Mookie
Footballguy
Oof. That's terrible. I agree with those who've said that you either have to forgive her completely or transition out of the marriage. The kids will be fine either way so long as you end it amicably and both put them first in your divorced life. Life is too short to live in an emotional prison waiting for the kids to move out of the house.
Seeing your avatar of the Great Gazoo reminded me of the time I got my head shaved in college. Turned out I had a really bulbous head and one of my friends starting calling me Gazoo and it stuck until my hair grew in. Whenever I walked into a room, someone would invariably say "Hey DumDum" in a Gazoo voice. Good times and good luck.
Seeing your avatar of the Great Gazoo reminded me of the time I got my head shaved in college. Turned out I had a really bulbous head and one of my friends starting calling me Gazoo and it stuck until my hair grew in. Whenever I walked into a room, someone would invariably say "Hey DumDum" in a Gazoo voice. Good times and good luck.