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Stuff that's happening lately that reminds me I'm getting older... a binge drinking thread where I am not low-key bragging about how much I drank again last night :bag:  

 
We took US20 thru Bend to get there.  Wanted the more scenic drive.     Took the 5 N to Portland and then I84 E on the way back right to our house.  8.5 hours.   Let me know if you find any good places to hike, for when we go again.

I could not get enough of that ocean view.  LOL at review #2 wanting shades on it like he's running around the living room naked.
so?

 
Also got the results of my 23 & me test today. Turns out..

I'm 100% that #####.

Actually 99.8% what I expected, but had secretly hoped for some juicy surprise
On the Plus side, you'll probably never be able to get insurance to cover the maladies you're genetically predisposed to.

 
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So, I'm mildly locally famous in the craft beer scene.  A local brewery chose one of my old homebrew recipes to be brewed and served at the pub a few months back. I had brewed it with my neighbor for our local club, and we both got to assist in the brew day at the pub.  It went on tap Friday night to good reviews.

German Rauchbier (smoked lager)

Yes, look at me.

 
I have an asthmatic cough that gets triggered randomly.

my tabby cat hilariously hates it. Snarls/meows - less pissed off, more exasperated every time I cough...even waking from a full sleep to do it

 
Thanks, GM, 'hack, and facook!  All super-helpful.  'hack, I had considered Manzanita but couldn't find as much info on it, but I'll keep it on the list.  GM, Saddle Mountain looks great!  I looked it up on All Trails, and the last comment was from eight days ago and said in part that they had seen cougar tracks 1/4 mile from the top so turned around.  Wusses.  We all die sometime!

Needless to say if anyone in the area wants a quick cornhole (ahem) one night, I could drive over your way.
One more thing about Cannon Beach - they have really cool tide pools with volunteers there to answer questions or guide you petting a starfish or sea anemone.  Not sure if that moves the needle for you or not, but as a kid who grew up landlocked, I find this sort of thing beyond cool. 

 
I don't think I'll ever "get" the reactions we have to celebrity deaths. It's sad several families lost family members, parents, and siblings. I feel for those families. Nobody should have to go through that. I just can't imagine the loss of someone I've never interacted with in my life impacting me that much. I'm aware I'm a heartless monster. I feel like I had this discussion with someone here wrt Cobain. GM maybe? I'm sorry the guy's dead, but I don't think I'll ever understand the overly-emotional reactions (again, apart from the family element).

 
I don't think I'll ever "get" the reactions we have to celebrity deaths. It's sad several families lost family members, parents, and siblings. I feel for those families. Nobody should have to go through that. I just can't imagine the loss of someone I've never interacted with in my life impacting me that much. I'm aware I'm a heartless monster. I feel like I had this discussion with someone here wrt Cobain. GM maybe? I'm sorry the guy's dead, but I don't think I'll ever understand the overly-emotional reactions (again, apart from the family element).
I think everybody handles grief differently.  I asked my basketball loving 15 year old who used to say "Kobe" after releasing his shots against me when we would play in our driveway how he was doing yesterday upon hearing the news and he shrugged and said "doesn't affect me; I didn't know him".  Which I think is rather pragmatic for a teenager.  

Maybe you're his father?  We should probably start collecting back-child support just in case.  Thanks. 

 
I don't think I'll ever "get" the reactions we have to celebrity deaths. It's sad several families lost family members, parents, and siblings. I feel for those families. Nobody should have to go through that. I just can't imagine the loss of someone I've never interacted with in my life impacting me that much. I'm aware I'm a heartless monster. I feel like I had this discussion with someone here wrt Cobain. GM maybe? I'm sorry the guy's dead, but I don't think I'll ever understand the overly-emotional reactions (again, apart from the family element).
I’m usually in your camp. Oddly, this one is effecting me.  I’d met him a few times. Nice enough guy. Very nice family. 

For me it’s a combo of the reminder of my mortality but mostly, the family element.   My daughter is 13. One of her best friends is super into basketball.  I haven’t heard if she knew them or not.  Inevitably, I will know people, directly affected.   :(   All of the deceased, are from my immediate area.  The OCC coach was a pretty big deal around here and touched a lot of people’s lives.   

The image that just won’t go away, is the last time I saw Kobe.  He was walking his 3rd daughter around the restaurant, she was holding on  to his  fingers, doing that staggering, I just learned how to walk, walk. He was just a proud dad, enjoying the moment   

 
I’m usually in your camp. Oddly, this one is effecting me.  I’d met him a few times. Nice enough guy. Very nice family. 

For me it’s a combo of the reminder of my mortality but mostly, the family element.   My daughter is 13. One of her best friends is super into basketball.  I haven’t heard if she knew them or not.  Inevitably, I will know people, directly affected.   :(   All of the deceased, are from my immediate area.  The OCC coach was a pretty big deal around here and touched a lot of people’s lives.   

The image that just won’t go away, is the last time I saw Kobe.  He was walking his 3rd daughter around the restaurant, she was holding on  to his  fingers, doing that staggering, I just learned how to walk, walk. He was just a proud dad, enjoying the moment   
To me, this is different. You did have that interaction. I can at least comprehend these things. 

