Now that I am aware of my condition I may have begun taking some strides to correct my behavior.You cant medicate a personality disorder, unfortunately. Antidepressants or mood stabilizers will help with symptoms, but only behavioral therapy has a chance to effect any real change. And to do that, one has to be willing to actually go to therapy. So says an armchair shrink.
i hate to see another living being in pain. But, if someone is intent on self-flagellation, im not going to forcefully intervene. And im not going to hold their hand either and tell them it's ok while they cry that the pain is unbearable, but they keep whipping themselves. Put down your implemenets of self-torture first, then if you want help- ill gladly help you take the steps to healing. White-knighting for someone who is taking zero responsibility and is the root cause of all of their own problems speaks of co-dependency issues, to me. But, have at it.
:whoosh:RokNRole said:She's 45 and never been married. The issue is not me. It's been an ongoing issue since we met over 3 years ago. She's unable to ever make up her mind about anything.
The issue is that she watches videos of "testimonies" from people that claim to know the plans of the elite and expects me to just run off to another country with her.:whoosh:
Honestly, you listen to her. Then you make your own informed decisions about to that which you've listened.Ive been aware since day one of the truth behind Oklahoma City and 9/11.
Im very against our oligarchy in disguise of a democracy or republic ( just as it has been since the days of the Roman Empire and how it persists today).
Im aware of the dog and pony show ( the bread and circuses) that the rich feed to the ignorant.
Im sympathetic to the downtrodden and as I get older more so for religious and ideological freedom.
I hold no allegiance to any party or person and I believe in true freedom and if necessary to spill my blood as a patriot for just the idea of freedom even if it's a pipe dream.
Who the hell do I talk to these days? I'm pretty much ok with claiming I'm apathetic about it but everyone is so politically charged that they think you are worse than a political enemy if you say " I don't want to discuss it " or " I don't care about politics".
How does one meet a woman that feels the same way? If you can't be defined how do you find others that aren't defined but still aware?
If they insist getting in to it what is one to do?Honestly, you listen to her. Then you make your own informed decisions about to that which you've listened.
I think you're being difficult here. The vagaries of politics, if above even your intelligence, are above many. You seem to order a tallboy when you should just get a shot, frankly.
But you're a good dude. It's a metaphor.
Then there are other fish in the sea, bro.If they insist getting in to it what is one to do?
I don't need someone to save me. That's where I lose the " love yourself" theme. I know what I'm good at and I know what I'm bad at. I don't need to convince myself I'm perfect or deserve more because I already know my value and I'll always improve to some degree even if I take a few steps back.Then there are other fish in the sea, bro.
Look, nobody is going to save you. We all have needs, but you don't seem like that you can handle somebody else before you can handle yourself. Just an opinion. Take it FWIW.
Yeah, no, you can't be. Just sounds like you need a program and structure. Like AA. But this is the last I do. I hope it works for you. I just got involved. My bad.I don't need someone to save me. That's where I lose the " love yourself" theme. I know what I'm good at and I know what I'm bad at. I don't need to convince myself I'm perfect or deserve more because I already know my value and I'll always improve to some degree even if I take a few steps back.
My love is for something that should be loved. A kitten, a child, or a beautiful woman. A man is a nail. We can bend but we stay strong til the bitter end.
Love myself? I don't know what that means. If I didn't love myself or feel confident I can survive and take on the world I would have been dead long ago. I don't need to BS myself. I'm not perfect and never could be but when I meet a woman I love , several of which I've found and only a few appreciated, I love with all my heart.
Cant be a perfect man but you can try to be every day and that's all that matters. Nobody appreciates the effort they just want perfection right off the bat.
I can live healthy any time I want. I'm very close to doing it again. Addiction is not a condition for everyone. It's a means to an end.Yeah, no, you can't be. Just sounds like you need a program and structure. Like AA. But this is the last I do. I hope it works for you. I just got involved. My bad.
If you go back about 40 or so pages you will see I'm not a fan of fish.You seem more like a pet fish guy to me.
Don't.I'll get right on that.
Most women don't care for politics or are angry esp now that we have this sexist. racist president who has put down women. So not a good topic to bring up to women off the bat. Talk about things other than religion and politics. Those 2 have always been the golden rule to not discuss when starting to date.Ive been aware since day one of the truth behind Oklahoma City and 9/11.
Im very against our oligarchy in disguise of a democracy or republic ( just as it has been since the days of the Roman Empire and how it persists today).
Im aware of the dog and pony show ( the bread and circuses) that the rich feed to the ignorant.
Im sympathetic to the downtrodden and as I get older more so for religious and ideological freedom.
