirty". She'll cheat eventually) but he still bought her a ring. If things were the other way around, I obviously wouldn't appreciate someone banging my drunk fiance (regardless of who initiated)I always shied away in these situations and even got pissed when I found out later that a girl I hooked up with was married or had a bf. That's just me; plenty of guys have no issue with it. Seems like your conscience was bothering you all night, so you put it out there. In my opinion you did the right thing. She could've said, actually, the relationship with the fiancé is on shaky ground anyway, then given you the green light. But she didn't. She still cares about the dude. We can put aside how thoughtless it is to forget about your fiancé all night until someone brings it up, but she was pretty drunk too.And I know plenty of people believe the onus falls only on the attached person, and if I turn it down they'd go bang someone else anyway. Just me personally, I think it's a #### move to bang someone else's chick.
And although I'll never see this girl again, I do have to see other members of the group. We've got the wedding in a few weeks and I'd hate for 2 members of the bridal party to be gossiping about how I nailed their engaged friend 6 weeks ago. Plus, my other buddy's new girlfriend (who was the other girl on the trip for the week) seems intent on hooking me up with someone. (is desperately trying to get me to tag along to her sister's birthday party in NYC next month) So in that sense, I'd hate to go from "my boyfriend's single friend" to "that guy who nailed a drunk engaged girl at the shore". Long term, I'm pretty sure this was a good play.
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OC Zed
Footballguy
I'm 5'8" and this was one of the reasons I got tired of Match. I was still able to get a fair number of dates though. The content in your profile is huge. Scroll back through the pages in this thread for some great profile tips.bweiser said:
Also, FWIW, I found much better success on eHarmony... You have to put in more work up front, but I had more dates and with higher quality chicks.
McGarnicle
Footballguy
Worm
slimy ninja
saintfool
Dead sexy
offdee
Footballguy
Bogart
Footballguy
Mister Martie
Footballguy
Agree with all of this.I always shied away in these situations and even got pissed when I found out later that a girl I hooked up with was married or had a bf. That's just me; plenty of guys have no issue with it. Seems like your conscience was bothering you all night, so you put it out there. In my opinion you did the right thing. She could've said, actually, the relationship with the fiancé is on shaky ground anyway, then given you the green light. But she didn't. She still cares about the dude. We can put aside how thoughtless it is to forget about your fiancé all night until someone brings it up, but she was pretty drunk too. And I know plenty of people believe the onus falls only on the attached person, and if I turn it down they'd go bang someone else anyway. Just me personally, I think it's a #### move to bang someone else's chick.
Buck Bradcanon
Footballguy
STAY HARD poly married but maybe now getting a divorce chick.
Bogart
Footballguy
Update on the update: Poly Married Chick is now not getting divorced. But they are slowing things down. I will be exiting stage left.
fantasycurse42
Footballguy Jr.
OC Zed
Footballguy
Immensely. Although I wouldn't really target any chicks that you think you'll want to develop anything longer term if you still don't have it finalized.
Keerock
Footballguy
Bogart
Footballguy
This is good. I also like "I'm going to need to know your hard limits. Everything. And are you allergic to dogs?"
saintfool
Dead sexy
i think i put my status as "separated" but made it very clear in my profile that i was in the middle of finalizing my divorce. i'm in my early 40's and people expect those around my age to have baggage. some women would steer clear of me because i'm a) divorced/seperated, b) single dad with a young son, and/or c) both. there are always going to be filters. in the end, with online dating, it just comes to perseverance. you just have to keep at it.
Disco Stu
Confirmed FBGal
Disco Stu
Confirmed FBGal
johnnycakes
Footballguy
"They call me Mr. 77 because you get 8 more than 69." 
McGarnicle
Footballguy
I am
alone
lost
terrified
in a forest
pain
deceit
death
Yeah, horrible pic notwithstanding, I'm all over that one.
Some of the others are genuinely disturbing.
alone
lost
terrified
in a forest
pain
deceit
death
Yeah, horrible pic notwithstanding, I'm all over that one.
Some of the others are genuinely disturbing.
Joe T
Footballguy
There is nothing more defeating than showing up to a date and the girl you are meeting weighs 20+ lbs more than her photos.
What is the ruling on putting your income info up on Match. I've always refrained, but I am wondering if it would be an interesting experiment to throw it up there for a few days.
What is the ruling on putting your income info up on Match. I've always refrained, but I am wondering if it would be an interesting experiment to throw it up there for a few days.
