Recent content by DartTeamGoalie

Sorry, I have seen references to this dot code, but never bothered to figure it out.  I think I used to get most or all of the dots.  Two of these guys got most or all the dots, one guy got some of them, and one was mainly emotional with kissing ( is that a dot?).  Again this is assuming she has...

I stepped away from this for a while because it is so depressing.  No progress, but I appreciate all of the input.  `

Not right now I don't.  When I think about kissing her all I can think about is her giving oral to these guys.  Surely that is normal this early on.  I would think that even for guys that end up reconciling you would go through this stage?  Anyone been through this and reconcile have any thoughts?

Insurance is paying for therapist.  Does Obamacare cover hookers now?  Have to check on that.

Couldn't tell you.  I haven't even kissed her since I found out.

I am kind of sitting on the sidelines right now while she works on her childhood "issues".  Did your wife continue to cheat 5 years?  Was that how long it took for relationship to get back to "normal"?

LOL.   Sad thing is I am really am not in the mood for a hooker right now.  Plus, it would xxxx me off that I was paying for what I should be getting from my loyal wife.

You are right.... Should have waited until tomorrow!

I am an accountant, and she is a teacher.  We both could make it alone, but neither could afford the house we have now on one income.  So we both would have to move.  Another minus from the kids viewpoint...

I am infertile.  She is on b/c to help with cramping, and to lessen anxiety that doc feels is hormone relate.  And, I guess because these other guys aren't infertile.

Really?  All I have done is chat a couple times.  Not even sexual talk.  Believe it or not, I am lonely for some female companionship.  If I ever do decide to meet someone, I will tell the wife.  Whatever.....

Relax dude.  It's just been since summer vacation.  Quite frankly, I have much bigger problems to worry about.

Best of luck... I know what you are going through.

LOL.  I wish I were fishing.  Look at my join date and post history.  It's not like I created this account today.  And, it was an electronic letter FWIW.  Thanks, though.  You made me smile.

I have a copy of the letter tucked away, and a witness to her other confessions.