I need some help from the dads.....
I have an 11 year old. He loves Minecraft. It's an addiction. I have shielded him from video games with any gore, sex, language and what not. He doesn't play co-op and is only allowed in Minecraft servers that I have researched and which have good administration to shut down any problems when it comes to kids. So, he lives in a video game bubble.
I have found out that the kids in class play the following video games (mind you, 11 year old. Maybe some are 12).... Assassin's Creed, GTA 4 and 5 (which is mindnumbingly effing stupid to me) Call of Duty, Halo, and probably one or two others that I am missing. I also am finding out that they are all loving online app games such as Five Nights at Freddie's, Portal, SCP Containment Breach and games such as that.
I'm not too happy or ready for my kid to play scary tension potential nightmare games. But he is starting to get the peer pressure of not playing what the other kids are playing. I had planned on letting him play the Wolfenstein game after I finished it but the damn thing has sex scenes in it that are Cinemax quality circa 1980's so that's out. Unless, and here is my question...
In any of these games or others of the genre, are there are any parental options to remove certain aspects? I can get over the language in Wolfenstein if I have to and deal with that but he isn't going to play it with the sex scenes in it. My choice. And the other games - I've never played AS, Halo and all of those except GTA. How bad are they for an 11 year old that has been this shielded?