 
I don't think I'll ever "get" the reactions we have to celebrity deaths. It's sad several families lost family members, parents, and siblings. I feel for those families. Nobody should have to go through that. I just can't imagine the loss of someone I've never interacted with in my life impacting me that much. I'm aware I'm a heartless monster. I feel like I had this discussion with someone here wrt Cobain. GM maybe? I'm sorry the guy's dead, but I don't think I'll ever understand the overly-emotional reactions (again, apart from the family element).
I think a lot of it is projecting - how that celebrity made ME feel at a certain point in MY life. It's not rational when looked at the way you lay out above, but that's what I think goes on when something like this happens.

Most of those that hit me hard are musicians. 

One athlete's passing that gutted me was Paul Blair. I doubt many here know who he was. He played CF for the Orioles in the 60s/70s and was my favorite player by far when I was a kid. When I was playing LL, I'd stand like him in the batter's box, I'd tuck the glove under my arm like he did when he ran off of the field after out #3, slide like he did, do my practice swings like him, etc... He was a very good player for a few years and then he got his face shattered by a Ken Brett (George's brother) pitch and was never the same. He played another half a dozen years or so.

Anyway, I was at an Orioles game about 8 or 9 years ago and there was a tent set up on Eutaw Street where some Orioles "legends" were signing cards. Most of them were of recent(er) vintage (guys from the 80s & 90s) and there were a half dozen folks in each line. Except, there was Paul Blair with no one in his line. I ####### RAN (last time I've done so) to his chair. I gushed like a damned idiot. The good thing was, I was able to settle down and talk to him for about 5 minutes (because no one was behind me). He signed a card - the only I've ever owned - and I went to watch the game.

He died about a year later and I cried like a baby. 

 
I don't think I'll ever "get" the reactions we have to celebrity deaths. It's sad several families lost family members, parents, and siblings. I feel for those families. Nobody should have to go through that. I just can't imagine the loss of someone I've never interacted with in my life impacting me that much. I'm aware I'm a heartless monster. I feel like I had this discussion with someone here wrt Cobain. GM maybe? I'm sorry the guy's dead, but I don't think I'll ever understand the overly-emotional reactions (again, apart from the family element).
https://chicago.suntimes.com/bulls/2020/1/26/21082784/death-of-kobe-bryant-pain-of-losing-someone-you-didnt-know-lakers-bulls-michael-jordan-calabasas

 
Unrelated:

I've mentioned in here I live in one of the most upper middle-class white towns in America.   Our chamber of commerce needs to lump every non-white group into "other" on a chart of our diversity just to have enough people to create another category on a pie chart.   

The Friday before MLK day, my daughter's high school had a "diversity assembly" to honor him.   This assembly included:

  • MLK trivia where none of the participants knew the answers;
  • a unity circle where kids joined hands and were supposed to say something they were struggling with, and how they were working to overcome it.   none of them had anything to say about the second part, so it was a bunch of rich white kids complaining about things--sort of a "Mean Girls" moment;
  • a white rapper performing an embarrassingly bad rap about MLK.
Daughter came home saying that her school should be banned from even attempting any events relating to diversity in the future.

 
Portland flights booked. 9/3-9/7. This will be my first time in the state. Many brewery visits are planned, but nothing else so far. 

 
I don't think I'll ever "get" the reactions we have to celebrity deaths. It's sad several families lost family members, parents, and siblings. I feel for those families. Nobody should have to go through that. I just can't imagine the loss of someone I've never interacted with in my life impacting me that much. I'm aware I'm a heartless monster. I feel like I had this discussion with someone here wrt Cobain. GM maybe? I'm sorry the guy's dead, but I don't think I'll ever understand the overly-emotional reactions (again, apart from the family element).
Pretty much exactly how I feel. It seems so odd to me.

 
Portland flights booked. 9/3-9/7. This will be my first time in the state. Many brewery visits are planned, but nothing else so far. 
Weather in Oregon around Labor Day is generally glorious.  Just cool enough to be comfortable but not cold.  You're gonna love it. :D  

 
I don't think I'll ever "get" the reactions we have to celebrity deaths. It's sad several families lost family members, parents, and siblings. I feel for those families. Nobody should have to go through that. I just can't imagine the loss of someone I've never interacted with in my life impacting oue that much. I'm aware I'm a heartless monster. I feel like I had this discussion with someone here wrt Cobain. GM maybe? I'm sorry the guy's dead, but I don't think I'll ever understand the overly-emotional reactions (again, apart from the family element).
Pretty much exactly how I feel. It seems so odd to me.
I don't get it either.  Like you, I don't mean to criticize those that do feel it.  I kinda think *I'm* the weirdo here.

ETA:  I mean this generally.  w/r/t Kobe in particular, the lionization is especially tough for me, from what I know from various sources.  But as to any celebrity, feeling "gutted" or the like, as many have mentioned, isn't something I can relate to.  And in that I feel like I'm the aberration.

 
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I just ordered this week's groceries on instacart.   It informs me that I have now saved over 8 hours of my life not going to the grocery store.   Plus I'm probably less likely to die from some pandemic.   With this and Amazon, I'm rapidly heading toward becoming a shut-in with some exceptions for gambling, boating and golf, all of which require interaction with only a specific few people.  

 

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