Dr. Octopus
Footballguy
It's not offensive - but I just don't believe that a smart guy like you doesn't get that calling something a "lie" has a negative connotation that doesn't belong in a conversation about letting your kids believe in Santa - or why you would pick this particular "fairy tale" to take that stance on. If you don't think that there would be plenty of instances where you "lied" to your children otherwise (if you had any) you're fooling yourself. Many examples have already been posted in this thread. Literally sure it's a lie - but intelligent people realize there's a broad scale of what consists of lying and wouldn't apply it to a charming tradition that makes people feel a little better.Lying isn’t the same as withholding info. I wouldn’t want my kids ruining it for other kids and I didn’t ever ruin it for my nieces or nephews because it’s not my kids and not my place. I just let them believe and stayed out of it. Again, I absolutely love Christmas. It’s awesome and I for sure would want to bring my kids joy. Maybe I’m totally wrong but I don’t think the Santa thing is the only way kids could experience joy during the holidays. But I’m also not criticizing anyone that is 100% into Santa and has awesome memories of it as a kid and as a parent. That’s totally cool and tons of respect for that. It’s just not what I would do. Not sure why some people seem agitated by my choice and teasing. If you want I’ll take back that it’s a lie and say it’s something we tell people that we know isn’t true but we do it for fun and joy. I hope that’s less offensive because I genuinely like everyone in this thread.I like the logic of:
I dont want to lie to my kids so I’ll rob them of the magic of Christmas and instead teach them to lie to all their friends and classmates.
Actually now that I think about it, it is a little offensive that someone tries to take the moral high ground ("I would NEVER lie to my children") over something that's not only a harmless "lie" but one that is one of the few magical things left for kids in this world.
With that said, I still like you very much as well - I just think your misguided here and perhaps trolling a bit.