As for your experience and how it relates to the bigger picture- would the world be a better place if more people had two awesome parents? Sure, of course. So what? Single parenthood is a symptom of a problem, not an isolated problem. This goes back to my whole rant about the difference between demanding accountability in individuals (fine and dandy) and expecting it across large segments of the population (pointless and absurd).
I disagree, I feel it is very much as isolated problem. But for the sake of argument, lets say I agree that it's a symptom of a larger problem - what is that larger problem?
I don't follow your argument here at all, sorry. What exactly are you saying with respect to black people in America and single parenthood? What do
you think is the reason for the high rate of children born out of wedlock, if not external forces?
You know what I think, I've said it multiple times. The oft-cited 70% figure is a function of a variety of forces, primarily (1) across the board reductions in marriage rates and birth rates in marriage skewing the % even though birth
rates (the far more important figure because it isolates the statistic) for unmarried black women are actually on a long and steady decline, and (2) poverty, incarceration and death making a large % of black men less than ideal marriage candidates.
But apparently you disagree with this? If so, what do you think?
Again, birth
rates aren't nearly as important as you're attempting to make them. We went over this yesterday - case in point the black population grew by 40% in the 20 years from 1990 to 2010 even with a declining birth rate, and at the same time was making up larger and larger % of the total US population (again, during a time of a declining birth rate). The statistic is that there are roughly 1.6M black children born out of wedlock per year today, roughly 3 times the actual number of the same from 50 years ago. That's the "isolated statistic." With mortality rates being what they are from a group of people that's only ~50m, we could easily see a situation where 2/3rds of the entire black population in this country was born out of wedlock in the next 2 decades.
As for your "across the board reductions in marriage",
that's not really true either. It's roughly twice as likely today than it was in 1960 for white and Latino individuals to not marry, but 4 times as likely for blacks.
As to your point 2) so you're saying that poverty, incarceration and death makes black males less than ideal marriage candidates, but more than fine to have 1.6m children a year with? Shouldn't those two be connected?
I mean, if a guy is poor, in jail, or dead and thus you don't want to marry, then why (or in the case of death, how) are you having kids with them?
As for what I think is the reason - lots of things, and honestly if I knew what it was I wouldn't be doing what I do. Some thoughts - It's brought on itself (child without a 2 parent household more likely have to have children out of wedlock themselves). Being easier to acquire different forms of welfare when a single parent. Seeing it in their own communities. Regardless of what the reason or reasons are, this is likely a problem/symptom where you don't need to know the reason to come up with a solution. What do you think a good solution would be?