I hear you, but two points and I mean them genuinely. Well, three.
First, maybe you are correct about the piling on, and I did mention that perhaps my natural bias has me not notice it.
Second, I don't see the, well, this is a family site, so... circle jest... of people just agitating and not putting substance to their claims and all that, and just tossing smilies and likes to one another (again, a lot less now, thankfully). It's like a concerted effort and parrots. I do see that you could feel piled on.
Third and finally, and I'm trying to be blunt honest but thoughtful as well... sometimes your claims and approach does come off as trolling, other times not really at all. Now, is that you, is it "us" or a combination, I don't know. But on certain issues it feels as if (feels, again, maybe I'm wrong) you are putting out accusations or claims without real backing, not looking to listen, using efforts to not answer direct questions, to avoid, or deflect and those types of tactics. I will say I and I can probably say many/most others don't believe you are a troll... there are a number of folks whereby that's the default. They rarely add any substance, nuance, rarely if EVER answer questions and some just look to incite or purposefully conflate etc. Most of us recognize that's not you, but it's all the more frustrating then when we feel that you engage in those behaviors.
Again, correct or not.
Hope that did not offend in any way, and again, maybe I'm off point. Just my honest assessment, which may not be worth much. FWIW, there have been times here where others have pointed out to me approaches that I may not have been proud of, or that I honestly didn't see as wrong, but realized they were counterproductive regardless. I've not learned all my lessons, but have tried to absorb from the comments of others on this board when it did/does resonate.