Why are you idiots still talking about him carrying her? SHE TRIED TO PUSH HIM AWAY AND HE PINNED HER ARMS DOWN.
Virtually everyone had said if she tried to push him away in manner that made it clear she was resisting it would be rape. The hang-up for some seems to be did she really try to push him away or just put her hand on his chest with the intent of pushing him away.
The sad thing is that if this had been a case that went to trial it would likely end up being one of those he said, she said points. She says she tried to push him away, he says she didn't or he didn't notice. Both of them end up having their personal lives dragged out in court and the guy potentially ends up jail. As it is the girl has been carrying this around for years, and who knows how it affected her life?
Couple of things.
1) I started off in this thread that the nature of the "putting hands on chest to push him away" and the pinning of the arms is the only thing that would create a grey area for me and depending on the nature of these acts, I could totally see it being rape. Way too much time has been spent in this thread IMO discussing the fact that she said no downstairs, or that she didn't feel comfortable saying no, or about the guy should've made sure to get consent again, etc. All of this means nothing if she pushed/tried to push him in such a way that made it obvious to the guy she didn't want to go through with it, and he did it anyway by overpowering her. If that's the case, totally 100% rape. That's the problem with this whole discussion, we're breaking down specific words for used by a person who's relaying a story from the actual victim. Depending on the wording she used, or the OP used, the characterization of the pushing/pinning may changed.
To me, as others have said, her actions seem rather ambiguous as described. Given that and the fact that she never said no (for whatever reason), I just can't take the leap that this guy would've/should've known that what she was expressing was a last second changing of her mind.
But again, totally depends on the nature of the pushing/pinning, which is getting pretty pedantic I guess, but this is a nuanced, unclear situation IMO.
2) I forget what #2 was. I think it may have been that I don't think there's anyway in hell he'd actually be
convicted of rape, but that's not exactly the question in the OP.