I hold no allegiance to any party or person and I believe in true freedom and if necessary to spill my blood as a patriot for just the idea of freedom even if it's a pipe dream.
Who the hell do I talk to these days? I'm pretty much ok with claiming I'm apathetic about it but everyone is so politically charged that they think you are worse than a political enemy if you say " I don't want to discuss it " or " I don't care about politics".
How does one meet a woman that feels the same way? If you can't be defined how do you find others that aren't defined but still aware?
If you do this, make sure the 2 you get are bonded. It can be a nightmare if you try to put 2 together who don't know each other.. You also want the same sex so you don't have to worry about babies, or make sure they are spayed/neutered. I think it's a good idea for people who work to have a pair that like each other. They can keep each other company, play with each other..Don't.
Its all nonsense and in the past.
I have 3 days off this week because I requested them. Ive been saving up money and I can afford to adopt 2 kittens ( I want 2 so they can keep eachother company when I'm at work). I'm going to get them the high grade blue wilderness food and I'm going to keep packs of salmon filets in the fridge to poach for them as a treat . I'll ask the cooks at work to put aside the steak trimmings from the raw meat for me and poach those on occasion too. They are going to be very spoiled.
RnR - please take the bold seriously.If you do this, make sure the 2 you get are bonded. It can be a nightmare if you try to put 2 together who don't know each other.. You also want the same sex so you don't have to worry about babies, or make sure they are spayed/neutered. I think it's a good idea for people who work to have a pair that like each other. They can keep each other company, play with each other..
Pets are great for people suffering MI. They give unconditional love. That's why there is support dogs not just for vets but for those suffering MI.
www.tinfoilhat.com , www.justbecauseimparanoiddoesntmeantheyarentouttogetme.com, www.nosmellycrotches.com, www.imnottheproblemyouare.comJust had a great conversation with an attractive woman. Then she brought up Trump. I asked her not to discuss politics with me and just continue a friendly conversation. She insisted so I told her I'm a true patriot,a rebel I don't vote because we live in a fake democracy. She said to leave her alone because I don't do my " civic duty". I replied " if I don't like any politician I have a right not to vote for anyone and that is my version of voting". She went on and on and I told her she sounds like a fascist.
What kind of dating site is out there for people like me?
it'd be a shame to distill it down to a few bullet points, the nuance would be lost.summary of first 110 pages?
Societal bottom-feeder blames everyone but himself for station in life.summary of first 110 pages?
I'll check it out tonight.Quint said:hey @RokNRole - found this song down a rabbit-hole, thought it might resonate:
You'll get it right sometime.
You will.I tell myself that everyday.
You don't need to latch on to anything.
You'll just end up back here In your little limbo scene.
It's repetitious and exhausting. I might need some therapy;
Anything to keep me in check through the day.
Don't think about your lover. You're already steady shaking.
I might need a sedative, But I hate the taste of medicine.
You just need to let her go.
These pills shaking in my hand
Just make me feel defeated,
Like I'm not able to just let her go away.
I hate this place but I love these chords.
An empty fate just means an even score.
And the pain this morning...
It filled my head. It's Jameson.
It means that I'm not dead.
And I just can't seem to get away
There's no such thing as escape,
Even with the sedatives
You're always in the same state,
Clutching to a limbo scene.
You're never changing anything,
You just stop the shaking.
And it's constantly repeated through the days.
As long as you are attractive it doesn't matter what your profile says.I just put this in my dating profiles under my " self summary"
As I get older I realize I'm the bad boy with a heart of gold. Strong and rebellious but melt for my love. I'm from NY. I've been in Dallas for a year. Yes I'm sarcastic and I sound like a character from The Sopranos but I'll make you laugh until you can't breath. I'm a marshmallow for all animals. One of my biggest hobbies is cooking, which I will do for you every day. I'm not perfect and I am not afraid to admit when I'm wrong and try to be s better man. Sometimes I do stupid things to get it out of my system . I play drums, I draw , I write. Inside I'm a pretty big nerd but I never give up the fight.
Is that any good?
My photos aren't great and don't do me any justice. Several women I've met through dating sites told me I look a lot better in person, almost shockingly better. I've actually considered hiring a photographer for help because I can't take a decent selfie to save my life. I just can't fake a convincing smile.As long as you are attractive it doesn't matter what your profile says.
I'd ditch the bit about cooking for her everyday, otherwise it looks like a good mix of bad boy with a sensitive streak, which would make my panties melt, if I wore panties.
ETA: I see the cooking bit was addressed.
Dallas is chock full of attractive women, homegrown and imported from all over the country. You are going to have a lot of fun. Just don't propose to the first girl you get in bed.
Not for spelling.2 points for originality