Hey Assani,Can I get your feedback on a situation last night?I played in a local game last night and lost the biggest pot of my life and I'd love to get your thoughts/analysis. I've been beating myself up all day.I won $500 the previous night and bought in for that last night. It's a weak group of players. Early on, I got AA in early position and raised the 2/5 blinds to $20. I got two callers from loose players and the flop came Q-2-2. Two hearts. I bet $50. I get a fold. The guy in the cutoff raises me $50. This guy has been playing a lot of pots and showed down questionable hands. Against another guy, he fished to the river on a flush draw when he was getting about 1.5 to 1 on a big bet on the turn. I put him on a flush draw or AQ/KQ. It feels like a feeler bet. I think he's a customer, so I put him all in for $250 more. He thinks for a solid minute. Not acting, really thinking. I usually don't talk at the table, but I'm now begging for a call. I try to get him to call. After about three minutes he finally calls and shows J-2 of diamonds.

. I don't improve and he talks #### to me about being a weak player and how could I go all in with such a weak hand. He "had me" on A2 or QQ. I was

and shook it off. The guy had been there twenty minutes before he took my money and the money of the flushed guy and hit and ran. I was down to $200.I battled back and over four hours managed to get my stack to $2,100 from very solid play. I don't drink when I play and others were, particularly the obnoxious guy who runs the game. We got into a bit of a spat when I asked to spread a pot and calculated pot odds, then made a big call and won about $500 off him earlier with correct odds. He criticized and I said something along the lines of having to call before hitting one of my 13 outs against top pair.This guy bought in for $1,000 twice and had a stack that was within $40 of mine when I had $2,100. He was drunk and had obvious tells. He picked up queens once and kings and both times immediately stopped his gabbing and got serious. Otherwise he was flicking in raises and playing super loose and showing down marginal hands. I am getting close to cashing out and leaving, as it's about 2AM. I have been waiting forever to trap the guy. I was in middle position and it was checked to me. I looked at JJ and decided that this time I wanted to limp in hoping for a raise from one of a couple of loose players who raise junk. I am not in love with jacks, but I feel like I know where I stand with this crowd and am prepared to fold them on a bad flop. Sure enough, drunk guy in late position raises to $25. He's gabbing and laughing at some conversation and I am positive that he doesn't have a premium hand because his demeanor changes markedly. The woman in the BB goes all in for about $80. She's super weak and I'm not worried much about her. I think my jacks are good. I study the pot for a few seconds and the drunk guy makes a comment about me being and internet player and pot odds. I get more information that puts him on a marginal hand. I am sure he has KQ at best, but probably not even that. Could be as weak as 7s-Q10. That's the range I'm thinking. I announce raise and carefully count out another $200 and push it in. Almost immediately he says, "Another $500." All ears perk up. The woman on the BB makes a comment along the lines of "I'm going home." I immediately put her on AX and I know I'm ahead of her and that she has one or more cards of the over cards I'm worried about. I reevaluate whether he could have me and I'm seeing his balls doing the betting. He's trying to mark his territory in the game and has a beef against my math approach apparently. I think for awhile and announce all in for a total of about $2,100. He gives a couple of speeches that confirm that I'm good, then he says something along the lines of "I don't give a #### if I lose. My gut tells me I'm going to win this pot." I don't say a thing. He says he knows I have him now, but that he has a good feeling. He calls. He turns over KJ offsuit. Then he brags that he "has one of my outs." I tell him that I don't need it and the woman on the BB turns over A9 suited. Of course, flop comes a king. Turn another king. I'm drawing dead. He celebrates wildly starting on the first king and it gets worse as I take it perfectly stoically and say that I'm content. I got my money in in a good spot. But the ahole isn't done. He starts lecturing me about how you can't trust pot odds and you have to rely on your gut. Goes on as he stacks and I'm left with about $40. Obviously I know conventional wisdom says that if you can get your money in as a 70% favorite, you always should... But is there a point where you've reached a certain multiple of the buyin that you should cash in and insure a win?I find that I pretty consistently build big stacks only to eventually run into such a situation where the big hand takes it all away. The reason is because I never adjust my game to my stack. I am always willing to put all my chips in play even if I'm not going to rebuy. Is that correct? Is it mathematically correct to keep risking your chips against bigger stacks when you've reached a certain multiple of the buyin? Should I have a different approach to cash games? Should I try to keep the pots small and rely on my ability to outplay with post flop play and situations where I can get value with hands I'm sure are good? I built my stack that way. Should I be prepared to fold hands when I know I have a clear advantage just because of pot size and the downside risk? I "should" have had about $4,200 after that hand, but instead I lost $500.I'm just wondering if you tend to avoid the big clashes and rely on grinding or if you think that I should continue to put all my chips in play if I can. If I won that hand, I'd have had a stack four times bigger than anything else on the table and would be past the danger zone where I could lose my stack. I find that I'm often back to square one before I get to enjoy that big stack advantage. Any insight would be great! If it weren't this hand, I fell like I'd have pushed on some other hand with an advantage only to lose most of my stack. You can only enjoy your edge if you're left with chips. I didn't intend to rebuy past the $500 and didn't, so knowing that going in does it make sense to play within a narrower range of pot sizes or can you not look at the game in terms of a single buyin? When do you walk away? When do you decide to limit pot sizes? I felt very strongly that I had at least a coin flip and probably closer to 3:2 or better when I pushed and I was right. What would you have done?