fantasycurse42
Footballguy Jr.
I saw my Grandpa yesterday, really upsetting... He recognized me, but barely. He is late 80's, can hardly see or hear, memory is almost gone, in a wheelchair, and has a neck brace on. He is in a nice nice place that is great for around the clock care, but this was a great man and now he is just suffering. He flirted with my wife lol, but I just feel so bad for the guy.
He didn't talk much, but he mentioned in a strong confident voice that he is absolutely miserable. My Grandma died almost 20 years ago and he had been living on his own up until 5-6 years ago when he moved from Florida to an assisted living in New York State. The last 5 or 6 years have been a steady decline for the old timer. I wanted him to meet his latest grandson at least once so I was with a 6 week old and my wife, I had to fight back tears big time. I visited my Grandma on the other side by myself 6 months ago, she had no clue who I was, was somewhat dirty (clothing), itchy, and looked awful. When I got in my car to leave that was prob the only time I've really cried in forever.
These were people who were so good to me when I was a little boy and growing up and now they're just miserable shells of themselves. I asked my Grandpa if I can get him something yesterday, he asked for a bottle of vodka, my buddy At this point, I obviously can't do that for him though A year ago before he had dropped into the state he is in now, we had a family get together and he was sitting on the couch, nobody would let him drink anything, so I snuck him a few cups, he was flirting with my Aunt's husband's 85 year old mom (completely unrelated). #### it, he deserved it, I got yelled at by my family, but whatever, I'd do it again. Poor guy doesn't have much left to live for and as mentioned, he was a great man.
IDK, I'm just ranting. Really, I'd like to get my Grandpa a bottle of vodka, a hooker, and then help him die afterwards - He really is miserable and I feel terrible.
Curious if you feel assisted suicide in this kind of condition should be allowed? I'm not talking about a depressed 35 year old, I'm talking about the extreme elderly, still mentally capable, but mind and body are absolutely on the way out.
He didn't talk much, but he mentioned in a strong confident voice that he is absolutely miserable. My Grandma died almost 20 years ago and he had been living on his own up until 5-6 years ago when he moved from Florida to an assisted living in New York State. The last 5 or 6 years have been a steady decline for the old timer. I wanted him to meet his latest grandson at least once so I was with a 6 week old and my wife, I had to fight back tears big time. I visited my Grandma on the other side by myself 6 months ago, she had no clue who I was, was somewhat dirty (clothing), itchy, and looked awful. When I got in my car to leave that was prob the only time I've really cried in forever.
These were people who were so good to me when I was a little boy and growing up and now they're just miserable shells of themselves. I asked my Grandpa if I can get him something yesterday, he asked for a bottle of vodka, my buddy At this point, I obviously can't do that for him though A year ago before he had dropped into the state he is in now, we had a family get together and he was sitting on the couch, nobody would let him drink anything, so I snuck him a few cups, he was flirting with my Aunt's husband's 85 year old mom (completely unrelated). #### it, he deserved it, I got yelled at by my family, but whatever, I'd do it again. Poor guy doesn't have much left to live for and as mentioned, he was a great man.
IDK, I'm just ranting. Really, I'd like to get my Grandpa a bottle of vodka, a hooker, and then help him die afterwards - He really is miserable and I feel terrible.
Curious if you feel assisted suicide in this kind of condition should be allowed? I'm not talking about a depressed 35 year old, I'm talking about the extreme elderly, still mentally capable, but mind and body are absolutely on the way out.
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